Numerous encounters have turned into really hot times, and have had a few interesting/ significant relationships develop...... Still on the clock, but more generous with time, esp for overnights, and trips lasting several days... Very close to them, One lovely MD almost left his practice to relocate to me in LA, then to NYC, as I had decided to move. Had to be quite direct and tell him not interested in a signif rel'p with him.
Love connecting as a passionate GFE, but so many complications! Have numerous other similar stories of involvement......
Love DFK. communicating, being free and wild, connecting, but sooooo many problematic situations!!!
Not into becoming less GFE, as it's my natural inclination...... Suppose men must take it for what it is, and accept it's fab, but not long-term.....
"Have numerous other similar stories of involvement......"
Oh yes please, do share them with us. I'm sure we're all breathless with anticipation.
... (HeadMaster Experience)!
Now I have the mental image of her and me together stuck in my head! -- I'm suing you for the cost of the erectile dysfunction meds I'll now need!
But why? I am now of the opinion that we, in this hobby, both provider and hobbiest... are somewhat similar. We enjoy the hunt, the thrill of the clandestine outing... the casual illicit affair...
Why else would one call themselves Bond!? or Bizarro Superdude for that matter. Lets face it folks - a part of the attraction of this hobby is that we crave the excitement of the hobby, we also enjoy the sex, but the excitement is key for some..
There are a couple of providers that are great at making a "man feel manly" but flatline in the sex department - why stay in the profession - especially if there are other ways the they could use to secure financial support? Simply put they are there for the adrenaline high...
This make some element of sense... or am I still on my own world.... just wondering...
Hey Bond, ya owe us a bundle for all tha fish!
...you know the saying, "First time shame on you, second time shame on me"? Did it once...now I don't do shame!! Be consistent, the results will always be the same,,,,disastrous!!
Possibly, but a dead-end street as one of them, say the MD will want you to become exclusive if he falls too hard, too fast as some lonely men are borne to do out of a lifeless marriage or career; that's one of the key dangers of the hobby and one that can befall either party. You and I agree, why not go all out, but there is a price to be paid for that. Since you know what it is, perhaps you can maintain a healthy distance or be less available when persistent lovers need more than you are emotionally available to offer. Now if your heart gets involved be ready for your own fall because few relationships can survive the hobby. While some do, there is always the threat hanging over your head of having met this person in this way. History shows us from these pages and other places that you'll need a lot more than luck and hard work to endure. As for men taking it like we should, most will because they have much to lose though many others throw caution to the wind because they don't see the wonderful times they are having as idealistic and fleeting. That said, there's a danger to the game you are playing and if you find yourself all burned out one day, you'll have known that it was you pulling most of the strings. Good luck to you because if you keep going there, heartache is on the rise.
Many of us on TER think posts about provider-client relationships are interesting--such as falling in love with a provider or client. We like to add our own two cents and have a good discussion.
Sometimes, though, people write posts almost as if the only reason is to brag about themselves; i.e the guy talking about how he is always told he's the best lover, or is remarkably endowed. Ladies may go on about how often they're told they're stunningly beautiful, or in this case, how wonderful they are so as to cause men to give up their jobs and move across the country to be with them.
Your post here in essence is asking if you should stop being so extraordinarily fabulous.
It's no wonder if you get a few sarcastic replies.
Next time rephrase the concern or question without all the flowery details and back-patting and you will get more replies of substance.
Just wondering based on the information in your thread.
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but wanted happened to basic sentence structure? I have a hard time following some of these posts because they don't use the most basic elements of punctuation.
Since you're so hot, I'll stay away. No need to get burned!
"but wanted happened to basic sentence structure?"
You were saying sir?
and to act accordingly, in a professional manner.
She's so damn fabulous, why should I keep my dull job? Why shouldn't I pay to have her live in my basement so I can have sex anytime I want? Why can't I make a shambles out of my life if I want to? Hell, if the sex is that good I'll be dead in short order anyway, I may as well go out with a bang underneath the best GFE in the biz who's just killed me with her special sex move called "bacon and eggs in a blender"...at least that's what the coroner’s report will say because she forgot to hide the strap-on and nipple clamps.
And I'll walk into heaven and sit down on a rock and my dog, that died when I was 8, named "Patty Duke" (because we couldn't tell if it was a boy or a girl) runs up and licks my hand while we both wait for “From a Provider” to die and arrive so we can spend paradise together forever.
So don’t go and tell women to start watching the fantasy line! You’re gonna wreck it for those of us who are waiting on a rock in Heaven for our sweetheart.