I don't miss any of the bullshit that drove me to divorce my ex. But I do miss her blowjobs. Nobody else has ever come close. There's one provider who has the potential, but I don't think she's willing to move beyond what she does now.
I sometimes think that, if my ex had continued to give me those first-rate blowjobs, I might have tolerated all of her other bullshit, and still be married today. I miss those BJ's something fierce. How many others here miss the sex with the ex? Would you still be together if the sex had stayed good?
........ but then it disappeared. I missed it while I was married. Euphoric recall is great but I don't miss what I wasn't getting.
I miss some of the emotional attachment from the hot and heavy time in the relationship but, I don't miss the drama that comes with living with someone.
Besides, these ladies are so great at what they do. And with the variety, I can fulfill the many different sides of my wants and desires.
Well sex with the ex is NOT one of them.
Honestly, I barely remember it, but then again sometimes I can barely remember yesterday. lol I do remember she wasn't even in the top one thousand of the women I have been with. and no, even if the sex had been off the hook, I still would not regret getting out of that life sucking relationship for a minute.WE would have sex when I took over the monthly support checks. I have to admit, it was better than the sex was when we married. Giving her money and having sex sort of set me up for eventually paying other women. It was a natural transition.
If so, you may be on to something.
I always had the hots for my ex's sister. She divorced her husband maybe five years ago.
A mutual friend of the three of us fell on hard times and needed a place to live. SIL's husband owned an apartment building in a rundown part of town. SIL got husband to agree to let friend live there for free. When SIL's divorce happened, husband said friend had to pay or leave. My ex was upset, so I agreed to pay friend's rent. I did so for nine months. I didn't find out until later that SIL had offered to give her ex-husband BJ's weekly if friend could stay in the apartment, but he said no. I should have gotten the BJ's!!!!!!!!!Been divorced 20+ years and, other than the financial hit I took, it was the greatest gift she ever gave me. But there were a few times (very rare) where the sex was incredible. She learned that I had a thing for garter belt and seamed stockings, no panties and, for some reason, that turned her on. She didnt do it often but she got a huge thrill out of wearing that with no panties at certain parties (office parties or even family gatherings) and, afterwards, she would be an animal in the bedroom. She would be aggressive, talked dirty, telling me how she noticed this guy or that guy at the party eyeing her and that she knew they knew what she was wearing. As we fucked she would tell me how she would love to fuck one of those guys and have me watch her do it, wearing her garter belt and stockings. After we were both satiated, she would go for months back to the old cold version of the woman that she was. Rarely wanted to have sex with me and, when we did, it was just so so. But, when a party was planned and when she got the urge, she went into the mode of being a closet slut and the sex was fantastic.
I have repeated that scene with some providers - always a good scene - but there was something about having my ex-wife with that kinky side that made it so incredibly erotic.hahaha ouch!
....on remembering sex with exes.
I remember all women I've been with (that weren't paid for) and I remember details of each encounter.
I don't remember each encounter with my first long time girl friend because there were so many times - but if you saw my comment before on loosing virginity I put a couple of juicy details in that comment from those days.
I wouldn't say I've ever had bad sex...if I'm with a woman naked with a bed and other furniture around...I'm happy! Oh and I agree with the top poster of this thread - no one has matched my wife's blow jobs
It was good for 10 years but then it became pity sex. Then oral was taken off the table.....downhill from there. Plain vanilla sex. She said I was a perv because I liked daty lol.
One we split, I found great sex really great alll over the place, what was to miss?
I sometimes think that, if my ex had continued to give me those first-rate blowjobs, I might have tolerated all of her other bullshit, and still be married today. I miss those BJ's something fierce.
How many others here miss the sex with the ex? Would you still be together if the sex had stayed good?
A great line, I'll remember to use it in reference to my married "sex life."
Almost 20 years together and, if I was luck, we'd have sex once every 4-6 weeks; missionary only; lights off; and NO oral either way in 19 12 years. Yes, I was young, naive and brainwashed by Mom to believe that all women were saints, you married for life regardless of how bad things got, etc. It's only in looking back with 25 years perspective, 11 additional civvie relationships and dozens of provider experiences that I realize how much I was missing in my youth. Now trying to make up for lost time!
Married people don't have sex! Only arguments and resentment......
Man I am glad I found this hobby!
God bless all these beautiful providers.
Almost 20 years together and, if I was luck, we'd have sex once every 4-6 weeks; missionary only; lights off; and NO oral either way in 19 12 years. Yes, I was young, naive and brainwashed by Mom to believe that all women were saints, you married for life regardless of how bad things got, etc.
It's only in looking back with 25 years perspective, 11 additional civvie relationships and dozens of provider experiences that I realize how much I was missing in my youth.
Now trying to make up for lost time!
So that I wouldn't have to deal with him. HaHA Obviously I was not into him, hence he is my EX.
Together 18 yrs.
Divorced 6 yrs.
Which is pretty good I guess. I was always the one who initiated it and she would ration it like a "pussy Nazi" saying " you just had it x says ago". So I got tired of begging and being a good boy trying to get a treat. Then it became a "tit for tat" deal which always cost me way more than the sex was worth. I definitely do not miss ALL, and I do mean ALL the bullshit excuses as to why she could not or would not want to get busy. And I don't miss the old routine. The weird thing is, she used to complain that I didn't kiss and make out enough..... And I actually miss making out now... Can't win I guess.....lol But, the sex that I've had with some phenominal ladies the last couple years has been totally unbelievable and I've broken and set new personal records that will be hard to beat!! (I can do in 1 day what used to take a week.....haha..... and way cheaper..) Gonna have fun trying tho......
ha!