I had booked in advance with a provider, two weeks out, and everything was set. The day came, we met at an outcall location and everything was going great....until....it became clear she was having her time of the month. I am not grossed out by it, but I don't like to "play" when it's happening. We kept our time but instead enjoyed each other's company, and made out a lot. My question to both the gents and ladies, would it be best practice to tell a client or make a decision to reschedule in those situations? Or do the majority not care? Not here to get bashed, just curious in other thoughts.
She should have told you, offered to reschedule and let YOU decide if you still wanted to kero the appointment.
Bad move on her part.
She should have let you know in advance and given you the opportunity to reschedule. This happened to me once when a girl arrived at my incall in LV and told me up front with an offer to cancel. I was not thrilled with the idea but she looked so hot and women are supposed to be extra hot on their period, so I just said. let's fuck. It was fine.
For me, it’s a no go. If she doesn’t care and wants to ask me, fine. I will say no. But if she just blindsided me, I will not be too pleased.
in a guy who actively seeks out sticking his tongue in tranny ass being put off by a provider on her period? SMH Lol
In my experience, sometimes menstruation strikes with little or no warning. I had a provider come to my hotel room once and after excusing herself to go to the bathroom to change into something sexier, she came out and told me, "Bad news, my period just now started." I said, "Why is it bad news?" She said, "Most guys don't want to do anything when I'm on my period." I said, "I'm not most guys." She laughed and gave me a DFK before asking how I wanted to proceed. I told her that we couldn't use the bed because it will end up looking like a crime scene. This upscale hotel had an oversized walk-in spa-style shower with two shower head setups, so I took her in there and we turned some warm water on and proceeded to fuck in various ways for about 45 minutes while the continuous flow of water washed all evidence of her period down the drain. She said it was her first time having shower sex during her period and she said she loved it and found it very arousing. She also confessed that she is more aroused sexually during her period than other times of the month, but I already knew about that with other women.
It was a two-hour session, so I went down to the front desk while she rested and came back with a couple of pads to last her until she gets home. She gave me great oral after that, and at the 90-minute mark, we got back in the shower for round two. It was so good, she asked if we could do it again next month. We did, and it was even hotter the second time.
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Thats the clients call to make, not the provider. Every time this has happened, the girl told me in advance. I didn't always cancel the date bc there are alternate avenues to play and I was horny lol. Some will even offer a discount for the session, but much like when the girl is sick, she needs to inform the gent and allow him to have final say on these type of issues. It's just acting with common decency and courtesy.
I had a provider over for an overnight at my residence; we’d been hanging out for 2 hours, ate dinner and showered/freshened up. Then when we went to the bedroom she noticed it was that time of the month.
We ended up just cuddling and chilling for an hour, then we went to sleep. She made right by it and came back a week later for free; although I tipped her anyway.
but I know it affects others. The fair call in my view is to let the client know and decide how he wants to proceed.
I would be upset if I paid for full service & did not get it. Regardless if her menstrual hit. Female condoms, discs that cover the cervix, and creative forms b options. I am a professional & you would only know if I told you.
If the cover up is fool proof and you wouldn’t know the difference, does it really matter? While I would say no if asked, I wouldn’t be mad if I never knew.
Is any method "fool proof?" I would say probably not but this is an area in which I am no expert. I just think I should be brought into that discussion beforehand and let me make that determination but I am curious as to what others think.
To me, rescheduling would be my preference. But I see your point Zeel, and if it were absolutely fool proof, maybe I would have a different take.
Obviously 🙄 if she can not take care of her business during her menstrual she should reschedule. She should give you an option if it was going to be a problem & she’s unable to preform the services required. Red wings is extra 😝 Ruby showers is a taboo service that I cater to upon request.
I’m 20 years in this industry with a prestigious pussy. I just got done steaming my vagina for 30 minutes. We are all very different humans. I do kegels. I’m OCD when it comes to a clean pussy & a clean house.
😁 Do I need to know your dick size before we meet? Do I need to know if you’re going to try & fuck me in my ass before meet for the first & only time?
Respectful Robert…
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I had experience with one and was real deep in her and pulled out to good amount of blood and she said don't stop and tried to take off condom and said it's ok you can cream pie in me and make a cherry cream pie.
You MUST tell the client in advance. Nobody needs that kind of surprise unless it's there thing as it sometimes is. That way the client can make other arrangements.
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I appreciate all that responded. I am glad that most of us all think the same on this, both client and provider. Communication is key.