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Providers, need your input on the following outcall situation
team_rocket_qwerty 33 Reviews 852 reads
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1. You schedule an outcall to a client apartment complex at evening/night

2. Upon arrival or maybe a bit earlier, the client tells you he cannot meet you himself and the entry code is not working so you have to follow someone in. Perhaps follow a resident car into a garage.  

 
What do you do in such a situation? Is this enough grounds for you to cancel the whole thing? Is there an explanation you feel you owe the client?

-- Modified on 5/2/2024 12:13:28 PM

This sounds like the plot line to the next Scream movie. Where's Ghostface hiding? We know the hot chick always gets killed.

If they’re not comfortable with the situation then “I’m not comfortable doing that,” is the only explanation needed.

That’s sketchy as fuck.  I live in a gated community and have had providers I’ve met before visit me at my residence.  When there is an issue with the gate, I just get in my car, drive out to the gate and let them in.  Someone too lazy to do the same sounds like a complete ass or possibly a predator trying to avoid being seen with the provider on camera.

I agree. Sounds pretty sketchy, or at best some dolt who can’t plan ahead for shit. Outcall is very rare for me, but if this happened on my way to an incall, I’d nope out unless I’d met her previously.

As stated above, the client is responsible for making sure the provider gets in safely. Too many red flags. If he can’t get her in, provider should cancel.

I ran into a similar situation going to an incall at a C/J girl agency. DMV mongers will remember Moon Palace.  “Uncle” came downstairs and got me into the garage of the apartment building and then past the security doors between the garage and the apartment units. I tipped Uncle $20 on the way out.

I went to meet a sugar babe at her apartment.  The first time I went they allowed visitors to park in the underground garage, you just pulled up to the door and honked and the door would open.   I returned again a few months later and unknown to me, they stopped allowing visitors to self-park.  I honked and the door wouldn't open.  So I back up into the street and waited a few seconds.  Just then a resident pulled in and the door opened, so I just followed him in.  Then I tried to call the sugar babe because she still had to buzz me in from the garage.  She didn't answer for about 5 minutes.  I was already heading back to the car to leave when she finally called.  I got buzzed in then and she told me the parking thing had changed.  I never went back after that because I didn't want to park on the street in that sketchy area and it sounded like she was too lazy to come open the garage door for me.  

So when I called her upon arrival and she told me about it, and said she'd throw me down the keys. Even crazier, it was a. big building with lots of balconies and, when I failed to see her she called down in a loud voice and tossed the keys from a 5th-floor balcony. About as uncool as could possibly be.
But I really wanted to see her, so I went up. Had a great time. She was gorgeous, horny and nuts. I don't recommend anyone do what I did but that's what happens when the little head does the "thinking."

I was arguing that if whoever is arriving at the hosts place, has a right to reschedule appointment if they feel unsafe by doing such things. Without any retaliation or whatever.  

 
And they don't really have to explain anything because it's self-explanatory. It puts the guest at risk and makes the entry insecure. And it is the hosts responsibility to make sure entry is safe and secure.  

 
Then I thought maybe I was taking crazy pills and people think otherwise. So I decided to reverse the roles and ask, feeling like the answer would be pretty unanimous. And it was.

Thanks to everyone who answered!

And they don't really have to explain anything because it's self-explanatory.
In this scenario, if a deposit is involved, is the provider entitled to keep the deposit?

Good question. probably?

 
On one hand, there was no session. On another, deposit is probably for things like this. Depends on how much the deposit is. If it's full amount for the sesh, I personally think part of it should probably be reimbursed or at least used towards next sesh if rescheduled.  

 
I think it's between the client and provider to iron out. But I certainly wouldnt be mad if in this specific situation where a host is at fault for not having a safe entry, if the provider simply takes the deposit and walks. If I'm the host, I will accept the accountability of me frustrating a provider and putting her at risk.

I order Amazon prime daily it has. Options for special instructions. If you give the details in the booking & supply a deposit I will follow the directions buddy. If I can not be successful in my endeavors I will communicate with you ASAP.

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