I've always been curious about this. It takes me a while to "finish", even with the first cup. And I'm wondering if I'm THAT atypical. The reason I ask is that I'll try out a new lady, who gets visibly impatient when I'm not getting off after about 5 minutes. Understand, they don't get upset because I'm pulverizing them. I'm slow and VERY gentle. I offer to lube as needed. I don't ask anyone to hold themselves in a gymnastic position; it's all very vanilla stuff. So you can rule out those possibilities.
I read reviews here about how guys go at it continuously for 20-30 minutes at a time -- and clearly no guy has EVER exagerated about his staying power, right? I reckon you ladies out there are the best resource.
I'm interested in the answer to placate my own conscious -- sometimes I feel like I really put the lady out and I owe her a larger tip. And sure, I understand that a true pro will stay involved, engaged and patient for as long as it takes. That's a given, as is the fact that staying power will vary from guy to guy and session to session. But that's not my question.
The answer I'm looking for, SPECIFICALLY, is how long does it take a guy to finish a first cup -- on AVERAGE with a napkin on. (I've never had any complaints from ladies in civilian life, BTW). No problem is you want to answer with an alias, or PM me. I'd just like to know if I'm that unusual. Thanks.
-- Modified on 6/29/2004 3:18:09 PM
I have found that the older I get, the longer it takes...at first this was a good thing but now I am wondering if it is getting too long, even for me!? (~20 minutes or more). SO I second your question...when does get too long?
...asking how long is TOO long raises subjective issues -- if the guy is a stinking pig, 5 seconds is too long.
-- Modified on 6/29/2004 3:30:58 PM
Interesting question.
But, I don't think you will get a definitive answer that you are looking for.
Why ?
It depends..
There are a great many reasons why the same guy would take a while one time and pop quick the next, even with the same lady or an ATF.
I will admit that I have, at times, I just can't seem to get the job done. Not only do I wear myself out, I know she gets pooped.
The way I deal with it is just laugh it off and snuggle up. That seems to work.
Just remember, every time is different and unique in it's own way. Savor your time together, enjoy each other, relax and let nature take it's course.
I do question a lady who gets "impatient" however.
Unless it was uncomfortable or painful, in which case I would stop, having her tell me "hurry up" would not be a "stimulating" comment.
Just my opinion...
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