Over Lubing their pussies and our cocks. The sensation of slight friction gives a much better quality fuck (regardless of whether we're talking about the pussy or the ass). Many providers get "lube happy" and squirt lube on a cocklike their putting Ketchup on fries. Enough lube already!!!
I didn't realize provider's "fucked" as you put it. I was under the impression you paid for their time and companionship. I guess I could have been more popular in the biz before my retirement had I known this...oh wait...I was already popular..LOL
Here is a tip for ya...tact goes a long way. Ask nicely for a little less lube and you just might get what you want.
Ask and you shall receive, I once saw this woman who used so much that it became comical as it went flying doing the course of the festivities. Just the right amount should be used to make everything comfortable for the parties involved, a fun topic to be discussed if necessary. Just my thoughts.
treat her right....kind and gentle... that she will produce the right amount of natural lub.
Thank you
When we are not well lubed, the vagina and me become very irritated, turn red, and may be suseptible to infection. I know that I am the big beautiful lips that you first see when viewing the female anatomy, but if irritated too much, I get puffier and extra sensitive, which could leave me out of commission until I feel better. Maybe the ladies you have seen are over doing it because thay read that Astroglide can aid them in protecting themselves against the HIV virus, or maybe they know a dry coochie having intercourse, is a painful coochie. I hope you get the friction you desire.
I totaly agree! And i have to say that i am guilty of useing to much lube, but hey its way better than being swollen and dealing with the pain. As my situation I'm diabetic so i dont produce enough of "my own lube" to keep me from getting irritated. I always carry lube with me, i know that if i dont i am in trouble. Guy's if only you knew what it flet like to be rubbed raw down there, us ladies can actually swell up like balloons belive it or not, and it hurts like hell!!
I myself dont do it just for the heck of it, I do or use it because it make everything feel better.
Azaria
...she dumps the whole damn bottle on me if that's what it takes to make her comfortable.
How's that for sucking-up, ladies? 
Why don't you try putting a dry corn cobb up your a.. and tell me how you like it?
How insensitive are you?
It's as much about her comfort and protection as anything else.
Just my opinion...
B
but then the men I know all use this amazing product called foreplay.
Emma we must Bond
Thank You
...where we're gonna work in foreplay in the 60 seconds between when we start and I finish.
Emma's example is that of a responsive female who is treated well. That is the best and most exciting part of foreplay for me: when she engorges, responds and lubes (IMHO). But some - unfortunately I include my SO in this generalization - simply do not lube like they did 20 years ago. That is when a quality lube becomes a necessary part of the foreplay.
Emma you are as usual "spot on".I rarely see a woman whose
reviews don't support the true "GFE"approach.This to me means alot of touching,caressing,etc.I like to spend time on some of the less obvious erogenous areas.no need to be graphic I'm
sure you know them well!By the time we get down to the "Main
event"lubrication should not be a problem!and I'm still fantasizing about an Emma Bond encounter!
is when they put lube on the INSIDE of the condom. I can't even fathom why they'd do this. It just makes the thing come off easier. It's stupid and the last (last as in, last I'll ever see) provider I was with did it when I wasn't looking...bam, it came off, and there I am going bareback. Surprise surprise.
allowing the penis to move around within the condom... which, obviously, may or may not be a good thing. I have heard/read it recommended many times, however.
Some providers put lube inside the condom or on the head of your penis before putting the condom on you because it tends to give the you a sensation that feels closer to bareback than just putting the condom on without the lube. If a particular provider was having many problems with guys losing the condom she would probably stop doing it.
Just ask your next provider not to put any lube in the condom. I am sure she will be happy to oblige.
I have never heard of any provider putting lube inside the condom. Furthermore I do not need lube for vaginal love. That comes naturally. For greek I don't use alot of lube because a little goes a long way. I know this sounds strange but in my experience using too much lube for greek takes away some of the sensation. There is a such thing as being too slippery. I only used lube for HJ but never for FS and rarely for greek. I find myself learning something new every day on this board. Cool. 
wow, never heard of anyone putting lube on the inside of a condom before.. Not cool at all.
Lubing just simply doesn't do it for me. I may get turned off completely if a provider has to use lube at the first penetration.
I suppose I've been fortunate. Thus far, I'm not aware of any of the ones that I've seen have to use lube, at least initially. I understand that lube may be required after a long period of intercourse.
If I used condoms, I would be frustrated too. I find that condoms are much to large. Finger cots work out great.. Still a LITTLE loose as in I cant unroll them all the way, but they dont come off.
before the festivities, to make him think that you lubed naturally?
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or can you buy Astroglide in "Chicken of the Sea" flavour?
But not stupid enough to think that a woman who tastes like "Chicken of the Sea" (as you so charmingly put it) cannot have used some lube in advance.
Don't take it personally, Emma.
I have heard of women lubing themselves before a client shows up to make him think she is naturally wet. I have never done that. I only use flavored lube. Surely a guy wouldn't think that my natural juices are cinnamon flavored. lol
...Hmmm.... almost sounds sexy.
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The thought has never actually crossed my mind, and as i stated in my posts earlier I have a hard time with staying "lubed" but no i have never gone that far as to pre-lube myself.