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Show...it's always a show.

If you're paying and want to cuddle...what is the problem?

We are talking about hookers....right?

then again there's a lot going on in those first few seconds, so sometimes it's a bit hard to separate the events.

I can think of a few that the initial reception was a bit on the cool side, but as the evening wore on, things got a lot more heated.

I can think of one that started pretty good, but then found myself not enjoying the session as much as I had hoped for various reasons.

On rare occasions they will, but for the most part, I realize that sometimes people are just nervous, and that can change a person's personality/approach immensely. Someone who may come across as distant or not really "there", may just be nervous...which usually subsides within the first 20 minutes or so...although some are still nervous up until the end, but on subsequent appointments are more themselves.  

I have found that in many situations, the first impression an individual portrays (those first 5-10 minutes), will let me know if we are compatible or not...sometimes people just do not "click", for whatever reason..no matter how hard you try, there's just something there that rubs the other person the wrong way...thankfully, these situations are few and far between

No disrespect, but at what fucking point in time do you think this stops becoming a show? They're entertainers who provide a service for a fee! Why do you constantly try to make this into something other than P4P?

I make up my mind to "like" her as long as she is as advertised and makes any effort
and I take responsibility for making the latter easier for her....

I almost always experience good chemistry and it does hold up -   I rarely repeat with providers though so cannot speak to that issue....

I have experienced a negative or lack of connection or whatever occasionally and I believe that this is just personalities that do not click.....  almost (but not always) able to enjoy good sex anyway as the ladies are quite professional (and so am I at this point I guess lol)  but the sessions are a lot less memorable.....

It's not like you were asking her to actually go into CG now...that is a tough task for some.

But cuddling...seriously?

Maybe use a pillow instead...the pillow won't refuse that request.

I don't know many hookers who would either.  Guess you do.  Maybe it's you?

There's no shortage of dudes who refuse to accept P4P for what it is.

Those who want this to be a romance can become dangerous.

not a cuddler myself. Never have been in any world, never will be in any world. When I wanna play, I play, wanna fuck, I fuck, wanna sleep, I sleep. Pretty simple rules laying next to moi at night lol. Nothing fancy.  

Mr. Tidwell, again, keep it simple. I do apologize if that blows any impression you have of me. I do like to do other things however. -- Modified on 8/5/2014 3:22:24 PM

If all you want to do is cuddle...she'll cuddle.

It's your dime...and you're not asking for something that requires any type of prep.

Just to be safe however...tell her (anyone) that you want to cuddle.  If some gal wrote back and said "I don't like that...so nope..I won't see you"....let us know.

There's a first time for everything.

And you are a romantic...own it.

Some gals like that so long as you leave and don't harass her about being her "friend".

Let me know if you have a problem with some gal turning you down for a cuddlefest.  We can make this happen!

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Thought it was natural thing, either you haven't or you don't  

How do you create chemistry between two people?  

If you know how, please bottle and sell it. You will be millionaire and there will lot less divorced people in this world.

I think not. I think I am full of sunshine and goodness thank you very much. Perhaps if Mr. Tidwell wanted to cuddle, I'd cuddle. But only with him. He'd have to book first however.

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I'll see if he's giving up his quest to change up TER and hopefully he'll contact you.

Ummm....he might have to pay on account.  Is that OK?

the answer to that question lol. Many speak and do not act. It is something I am quite used to here. I much prefer the acting piece over the other very much so. Those are the gentlemen who 'peak' my interest and actually keep it. I get bored rather quickly I think you gather. I know, another HUGE flaw of mine. Geezk...oh well, I can live with it, can you? Talking is highly overrated, don't ya think?

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Just wanted some clarification here.