Would make you see that client again. I had one of them. Was in an area with not much dating prospects , and the urge got the better of me,even after seeing a few mixed reviews. Sent her the money for Lyft.
This girl showed up with food and needing a shower - a first for me, but lets continue, not a big deal. Then she starts playing rap music on her phone. A more romantic music would be better. I quickly realized that am dealing with a ghetto white girl. I was like ,"what the hell did I just did". Waited about half an hour for the session to start. Session was mediocre to say the least. I would be better off just taking care of myself. Since that , I start planning ahead ,even if it means to travel a few miles further. Last time I checked, she still advertises, but reviews have not improved so it was not just an off night for her..
Yes. I had a very strange fellow show up 30 min early for the appointment and sit in my driveway in his car (I had no clue he was there and he never even confirmed that morning so I assumed was going to be a NCNS!)
When he came in he was wearing baggy sweat pants and a sweatshirt. Weird, but OK. We start chatting a bit and he tells me he has not driven in 3 years as he had a stroke. OK....
He had mentioned before he was married and I asked him what he told his wife when he left and he replied "I didn't, I just got in the car and left."
I then enter panic mode as I picture in my mind a swat team surrounding my house as a gawd damn silver alert for my county is broadcast with a full description of this guy and the car he is driving THAT IS IN MY DRIVEWAY AND HE IS IN MY HOOKER HOUSE.
I tell him to take his money back and he needs to leave. He then goes into full tantrum toddler mode and starts pumping his fists and swinging his feet screaming "I'M NOT LEAVING! I'M NOT LEAVING!"
After about 15 minutes of this nonsense I convince him to leave. He messaged me about 4 or 5 times after telling me how of an amazing time he had and that he wants to see me again. I in no uncertain terms told him that was NEVER going to happen again. Ever. As in never ever ever. Worst "client" ever.
I feel sorry for the guy but at the same time I understand why you would not see him. If he had a stroke, was not supposed to be driving, and acted like a five year old; all that sort of raises questions about whether he really knew what he was doing. Which brings up consent in a way. And you’re right about a possible silver alert.
If that’s the worst client you ever had I’d say you’re doing pretty good, based on stories I’ve heard.
Honestly when he first started messaging me his comments were kind of odd, but nothing that made me prepare for this nonsense. In one of his messages after this debacle he said that he also had ordered Viagra for our next visit (that I told him was never going to happen). He said his wife got the package and asked him about it, and he apparently told her that "he has a girlfriend now".
This was last winter and neither he nor his wife have contacted me, so I am assuming (and hoping!!) this has blown over and he has forgotten about me.
Fingers crossed.....
On a side note there are a lot of unscrupulous providers in this industry unfortunately and I know that if one of them had come across this guy they would have bled him dry and thought nothing of it. Just one more reason why the illegality of this business creates more problems than it helps. The law does not care if you are mentally incompetent and if you are trying to engage in illegal activity and all of your retirement funds are depleted. At the very least they will slap you with a "soliciting prostitution" ticket for all your troubles.
He probably had his phone taken away after he revealed he had a “girlfriend”. Also may well have moved to a higher level of care.
Good point about the illegality.
So true. Some people think that because sex work is considered illegal ( even though, presidents,judges,pastors politician etc..etc all partake ) they can do things and get away with it.
Can't be too careful, some real dangerous, deranged, crazy people out there.
People must be vetted stringently , especially when coming to your house. Make sure someone got your back at all times and you're never alone. Dont be a statistic.
Camera on the property is important too . Many simple affordable ones on Amazon that works with a smart phone.
she was white? I would have noticed that when I booked. Did she not look white in her photos?
To answer your main question, I have had a handful of girls that had vaginitis, and the smell was a turn off. There is no way to know that in advance, so it's something you have to deal with on the fly. I've had a couple others who were BSC so that's a no repeat for me, but I don't repeat with 20% of the ladies I see based on lack of skills/service anyway. The number might be higher if I wasn't methodical in doing my research before I book.
I would never book a desperation appointment like the one you describe in the first place. You said she had mixed reviews. Even one mention of body odor makes it a pass for me. There is no excuse for a professional to show up less that sparkling clean unless she was mugged or walked through horse shit on the way.
she was white?
Honestly, I don't care if English is not his native language - he needs to proof-read his posts before clicking "post message". Google Translate works wonders.
As I said before, actually many times now. I will be replacing this tablet soon, because I think it's outdated. It has a " word prompt " feature that I can't figure out how to fix, and sometimes it eliminates and or sometimes insert its own words or phrase. So for now I will just make corrections when this happens .
Even in writing this reponse, I had to correct several words. Realized that proof reading is not the only issue.
Wrong adjective: ghetto, not white. I got the impression that he knew he was meeting a complexion = white white girl. What he was not expecting from the ads was a ghetto style rapper white girl.
she was white? I would have noticed that when I booked. Did she not look white in her photos?
To answer your main question, I have had a handful of girls that had vaginitis, and the smell was a turn off. There is no way to know that in advance, so it's something you have to deal with on the fly. I've had a couple others who were BSC so that's a no repeat for me, but I don't repeat with 20% of the ladies I see based on lack of skills/service anyway. The number might be higher if I wasn't methodical in doing my research before I book.
I would never book a desperation appointment like the one you describe in the first place. You said she had mixed reviews. Even one mention of body odor makes it a pass for me. There is no excuse for a professional to show up less that sparkling clean unless she was mugged or walked through horse shit on the way.
Ghetto is not black, it is not white,it is not from the inner city ,it is not from the trailer park. It's a mentality that can be anywhere, and decent people can be found in all of those areas mentioned.
The reason I was specific in using the phrase " ghetto white girl " is because, if I did not used it ,you would automatically thing that am referring to someone classified as black according to society 's perceptions and stimatization of a particular group, of which you are well adjusted in that thinking.
This list could be very long. I didn’t find a resource like TER for a while so I was taking chances without much experience for some time. Dealt with my fair share of bait and switches, pics that were a good 20 years younger, and upsell tricks. But there is one that took the cake.
I found this lady on backpage. Pics were super hot. But they always are. And yet I fell for it. Anyway, I get there and she is nothing like the pics. But hey I figured I would still get off. She gets my pants off and is going down on me. Then all of the sudden a Tranny about a foot taller than me and about 30-40 lbs more muscular than me jumps out of a closet. She gets close to us and starts talking 3 some. I want no part of it. But she is up in my space. She whips her cock out and starts stroking it telling me how she knows I want some. I try to get out. She’s blocking my exit path and pleading for me to give them more money. I’m kind of freaking out. I don’t remember all of the details, but somehow I managed to get out. Yeah, I wouldn’t go back to her for free.
"A tranny jumps out of the closet"
LOL
by a tranny who jumped out of the closet? One out of every six reviews you have are trannies. It would have been an opportunity to negotiate a good price for what you are used to anyway, right?
I am going to go out on a limb and say he was expecting to get laid. What he probably was not expecting what a gawd damn Ringling brothers circus show jumping out of the closet. If you are not mentally prepared I can see how that would unhinge a person.
And none of them are a foot taller then me, more muscular than me, and, quite frankly, scary. This was not a passable tranny by any means. This was more of a man with tits type of tranny, who likely was a top.
And seriously, you took the time to count my reviews and do the math to know the number? Stop with the stalker vibes and get off my D.
Are you new here???? LOL He stalks everyone that posts on here. He has no life outside of TER.
it says how many reviews you have. Click on your reviews and they are all displayed instantly. It took 15 seconds to count them because they are clearly identified as TS reviews. Don't be overcome with your own self-importance. It was a legitimate question in that you hobby with trannies. If you had only straight reviews of GG's, then I understand why you could have found it scary. I'm not judging, just trying to make sense in the context of your original comment about the jumping tranny.
I am well aware that it doesn't take much time. The fact that you even put any thought into it is still stalkerish. You decided to research me. I didn't ask for that, that's all you. After you saw the number of reviews I had. You counted the ones that are TS escorts. Then, you divided it and came up with a number. Sure, simple math, so it took you all of a couple minutes. But we are not talking about the time it took away from your life. Clearly, it's not like 2 minutes gains you much, especially when you're already spending hours a day responding to every thread you possibly can. It's obvious you have plently of spare time in your shallow life.
Nevertheless, you felt it was important to better understand my story, because it didn't make complete sense to you until you dug into me more, and it made even less sense because holly sh*t I have been with trannies by choice. Mind blown. I guess that means I should have been happy like a Playboy Bunny just jumped out of a cake and not surprised at all.
Oh, and no you are not judging at all, because you are the truth teller and are always so straight up. End sarcasm. No, you are a liar and you lie all of the time. You are full of yourself and full of sh*t. You already knew I had been with trannies, so you dug into me more so you could try to rattle me. But, like last time, you are failing. I'm not trying to hide this fact, not one bit. But I am making it clear that you are dumb and you make dumb points.
Since I don't think anyone else needs what happened to me spelled out, and you are someone I care the least about, I will stop here and not further explain anything else to your small brain. Have fun with your attempt to fire back, and I will let it sit here and stew because nothing you can say will rattle me. You do not know me. You do not know anything about me. Anything you will say will be a fabrication of what your small brain thinks, and very likely not true.
I believe you and I have exchanged posts before when I didn't understand something you have posted about trannies, so no "digging" was necessary. Your review history is available to all.
I don't get your long reply. In the words of the bard, "The lady doth protest too much, methinks." Do you see the irony in YOU posting four paragraphs of diatribe and then saying, " nothing you can say will rattle me." It seems I already have, don't you agree? Lol
You do realize that if you keep feeding him he is just going to keep stroking his hard on. Best to just ignore. He goes in a cycle. When he realizes he is not getting any attention he will then find a way to mimic how normal humans interact so he can get his attention again. He was obviously neglected as a child during his formative years.
Oh I know and I am done. I made my point. Nothing else to say.
as a child I would have become a sex worker. A sad truth about a common denominator I have learned after interacting with over a thousand providers, but you can try to convince yourself otherwise by projecting like you do.
You keep white-knighting for the guys who are weak here. If you're looking for business, that seems counter-intuitive. Most men don't want to be reminded about how weak they are, and here you are, showing that they can't look out for themselves.
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Around here .So what if he wants to play both sides of the fence.You only live once, right. LMAO😂🤣😀
I had been looking forward to a first-time meeting with a visiting provider with good reviews that turned out to be the worst ever. That attractive long blond hair turned out to be mostly extensions that couldn't be touched or they would fall out. She was much older than advertised. But the worst part was she was eating when I arrived because she had "an intestinal condition". It was all that and more - terrible breath and stomach noise the entire time. A nightmare I would not repeat under any circumstances.
Eating would probably be ok if you and she was spending the night.
I guess I'd tolerate a lot "for free." There are certainly many I would never pay for again.
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Nothing really terrible, just annoying.
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Like the sugar babe who showed up with her emotional support dog. That sort of persumptuousness really turns me off.
...was a 6.5 out of 10. I attribute my good track record to some solid research and finding providers that I feel will have a good chemistry with me. I try to anticipate things ahead of time to make everything as easy as possible for the provider, especially if I'm her first woman customer and she's nervous and not sure how to make that first move. I love it when a provider takes the initiative and is very sexually aggressive, but it doesn't happen every time, unfortunately 🫤
Ended in a charge of sexual assault with a concrete dildo.
Ugh what was I even doing there?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s8wxsUv_2vg
Ended in a charge of sexual assault with a concrete dildo.
Ugh what was I even doing there?
I’ll take that to mean you’re wondering. Which is fair.
Sounds like you became Frankenstein instead of FrandDrebin.
This happened when I was VERY new... Was at a client's home, and well into making good use of the time he paid me for, when his girlfriend/wife/whatever showed up, and was understandably quite upset. She went into full-on freak out mode immediately, throwing stuff, screaming, and beating his ass. It was terrifying and I'm just glad her rage was directed at him so I could make a rapid exit!
In my opinion , it's too dangerous to go to someone's home rather than a decent hotel, where cameras are likely.
"can't have his cake and eat it too". Is this the right adage ?
Some relationships are messed up, you're unhappily, you can't leave, you can't get what you crave, you can't leave, you can't stay... etc...😁
I once booked a porn star for an overnight. She was such a horrible human- arrogant, rude to hotel staff, servers, me.. After our night out, I had her call her driver and take her home even though I had paid for the whole night. I just couldn’t take any more of her nasty attitude. Would I fuck her again for free? Yeah sure. Beyond that I wouldn’t want her company again even if she was paying me.