For me it is masturbation is sex with someone you love it’s always free, safe and effective because if you know how to please yourself, then you can always share with others how to please you.

Sex is teamwork. Always talk to, and list to, your teammate. Together, you make it better for the both of you.

The best advice ever: be open, pay attention to your partners response, and always be willing to be very reciprocal...giving and receiving...the last is always by difficulty.

about the destination, but also the journey.  

 
Bonus: It’s just sex.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e047sLojMPU

The phrase is a private joke between friends.  But, it basically means:  What you want her to do to/for you, you need to be prepared to do it to/for her.

 
The other good advice I'd received was:  "Eat that pussy to the bone, and she'll be yours forever".  It hasn't actually worked out like that.  But, I have always been rewarded for putting in the effort.

As a youngster growing up ,my old school grandfather would often say, " boy stay out of trouble, be smart, use your head".
 Make me  wonder what he would say for a sexual advice today .....'use your tongue ' ? .😁