When my favorite providers receive a new review, I go read it and check out the other reviews done by the reviewer. Pretty much standard, I guess. Sometimes I find potential providers from the list. Great!!
Recently, two of my favorite providers received a new review so I did the above standard opration only to find out those reviewers see TS. I kinda went "ewwwwww" as it would appear that I saw the providers after his visit to them.
Boys and gals - what do you feel about this situation?
Would you, boys, see a provider even if she's seen clients who also has seen TS?
Gals - Would the above issue affect your business? If so, what would you do??
Just curious...
I would feel kind of weird if I knew that a client saw a TS but honestly as a provider I would never really know if he didn't post a reviews. Looking back at some of the requests that I've received but politely declined I think its more common than most think.
While this topic has had lots of play over the months, I will add my .02 since you're asking. I do NOT see providers who have reviews from hobbyists that have seen TS's. If one of my fav's were to have a review go up tomorrow by a reviewer who has seen a TS, then that would mean that I'd have to drop her from any future consideration. Am I naive enough to think that it's not possible that she's seen one before? No. However, I choose to believe that until I see a review that suggests otherwise.
. . . for something in which they most likely have no control.
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Your "ewwwwww" factor could just as easily be compared to the insensitivity of a faithful husband who looks upon his equally faithful wife as "tainted" because she was raped. In both cases the women are powerless in the decision.
This is like Six Degrees From Kevin Bacon: If my ATF was ever with a guy who was with a TS...
Come on. As much as we may want to believe that ATF's are counting the minutes till we call, they're really seeing other guys till we call. You're being way too selective.
If anyone thinks they can really control what is on either side of the door then (hobbyist or provider) is in for a rude awakening. Unfortunately, none of us have as much power as we'd like and the exceptions overrule what people take for reality any day. Rather than worry about if a provider has been with someone who is also partial to TS girls, you might spend more time wondering about her habits outside of the hobby. The number of possibilities are infinite, or were you just being picky?
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Just because someone enjoys sex with someone that has a cock does not make them dirty. Men can have sex with women, women can have sex with women, men can have sex with men, and all the variations in between. The providers you visit screw people with a dick. So relax, expand your horizons, the hobby is all about having an open mind and enjoying the pleasures of the body.
When girls see bisexual men. The results were all negative.. as in the men wouldnt see us.. Same with rimming.. men wont see us... If we smoke , men wont see us, If we have tanlines, men wont see us, if we tan , men wont see us, if we see more than one a day, men wont see us, if we have too little reviews men wont see us, if we have too many reviews, men wont see us. If we are little and turn pudgy, men wont see us, but they see bbws, if we are bbw and turn thin and workout. they wont see us..If we wear pink on wednesdays, men wont see us.
I really do not think it would affect our business ? Why? A small percentage of men go to review boards. A small percentage of men may be here but even smaller percentage dont know how to search as you do, or dont even use VIP for that matter.
I think Im done now .. LOL!
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Ewe did make a teenie weenie (oooops that is another topic)let's say a little bitty, tiny, and very small mistake.
Aye due think it is pink on Modays and purple shoes is Wednesdays
Thank you
You will never know who else those guys are seeing.
Just consider: the ladies in question get tested. They insist that clients wear protection.
Besides that, why should you care?
You said "pink on Mondays." Damn it! Get it straight. Lay off of the Captain Morgan -- okay, maybe just his 1st mate.
Hugs,
Ciara
This question is posed from time to time and every time I can never quite figure it out.
Some say the issue is "safety", but if the lady gets tested and practices "safer" sex, then the issues of safety don't really hold too true.
If the assumption is that the TS provider is less safe than any other provider, that doesn't make much sense either. A TS provider would have no reason to have less safety concerns, so the idea that that provider would be "dirty" is not particularly valid.
Many here mention that providers are safer than women one could pick up in a bar, well wouldn't you assume the same goes for TS providers?
Now if one thinks it is because she was with a man that previously may have given someone a BBBJ, or been on the receiving end of anal sex...hate to break it to those folks, but chances are really good that their ATFs and favorite providers have given BBBJs and might have been on the receiving end of anal sex....eeewwww?
So if it is the act that causes the reaction of "ewww" then they better find a new hobby, because I'm pretty sure most of the ladies have in fact been with other men, at least at some point.
Now, that really just leaves for the "ewwwwww" factor the idea of someone with a penis doing something with someone else with a penis.
OK, I guess I can kind of understand that, I think having sex with anyone with a penis is kind of icky too, but I don't judge the ladies because of it, or refuse to see them even if they have touched icky dangly bits. As for safety hetrosexual sex is generally more dangerous that lesbian sex, but I figure the ladies are safe so the fact they have been with men isn't a deal breaker. *smirk*
Seems the only reason that one could have for such a reaction, if their ATF is safe, is that they think being with a man that has seen a TS provider must effect her in a way that could then effect them, and we have already ruled out disease if they play safe...so all I can figure is they are afraid they might catch "Gay" or the lesser "Bisexuality".
Great research has been done on this subect, and it has been found that these ills are not transmittable through a third party...one would have to have sex with a gay or bisexual man themselves to catch either.
What would I do?
If I can overlook the fact they have sex with men at all I think I can get past the second hand TS thing. *smirk*
Will it effect a lady's business?
Sadly, it probably will.
My advice for anyone that would stop seeing a lady they enjoy seeing because she saw a client that saw a TS provider would be to worry more about what one does with his own penis and less about someone else's second or third hand.
women can have sex with women. As much as I'm genetically prevented from this one, it's still one of my fav's
Ciara, I luv tan lines.
no more problematic than any other found within this activity. The provider obviously sees other hobbyists, who are seeing other providers, etc.. While the transsexual thing appeals only to a minority, why draw the line there? You've accepted this hobby with it's attendent risks and disappointments, so here's one for you.
Your option seems to be to avoid providers who see hobbyists who patronize TS providers. Might take a while, as you have to research the reviews of the providers and the hobbyists, as well as deal with the time lag between the session and the review being posted. And even then, you're still not able to do anythinhg bout the hobbyists who do not post reviews [like yours truely].
Best of luck, best wishes, happy hobbying.
Oh well, it needs to be said more than once...
Thanks for covering my back Webbie
I agree wirh Ciara whole heartedly. There are so many reasons that guys will come and see us as many as reasons they will not. Is not just normally an individual's personsal preferences? Just a thought.
There's nothing about it that particularly trips my "ewwww" switch. Now, if a provider were to post to a message board talking about her lost weekend with a football team, 4 cheerleaders, a pair of Rottweilers, and a gym bag full of meth and coke... that might make me reconsider seeing her.
I expect providers to be meticulous about their "safer sex" practices, and if the provider is careful with those, I think that's about all I can reasonably expect. I don't get creeped out about who else she might have been with -- I don't really care if she's been with bisexuals, crossdressers, people of other races, or folks who are just plain freaky. I don't care if she did amateur gangbang videos, or cum facial vids, or pissing-on-her-shoes vids. I don't worry that any of that will rub off on me, since I'm OK with who I am and what works for me, and I know that nothing's going to disturb that.
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