Just curious - do any of you ever choose to engage in less than FS/sex when you see a FS/GFE provider (massage, enjoy each other's company, etc.)?  If so, how do the ladies typically respond?

I ask a civvie girl out to dinner.  I'm certainly not paying a provider's time unless I plan on sampling more of the menu.  That's just me.  I still have civvie options. if there's not going to be sex.  If you don't have enough "game" to get a civvie girl to go out with you, then you have no choice but to pay someone, IMO, or else resign yourself to being lonely.    

If you want a legit massage, go to a spa, if you want a happy ending, go to an AMP. I often go to a legit massage place AFTER a session, rather than expecting a good masseuse to be good at sex and a good provider to be good at massage.  I know there are provider CMT's, but I prefer to separate the two activities and enjoy each for its own benefits.

Many men can only finish once during a 1 or even 2-hour date.   So if the fireworks prematurely go off during oral (kinda happens a lot with me) then we don't get to FS.  

How do I respond?  I tell him we can try again, and am always happy to do so!  Some will even try stuffing it in limp (doesn't usually work) and I suppose that's mainly so they can at least tell themselves they got FS.  LOL.  

I am a horn dog and I ALWAYS want to fuck.  

but if that's what you want to do with the time you are paying for, be my guest. It's your dime.

Speaking for myself, I don't pay for "time and companionship" I pay for NSA sex. I am completely unapologetic in that regard. I like to fuck, strike that. I LOVE to fuck, and that is what is worth hundreds of dollars an hour to me, not "companionship"

...tho DATY is a given

My typical date is DFK, DATY and BBBJTC.  Since I will not do bareback FS and cant stand a condom all of my endings are bbbj.  No problem for me, I'm perfectly happy with that (I'm also old, LOL)

talented lady makes me pop during oral, then I may not finish during FS for a second or third round during longer sessions. But I don't mind because most of the adventure is in trying with her. My experience has shown that they're always eager to try again.

In fact, if all guys really came as much as they say in reviews, the earth would be covered by a sheet of sperm rivaling the Cryogenian ice age.

So I only see FS providers, and I make damn sure I get my money's worth.  So my answer to your question would be hell, shit, and fuck no.

If the main event includes BBBJ-CIM that is full service IMO. As others have said, that happens a lot and sometimes it's fun to have just oral good times.  

If I just want massage/company, I'll book a massage girl who has a residential incall. She'll be 1/2 the price as well!

they are surprised, some puzzled, when I tell them I'm only interested in a massage...oh, and a bbbj, if they offer it.

...as covering your tail end with it would suit me just fine.

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...can be better than FS. BBBJ, CIM, TF, HJ, PM along with a lot of building and edging is ecstasy.

I've had many clients who really just wanted to enjoy my company... At first, it came off as a surprise because the majority only come looking for one thing... But it's actually relaxing having someone that just want's a massage, or to talk, or who is genuinely looking for companionship.

XOXO Xia Valentino

whose menus provide for both FS and non-FS offerings (The latter at a decidedly lower price.)  Since they can delight me so well without FS, I usually opt for that, and don't feel the least bit shorted.

to a provider I'd seen several times, mostly as a going away present for her as her tour had been fairly hard on her. I don't know if she just didn't quite understand what I was offing (it was around christmas time) but after about 15 minutes she initiated and I certainly didn't fight

It might have been because I'm just irresistible, probably the reason I think. It could also have been that having the sex is a good way of keeping some distance or keeping things "professional" or just better than conversation when English is not one's strong suit. I'm pretty sure it was the first thing though so YMMV

What makes you inquire?

My ATF said the same thing to me. I once asked her about a social rate and she said that she doesn't charge any less for non-sexual activity because plenty of her customers are just paying to talk or have companionship.

I only offer FBSM, and many of my clients are repeats (some for years). I come from a sensual Tantra perspective, so very focused on the relaxation and arousal aspects, a good ending, as well as breath, moving energy...it is a different experience but very satisfying for what it is. But if they really, really want FS, it is not for them.

I know the ladies say it's all about the guys, but c'mon, if you're a guy, you want to make her happy too. In fact, for some of us, seeing the unmistakeable signs that she's enjoying herself is a huge turn on. With that said, sometimes I really want it to be all about me. In those instances, if her ad allows, I opt for a straight massage, a fbsm, a fbsm+, and so on. So to me, when it's truly all about me, I deem that to be more than FS. The only less than in those situations is the rate.  

Also, recently I did an all kissing daty session. Just because. But those don't happen too often. Not many ladies can handle that type of intensity for an extended period of time.  

I've never done a session strictly for the conversation and companionship. But there have been many times when things went otc, and that's exactly what happened.

I do FS if the girls throat needs a break.  Not all girls can do a solid hour of BBBJ, which I prefer.

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And I generally got what I wanted.

with your gf that you didn't miss the intercourse?

I don't understand the 'less than'. Its the girlfriend experience and usually, overall, that means there are no boxes to tick off. And to some it doesn't mean talking all night either (because even a bf is waiting for 'it' to start lol)

If you are choosing ahead of time what exactly you are going to do, where is the spontaneity? If you are looking for a connection (even a physical one) how is that supposed to happen when you have A, B & C in your head? Then there could be a complaint of 'mechanical' or the threat of an 'unfulfilling' experience. That's part of the reason you see a professional. A Professional knows how to do that with the least risk of an 'empty' experience.

So you are aware of what CAN happen but the whole thing takes on a life of its own. You could say you have that as a 'restriction' so as to make it clear you don't want that. Then let the professional be creative and let them make it an exciting and worthwhile experience, based on what they know about ... things

Of course men go into a meeting with no intention of obtaining the FS ending! Who knows their reasons why? Sometimes they lose 'it' when the condom comes into play. So they have created other exciting and enjoyable ways to spend their time with the lady of their choosing.

I think the main point is though to not reduce each activity to an a la carte menu. The reason: you guys have no idea what girls think should be the value of each 'item'. What you think should be cheaper is actually the high ticket item to a girl. As a result of this discrepancy girls have decided to make their rates to include a variety of activities, which may or may not happen (due to preferences and maybe time, and the feel of the moment) instead of allowing a menu to choose from. There would many arguments there and none of you would get laid lol

I Prefer to only book sensual massage services via Internet. I find it unsafe to tell all your pricing via Internet in my opinion. If the chemistry is right then we can move on to something a little more fun.