on this thread you made a point to say you spend 3-5K a month. I've got news for you . . . . that's NOT a lot of money to spend a month on pussy. I know of several guys, including some who are frequent posters here, who pretty consistently spend that much in a week. I also have friends that will spend $20,000 for a WEEKEND of P4P. There is a Kgirl booker in OC that will set up a weekend trip to Vegas for you and a friend with a limo, two Kgirls each, and 2 hotel suites for $50,000, which works out to only $25,000 for each of you. Granted, there are probably some here that are impressed by your number, so why not say it one more time for them, and then we can move on? Yawn.
Its also not necessary to agree with me in your first sentence, and they try to explain WHY you got it wrong by providing info that was not in your OP. That's most commonly referred to as trying to cover your ass. Most here have seen enough of that to know what's going on.
WILL NOT RESPOND TO TEXTS :
* Hey Baby , what’s up ?
* Do you give BBBJ ?
* DICK PICS
Are men IDIOTS or did their parents fail to teach them proper etiquette ?
Nothing irritates me the more than receiving those three texts.
First of all , I am not your baby nor will I ever be.
We are not your girlfriends, guys .
We are providers who provide a SERVICE.
Please understand what that means.
Second off , do not contact providers asking for a specific service.
I do not know if you afflicted with law enforcement nor do you know if I am.
Safety is priority.
Do some homework before you contact a provider and you will get a general idea of the services they provide.
Lastly , the DREADED DICK PIC !!!
No , we are not impressed by a pic of your penis and I can promise you that no provider ever has been turned on when receiving a dick pic.
What turns us on is respect for our time , punctuality , good hygiene , etiquette and nothing gets us going more than ....
$$$ MONEY , MONEY , MONEY $$$
so it doesn’t hurt to TIP
Not your length , girth , or ability to maintain a rock hard erection will ever get a provider going.
Sorry boys , it is sadly the truth .
#Notyourbaby #penismakesmevomit
First of all, the word is "affiliated" and not "afflicted". I am sure the cops are afflicted with something, probably a tremendous tendency to racially profile, but that is another point of discussion beyond the scope of your post.
Second, you are here to provide a service, and getting paid tax-free money to do so. You are catering to a wide spectrum of men, with varying degrees of education, sophistication, and disposable income. If you don't like what they texted you, simply block them and move on. Your fuse is way too short for this business. But judging by your looks after seeing some of your ads, your temperance, and your intelligence, there are not too many options left for you. Good luck.
The guys that send dick pics are never going to see a post like this and think to themselves "maybe I should stop that" lol OTOH, I (was) going to say that guys that see little rants like this that show a provider really doesn't like what she does or her clientele, but after checking out her profile I am pretty sure that aside from perhaps the likes of MDSTUDS, no one else who ever reads this thread ever would have had her on their radar to begin with.
And EVERYONE has options. Waffle House is always an option, but I will confess that most of the Waffle House waitresses seem to have much better attitudes and treat their customers much better than the OP.
Ya, she is bitching about window shoppers and tire kickers. Those guys are broke af, earning a slave wage working as an Amazon Fulfillment picker or Lyft driver, and simply trying to live out their poverty-stricken fantasies knowing they could not afford to pay for commercial pussy. Guys like me who spend 3-5K PER MONTH on hookers do not send dick pics, and are capable of texting more than 3 word abbreviations, although I have to admit I am particularly fond of texting "baby" and "babe" and use them a lot, but it is meant to be endearing and not condescending or insulting. The guys who can actually afford you just read your online rant and simply shook their heads and laughed at you OP. The guys who can't afford you are sending dick pics as we speak.
"tax-free" money. Some of it is, but most career providers who are smart file tax returns, declaring a nominal income commensurate with whatever job they claim to have. I have known many that claim to be "party planners, tour guides, models, and for some of the foreign girls, translators, among other professions. Then they report a reasonable salary for any of these "cash" jobs, usually $50-60,000, and take the standard deduction, which is not subject to audit. So they are out maybe $10-12,000 in tax on a REAL income of maybe $200,000. The benefit is that it also provides them with a "cover" for things like buying a house, leasing a car, etc. They just show their tax returns at proof of income. The IRS won't bother them because they are taking the standard deduction and not trying to claim every little "itemized" deduction.
I agree with the rest of your post.
Yeah but you are talking about career hookers. I specialize in fucking 18-22 yo chicks who join Hx, earn enough money to pay for their new iPhone, then disappear and never return. Their loss is gained by the daily addition of new 18-20 hot chicks. I stay away from career hookers with 378 reviews here.
And I highly doubt these hot young chicks I spend 3-5K a month on are doing what you just described, filing 1040's and concerning themselves with estate planning. Y'all can have the savvy 40 yo hookers. Oops I'm sorry. I meant "tour guides" and "car show models".
on this thread you made a point to say you spend 3-5K a month. I've got news for you . . . . that's NOT a lot of money to spend a month on pussy. I know of several guys, including some who are frequent posters here, who pretty consistently spend that much in a week. I also have friends that will spend $20,000 for a WEEKEND of P4P. There is a Kgirl booker in OC that will set up a weekend trip to Vegas for you and a friend with a limo, two Kgirls each, and 2 hotel suites for $50,000, which works out to only $25,000 for each of you. Granted, there are probably some here that are impressed by your number, so why not say it one more time for them, and then we can move on? Yawn.
Its also not necessary to agree with me in your first sentence, and they try to explain WHY you got it wrong by providing info that was not in your OP. That's most commonly referred to as trying to cover your ass. Most here have seen enough of that to know what's going on.
The post was meant to be funny and vent a few frustrations that I am sure other providers have.
There was absolutely no reason to throw low blows with your response attacking me on various levels.
I am actually quite lovely / extremely kind and enjoy very much what I do as long as I feel respected / safe / limits respected.
Also, how do you know if I claimed or did not claim taxes ?
You are very quick to assume.
to walk it back. Not sure anyone is buying it.
I don't think it was a "great" attempt at all. I thought it was a very WEAK attempt to do so once she saw the reaction she got.
OTOH, I do agree with you about whether anyone is buying it. So you get one out of two, still a failing grade. lol
you being "quite lovely / extremely kind and enjoy very much what I do" did NOT translate at all from your initial OP.
Most "other providers" have the common sense NOT to denigrate "men" in general, nor do they come on here, with MANY potential clients eyeing up their post, to "vent frustrations" publicly.
To be sure, there is a time and a place to let your frustration out, like bc here by pm or email a fellow SW, or something similar. GaG does so by waffling a young Asian with a fifth of quality vodka in him so I am certain he, nor I, are ones to down play the positives of venting your frustrations out.
Now imagine if you led with the "quite lovely and extremely kind" part of your personality that you seem to think you possess and allowed us to get to know you a bit and maybe even like you?
But no, in your VERY first post EVER, you thought throwing a hissy and having a childish, anti-male melt down was the way to go.
Fortunately for you, I think you will get a second (or in your case now a THIRD) chance from the good peeps here to show all that loveliness and kindness and I guarantee you won be treated like this again.
Now, go back out the door and come in again and let's see what happens, or will it just be easier to run away little girl? Your call.
way to say "she shot herself in the foot." Lol
This is a "people" business or didn't you get that memo?
Whining about potential clients, and doing so publicly is VERY VERY unprofessional and gives the impression you are EXTREMELY burnt out.
So you have to put up with a few three word date requests. Oh the horrors! Why cant you take all of 3/10's of a second to JUST ignore them and move onto a more serious request, instead of bringing your drama here for the world to see?
And look on the bright side. You are GETTING dick pics from guys. Nick here, is SENDING them to guys. LOL
Made me laugh out loud. Thanks 😎😂😘
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It amazed me how many providers actually hate men that are in this line of work but it seems to be very common.
Yikes.
At least she should have PLENTY of time to finish that New York Times Sunday Crossword Puzzle she has always wanted to finish. Although considering her literary skills, she may need YEARS to finish even one of the daily puzzles. lol
OR, maybe she and MDSTUDS can get together and make love babies together? Ooops, I forgot, she doesn't like to fuck either. Well maybe that's a blessing then. rofl
what about providers with internalized misogyny tho
Now everyone seem to lazzy to call.
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I still don't text I have call and when I here cought, sneezing, dry mouth, or she has ask someone what to say I pass.
3. Some guys will need to send a photo album to fit there dick because so big. But providers who want dick pick are black mailers scammers.
and your TER profile describes you as a $100/hr masseuse, I would think that you would embrace a marketing strategy that allows for the easy upsell. When a guy sends you a dick pic, instead of not responding, why not tell him, "Geez, what a monster. I will see you but its going to be $150 plus tip?" How can he say NO. When you're handed lemons, make lemonade.
if you have an open page, yes some nimrods are going to do it.. I don't have my number posted on TER or my website. I've let dick pics get the better of me when I open up my Twitter page but try not to.
I highly advise not coming on the GDB blasting guys as a whole. Maybe see if TER will let you on the Providers Only Board after posting some interesting and positive post here.
Steph XO
You just made me spit coffee all over my laptop. You have a way of distilling all the rhetoric down to the main point. LOL
Nah, it would probably just knock her phone out of hands. 😂
All kidding aside, I totally get that when you work in customer service you sometimes get lousy customers, and I get feeling like you need to vent, but doing so in this way do you think it will increase the number and quality of your customers or decrease it? You are providing a service but you’re also running a business.
This isn't rocket science.