Farewell Tour or Quietly Into the Night?
So I advise an UTR radar provider to go quietly, but she wants to go out buck-naked wild. What advice would you give her?
She has to live with the decision, not you.
If she's UTR, retire quietly publically, but be sure to go out with a bang with her regulars!
Life experiences are sometimes what we think they will be and sometimes they are not, for better or worse. But you need to "do it" in order to find out. I would say as long as it's not life threatening or just reckless, advise her to do what she feels will make her happy.
Ultimately, it's her decision anyway so I kind of fail to see your dilemma in the brief description of the original post.
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