Posted By: kmtoplay
As a provider do you ever have "Real" connections with hobbyists that make an encounter better than usual?
Absolutely!! There is no rhyme or reason to it.... it could be somebody I find physically attractive or not.
We could chat, establish rapport and it just took off from there; or he walked into the room and we were just instantly all over each other like horny teenagers, getting it on hot-pig-sex style until we totally wore ourselves out.
Physical/personal chemistry is a funny thing and I, for one, cannot magically create it.
Posted By: kmtoplay
So as a provider do you like when I client is into you and goes out of his way or even out of state to come and visit again?
If it's someone I like, then yes. If it's someone who is just "ok" then I may want to be careful to keep a certain "professional distance" as I'm NOT interested in socializing with this person outside of our dates.
Right now, I've got a few people I really like. One of them is from out-of-state. I absolutely love that he tries to work his schedule and travels so that we can get together. This is someone with whom I do chat and communicate OTC and with whom I might even spend some social non-P4P time if our schedules so coincided.
On a personal note: I've noticed that the aforementioned situations of instant explosive physical chemistry rarely become regular client/friends. But I do remember them. And fantasize about them from time to time.
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