If it was a matter of deception then I would really have to say your second sentence would be what I would be inclined to do. At very least I would cuss them out, I mean what do they expect if they are trying to fool a guy who is looking for a WOMAN.

I don't think you would find to many women advertising on the net who are not anatomically correct. Basically most of the trannies advertise as such. The only way you could run into that problem, I feel, is if you do your hobbying on the street corner. Seen a few COPS episodes where guys picked up a man he thought was a woman..