I mean in breaking a virgin in not for the provider to be one. LOL
=P
and hopefully made them better lovers, with the knowledge that I gave them.
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Isn't it funny. Some guys, including myself had to pay for their first time. Women could do it for free and/or get paid for and still it should be special, blah, blah. Ok then, come on, tell this guy to wait and find the "one" with candles and in a nice place because the first time is so special.
I didn't agree with the last thread on this. I still don't agree but I'm just saying. You people...!
When I was a 20-year old virgin I contemplated doing in when I was in Las Vegas. Thankfully, I lost my nerve. I had to wait a couple years, but I did end up meeting a stoner chick with a who was dying to devirginize me.
But here's the big BUT. The first GREAT sex I ever had was with a provider, in Amsterdam.
I say, if you've hit 30. If you still haven't gotten any, see a star with lots of good reviews.
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What I would recomend to any virgin wanting assistance in this is that he be totaly honest as to his lack of experience with the lady. Next he needs to be open to suggestion and critisism without taking either personaly. Next though this may not be easy for all virgins as I would rather suspect they would be young and have a bit more limitations on cash flow, but I would still suggest that you schedule a multi hr session preferably at least 3 hrs but minimum of 2 so as to let things happen in a more relaxed time frame. In the long run it will serve you better than well to do so
Next though this may not be easy for all virgins as I would rather suspect they would be young and have a bit more limitations on cash flow... What can you buy with $20 now days? Nothing!
It seems both you and Robertini assumed that dualage was referring to a young man. What about a new hobbyist who is older, and has been with many civilian woman, but is just getting his feet wet. Obviously, he knows his way around a woman, but what would you teach him about hobbying?
many of the same lessons for they do not change by experience and age that much. Respect, honesty, openess, good hygene, ask before entering, ask before cim, how to relax and enjoy the experience, trust (he to believe the provider will keep his information private) (she that if he tries or wishes to try something not on her menu per se that he will stop, he will not be violent etc) I personaly have no problems telling an older and experienced gent what feels good to me and what does not, my preference for no dental floss (though in cases of gents whome are in commited relationships a change there might not be good) Nor do I have problems if i feel a need for better hygene leading him to the shower to join me in refreshing before we relax. (nothing better than starting a bj in shower) I will also point him to the newbie boards and suggest that he do as I did before I started this and spend some time going back and reading, looking into himself as a person, before he takes the step of setting up a date. I also always encourage getting to know other hobbiests and providers as people for this is the most personal business around. If you do not know people in general than it is hard to know yourself.
Other things I would teach (and have on occasion) think before you ask....... if you ask for bare back and she agrees,,,,,,,,,,, how many others has she agreed to such with 3? 10, 50? then think how many each of those were with? is that realy a chance you want to take with your life? I frankly would turn tail and run if I were a guy. Oh and do not forget you are also taking that home.
In this hobby there is a need for a lot of trust and even more honesty. I have many times have had hobbiest not wanting to give their personal info for fear I will use it against them. I have to admit though I wish this was not true but on rare occasions a lady is not all she seems. Hobiest...... research research research. (I am saying this despite fact I only have a couple of reviews here as I am very low volume) Many hobbiest do not mind back channeling on further details). On the flip side think with the higher head (elevation wise when standing please) Yes many of you guys have a lot to loose, job, and family being biggest. On the other hand the lady is looking at the following losses Job (plus the civi job that many of us have), family, freedom, and life. Whom has more to loose? In my oppinion the lady and that even if laws and society changes for there is always that chance of the sicko whom will take the life of a lady just because he can.
All in all this is a great hobby and I do not think I will ever regret my part in it. Rather I have found that it has enriched my life in ways I never suspected it would, self confidence, adventure, travel, and frankly the hobbiests I have known have spoiled me to the point that I have little patience now for the civi guy and their games. Just make sure your eyes are open in your desires, expectations and be honest with yourself that you may from time to time be disapointed.
Oh and always be safe
I'm beginning to feel like a recycled Virgin
Lol after taking off work for most part of the past few months (with only a couple of short foreyes) to move, believe me I well know that feeling lol
Some eighty years ago, a virgin was taken seriously by a madam, at least according to the book "The Great Wyoming Whorehouses". (If he were treated badly, he might not like women in the future...) He would be carefully taught the rules by the madam, and introduced to the best girl in the house. Apparently, some brothels didn't charge for the first time.
Although times have changed in some ways, I doubt that's the case here. I suspect that dealing with virgins is a point of professional pride among the vast majority of providers. I think the biggest change is that a lot of providers would be annoyed by a virgin getting pushed into this by one of his relatives; a virgin should see a provider because of his own choice or not at all. (Otherwise, you might wind up with another Michael Jackson...)
Introducing a virgin plays into one of the principle reasons providers exist -- a sense of power for the woman over the man she is seeing. It allows her to play the part of the teacher, complete with the pride in seeing her student graduate. It's been said that power is an aphrodisiac. Well, there you are.
Sorry I didn't reply for so long all, lost my connection for a good minute.
Anyway, thanks for all the responses and advice!
Just to provide more info:
-I am 30 and yes a virgin by choice. Reason? Lets just say I was raised very religious... Anyway I'm awake now, AMEN!
-I'm not interesting in "waiting for the right one" cause who knows how long that will take? Also, as mentioned above there is a double standard. Men are expected to know shit sexually and a older virgin is seen as pathetic. You know its true.
I would love to here some feedback from providers if possible as well as other members. Has anyone here actually lost their virginity to a provider?