I've noticed in the past year that be it PM's, email, text or whatever I've been in several situations where I have no idea if I'm talking with the provider or her assistant. It seems to happening more frequently.  There have been times where they identify who it is I'm in contact with. Then they switch. Switch again. It can get confusing. Especially with a date several weeks off.

I can totally understand this dilemma. Several of the ladies I know have assistants to help them with their weekly marketing, but prefer to communicate with clients themselves to build a fluid communication system and to get to know the man they will eventually be meeting.
I hope that ladies who have assistants writing on their behalf let the clients know so that an honest relationship can develop-this is good for trust as well as safety reasons between provider and client.

How well the provider, and booker communicate with one another.

There should be a ratings system, if people are going to do business that way.

... a works well with others category, if you will.  

 

 
 

True... What if the person doing the marketing gave me the impression we were going to play marbles...

Then when I get there, all she wants to play is jax?

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between the provider and her "assistant".

  I'm all for job creation; but I liked it better when there was only TWO people involved in the scheduling.

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As long as the lady is who she says she is, and rocks your world, I'm not sure it really matters who answers the phone or email

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If you haven't seen the woman before, never met her face to face, even if you "KNOW" that you're talking to the provider or to the assistant, you don't "KNOW" either of them. You can assume there's a person there, but proceed as if it's just a machine responding to your request.

Do you actually perceive the posts you are reading now as coming from a variety of real people? Or is the whole board, in your eyes, just a maze-game to bounce ideas off of? SHE (as well as her assistant) perceive YOU as just one voice in a maze-game of client requests to screen and select for the best outcome.

So until you meet in the flesh, it's just another game.

The Lumber Yard Waits

There have been times I knew I was dealing with a booker and probably others where I was dealing with one and didn't know it.  I don't think this is a new phenomenon, either.  And, like russ, what I care about is what she's like BCD.  As long as the set-up is businesslike, a woman can run her business how she likes.

The more people involved in planing an event, the greater the chance is for a break down in communication.

I don't think so.

Truthfully, I wonder more about how many women the screener is handling than about how many people are assisting the provider. But since it usually works out, it "doesn't really matter."

The point you chose to miss, just like dating an active provider. There can be the opportunity for more issues to arise. Plain and simple, the more complex a situation is, the more complex the arrangement could be

Your analogy is ludicrous, because in this case the number of people balloons from one to..........TWO!  And what if the hooker herself is great in the sack but has horrible organizational skills and knows it.  Jesus, what a douche-canoe you are.
Honestly, I don't think Johny even sees hookers.  There's certainly no evidence of it, and plenty of evidence no hooker would see him.  Especially one with a smart booker/screener to sniff him out.  It ain't hard.

Not sure I'm capable of a deep thought.

But hell the bourbon is flowing and I'm getting blown tomorrow, so life is good.

Answer: nada.  You still don't get it.  Your punishment is to go back and read my first post on this until you do get it. You are just too dull a tool to get it.

Say a screener in the afternoon handles four or five providers. Does a second screener come in at 5:00 to handle the evening traffic?

Aside from that, it doesn't really matter all that much. There are a lot providers who have schedulers and remain independent. Many of them tell you up front and sometimes the scheduler signs the emails. I have also asked.

or cat fight between the two I don't know; but the level of professionalism was thoroughly disappointing.

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I have an assistant, and my communication with my customers (internal and external) is just fine.

Get off my nuts, or whatever it was you said the other day.

Grow up!

Stupid is, as stupid does.

I'll add to that.

Dumbass!

Explain how more people being involved in a transaction is going to make anything work smother?

 
Less is more, less people to make mistakes, less mistakes made.

Don't forget we are supposed to be patronizing professional providers and assistants

So, find a way of putting things that allows you flirt with the lady you lust for on one level, and on another level, give the information to that the screener is interested in.

I don't even need to flirt with the actual hooker until I can taste her on my lips.

affect the anticipation discussed below! I can't imagine meeting with a man I've never communicated with as Sarah. I think I could do it as a brothel girl or something, but it wouldn't be the same service, and I wouldn't enjoy it as much. I like the build-up of anticipation- the little back and forth getting-to-know-you emails. Gives me a great sense of whom I'll be meeting and makes that meeting so much more intimate.  

Plus the fact that there's so much more potential for a fiasco with a random third party involved. Security issues, drama with some thing or another... Nah. I'd much rather attend to you all myself from start to finish. Intuition is paramount in this work and I can't see how it could work for me if someone else is doing the communicating.

Nick most people call this arithmetic.

I'm not weighing the pros and cons of a gal using an assistant, put down the booze, or take your insulin shot because you are acting pugnacious.

on top of a situation/relationship where things may not go as planed.

 
Not everything is about me... Go on Nick you can say it!

Any drunk is smarter than you.  The only question is why do you come here and insist on being humiliated by your own stupidity?  It's not a pretty picture.
And what happened to you on the P&R Board?  You've descended into total incoherence there.

You are beyond the point of making any sense

1) You have no idea if you're dealing with a booker or not.
2) You've never actually been with a hooker, have you? Its painfully obvious.

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Right now, can I really be sure that I'm communicating with Sarah? Or is someone posting in her stead? How do I proceed? Do I gush out how excited I would be to meet you? Or do I keep in mind that yours are not the only eyes on my post?

With this in mind, I elect to convey little more than the required information and at the same time evoke the feeling of the words I am not saying.

Can this be done? Only if two minds pause long enough to fall in sync.

If I am talking to a scheduler, I won't be flirting with the provider until the door swings open. The purpose of having a scheduler is to schedule appointments for them so they don't have to deal with phone calls and emails themselves.

Why can't you comprehend the most basic of communications?

I'm not out to get you, or trick you. Are you doing this on purpose? Are you under the influence?

Nothing wrong if you are. Just wondering why you can't seem to get the most basic of english.

 
... and it's not just you.

I think that is a big difference. Lots of providers use assistants, and I think that's fine as long as the clients know who they are talking to. I thought that was what the OP was talking about.
Now I hate to be in agreement with JCA, and I am rarely in agreement with Sympathyforthedevil either for that matter, but to me I don't care whether a provider uses an assistant but I do want to know if I am talking to an assistant or to the provider herself.

This is also true for providers of non sexual services.

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Look at it this way. If you were going to commit murder, how many other people do you want involved beside yourself?

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Your institution needs new drywall and paint if not a new foundation. Maybe you should have a scheduler who will place ads and conduct the difficult aspects of your business model.

You are welcome for my civilized intercourse.

or the girl at Popeye's.

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PS: It's spelled Johnny.  You can't even spell you own name.  Now go back to yelling "Melt! Melt! Melt!" What a  tool.

Now you're comparing booking a hooker to murder?  
Wow, you're dumb.  

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May I use that someday? That's some funny shit, I don't care who you are.

if her perspective clients don't have to talk to you.

 
I thought we were addressing the concerns from a clients POV. You deviated away from the discussion...

and look silly doing so, even if you are productive as you claim to be.

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I never said one way was better than the other.

 
What are you so wound up on? just a heavy does of dopamine, slow down, and tell Tobi to slow down.

She's too young to be so stressed.

What happened?  Seek help.  Please.

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There are, however, ways of stating something so that two people reading it will interpret different meanings. I'll concede to your point, though, in view of your vast knowledge of life and deep understanding of idle communication.

Don't you? Ha!

You just gotta ignore the guy, life and drinking and getting your cock sucked is so much better when you don't even bother with guys like this one's senseless babbling. And this is coming from a fucking drunk nerd. So really, consider that source. Cheers man, think of me when you get your dick sucked next, doh! Scratch that don't think of me, that could cause ED. Have fun man, enjoy and be safe.

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You are either confused, melted, retarded, drunk or on crack.  Seriously, dude, stop before you injure yourself or someone around you.  Oh.  Right.  You are utterly alone.
PS: Tobi's not here.  Are you that bad at stalking that you need to bring her into this? Wow, what a tool.

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If my customers don't know they are talking to my assistant (she has a sweet female voice with a wonderful little southern accent, and I, we'll I don't) then I guess I can get more past them than I want to. Seriously though, if I talk or email with Brittany to set up a date with Audrey, what the hell do I care? As long as Audrey fucks me silly and I end up with rubber band legs, I'm all good. I have yet to blow my load into Audrey's mouth and think damn, I sure wish it was Audrey I was talking to when I made my appointment. All I'm doing at that moment is enjoying the look from Audrey as I'm in utter ecstasy.

Damn, I love this hobby.

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And most of your retarded posts are not. You have been perpetually deviating from reality, moron.  

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Better brush up for those spelling bees come fall, preteen rapie...

And thank you for the youngster reference, ya gotta love it.

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I've seen her several times since I last reviewed her. Last time maybe 60 days ago. Would you like me to update? Please advise.  

I've been ignoring this guys senseless babbling for a short while but I just couldn't resist this one. Because yeah, the CIA has nothing more important to do than monitor Hooker-John conversations. That's some funny shit schoolboy, I mean keep up that nonsense and I'll start reading your bullshit from now on just for a good laugh.

Seriously, the CIA?

And, first of all, most of the time you aren't "talking" to anyone. Believe it or not, hookers have better things to do than talk to a John when setting up a date. And you're right.  What matters is the actual session.  That said, when I'm communicating with someone purporting to be the provider herself do I prefer to know it's really her?  Sure.  But what matters in the end is what happens BCD.

anywhere that moonlights as a provider?

 
I've never met the owner of this site.

 
You've never met me... and I've never met you.

I especially like getting my cock sucked on trains. But then again, I'm not quite sure if there is anywhere that I don't like having my cock sucked, except maybe the toilet, yeah I'm a sick fuck, but not quite that sick.

Sarah's opinion was only of by a slim margin, as was mine.

 
I might be dumber than I can imagine, but I know when I'm being observed.

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Can you?

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Reading your posts reminds me of how it felt when I was taking mescaline in the early 70s!

Ooops, he forgot the 2.... But Remember, 1 existed before 2!  And he filed a restraining order against 2.

If 1 + 2 = 3 it just wouldn't be fair!  The more we think about it, it just isn't fair!  

Therefore 1 + 2 = 1.  

ROFL

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at the DMV did you check the box for yes, or did you check the box for no?

Another non-sequitur.  It's in the dictionary under "N," or you can Google it.  I'll wait.

You have my blessing, lol.

State lines were meant to be crossed, especially when there's good alcohol on the other side.

It's a good thing I've not tried illegal drugs, or I'd be an addict and a drunk, huh?

Yes it does, dumb shit: what you meant
Yes, it does dumb shit: an object that does shit what be dumb
Yes it does dumb shit: ambiguous meaning

Commas are SO important.  You really need to nail that shit down if you expect to graduate from middle school.

If you wanted to play tennis, would you want a coach?

and you won't be the last. Just don't get too needy in the comprehension department. I don't always have the patience.

Ha-ha-ha.

Might I add "fool" in the nicest sense of that word?

It's a rare gent who could succeed, I'd imagine. It would take a generally above average intellect and command of the English language. I've seen about 4 men in my time on this board who might be successful, or even want to work that hard. You go, baby!

So do you operate on the assumption that every woman you contact may not be the woman you think you are contacting?

Verstehen Sie?

And as such, she will reveal her secrets in her own sweet time.

But again, do providers often work with more than one screener?

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I think I can make his logic work:

But my keyboard doesn't have a plus-or-minus key, so bear with me.

1 + 2 = 3,
1 - 2 = -1,
3 + -1 = 2...

No. I was wrong. That comes out 2.

You're right.

JCA is just stupid.

That's a line we aren't going to forget. ROFLMAO

It's time to file a restraining order against that keyboard!

Maybe happiness, maybe sorrow.

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marinated in too many hallucinogenics for a number of years.

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Well, I've got my hands really full with a very ill mom and a biz sale, but if it'll let you sleep better I'll get it done. Your call. Just let me know

Your obsession with me is disturbing.