I never haggle ove price. I inquire if I don't know and simply leave the white envelope where it can be seen.
But I have this question: If a lady typically does incall, and charges $$$1/2, and you offer your hotel room since you're going to be in town on business anyway, is it rude to ask for a little extra time, say half an hour, since you are saving her the room expense? The thought occured to me, but I don't want to commit a faux pas. What would be the correct way to ask this, if any?
Obviously I have a lot of respect for the lady, and don't want screw this up.
Any advice that's forthcoming, especially from providers, will be appreciated.
I'd love to see you as I'm going to be in town for a convention anyway, staying at the X Hotel. I'll be swamped with convention agenda, so it would be better for me to have you come here - what was your outcall rate?
So there is no missunderstandings, confusion, or whatever lol If I feel that the chemistry is there, I would be happy to stay for no extra, which I have done plenty of times 
I’m especially not a provider (sorry). I’m a would-be provider, though, still waiting for my first appointment (ahem, Ladies…). And I have no advice to offer (double sorry).
Nonetheless, I agonize over these $ issues. I want to feel good before and after our appointment. I don’t want either party to feel unfairly used or taken advantage of…
The threshold issue I can’t get past is: how to measure two people's feelings in terms of $$$?
Worded differently, can you gauge color with a ruler?
Obviously, the problem is the money. As you clearly suspect, it is inadequate to the task. It is also the root of all evil. It’s never discussed in some families and has broken others apart. Not to mention ruined friendships, partnerships and a few marriages. I dare say, theoretically, it could fracture an otherwise tight provider-gent relationship.
I agree with you, don’t haggle. Forget the money. That’s it.
Should she discount her rate even though she had to leave her place, fight traffic, overcome bad weather, take on new/unfamiliar/additional risk, arrive and depart within local BAT limits, etc.? "YES" is obviously the only right answer.
However, I believe I rate (on my best day, downhill, with the wind at my back, etc.) a four, on both looks and performance (i.e., OK if drunk but just laid there). Should I therefore be charged more?
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No, I'll write one. But I still need an answer to my question (how do you review perfection without taking something away...?)
I think that it is a little rude to ask for a discount. If a lady has hers prices set then it up to each individal to decide if they want to or can afford to pay the donation. Let be honest someone will pay $$$$ for a lady that meets his idea of beauty or service. Yet, will pass on a lady with a donation of $$ if he feels she doesn't meet his needs.
Then there is the ladys who provide both incall and outcall but the prices are different. Some may charge less for incall so that they don't have to deal with the travel time to and from the individals homes or hotels.
Basicly I guess what I'am trying to say is try to find out the damage to your wallet and then say yes or no. If possbile take advantage of any discounts (I not cheap, just poor).
I THINK you're proposing to let the lady use YOUR hotel room as her incall location while you're not there in exchange for some of her time. Is that correct?
I imagine most of us could learn many a trick about hotel booking services from providers who do incall, but my guess is that offering her your room as a place to conduct her own business wouldn't save her much money and could (although this is VERY unlikely if she's a savvy lady) get you in more trouble than you could ever imagine if you happened to do this just when LE were making a hotel sting.