My wife is going out of town on a business trip and I am thinking about inviting my lover over for dinner, etc.

We have known each other for three years but only had this level of relationship this year. She probably knows more about what's going on with me than my wife does. However,I am wondering if by exposing her to the one area she has not experienced, what it might do to what we have. This opportunity has never come up before.

last time I checked we (all of us ladies) know how to behave when we travel to someone's house.

We really are business woman!

Yes, invite her to your home. She will be discreet!

Good Luck...

Shaye

Hmm.. I dunno - why have it at your place, do you want her to compare what brand of cosmetics she and your wife use when she goes to the washroom?  see your wife's decorating sense all over the house, feminine articles in the bedroom, et cetera, et cetera?  do you want your wife to find out someday that you did it in the same bed she sleeps in?  It may feel cosy and comfortable to you, but try and think of it from her point of view.  Just my two cents!

-Anya

DON'T DO IT!!! If something is out of place or moved your wife will notice it.  A stray hair, a cigarette butt or whatever and you will have major problems.  Book a room in a really nice hotel and take her to dinner at a great restaurant.  Have fun.

Wives really have this thing about the sanctity of their homes.  Your wife might be more upset that you did it in her bed on her sheets than the fact you are seeing someone.  Wait until you get divorced.

There is an old saying "don't s**t where you eat"  Take a hint and don't do it.

Often I am invited to visit some one home on a "service call"  when the wife is out of town. "Never Never will I enter her home for any other reason.

I agree with everyone else. My question is are you getting seriously involve with this escort. If it is a paid service ..then go for it, but if you have feeling for this women do not invite her to your wife home.

Respect your wife privacy., "keep" her life style private! There are limits when it comes private and discrete circumstances. Don't trust the chemistry, personality or mutual expectations.

Ruth

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some kind of revenge on your wife.  Lots of pitfalls, little to be gained.

Bad idea.

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....you were thinking when you came uo with this notion.  An extremely BAD idea from every angle it could be looked at.  Assuming you don't have a death-wish, or aren't subconsciously trying to get back at her in a sneaky way for something, it all boils down to this...don't shit where you eat!!

Bad, Bad, Bad idea.  Nothing to be gained and a lot to lose--been there and done that.

Not stupid. IDIOTIC.  Unless you want to get found out on some level that you do or don't know about. Maybe you HATE your wife to her core?
Your wife will either find a clump of your lover's hair, Or the neighbor(s) will tell her.
Never underestimate a woman--either one of them!

Don't do it, unless you want to get caught.