But, it does happen..there are women that are in fact allergic to semen/pre cum. Just like any allergy, It can be established at any time. Is there anything that you eat that maybe she has an allergic reaction too? Or quite simply, it could even be whatever brand of soap you cleanse your body with.

As well, if you are taking ANY kind of medication,this could as well be the problem for her mouth hurting.

However,I  remember once, It was my excuse to not give my last boyfriend oral LOL

He was huge.. and it hurt my jaws.. hahah



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It could also be TMJ, a condition where the jaw muscle is being overworked, which would explain her discomfort after performing oral sex. The mouth's position and jaw work is slightly different on the testicles as opposed to the penis as well, which is why that activity may not cause those effects.

But it's a good excuse! Did she used to do it all the time????? And if she did, was there a complaint then? If not......

Sorry babes.....Having a s/o does NOT have it's priveleges in YOUR case.....

she could have TMJ or is grinding her teeth at night.

I grind my teeth at night and the bigger the jaw muscles get, the less they stretch and your mouth feels sore when you try to keep your mouth open. Many people grind their teeth as they get older or from stress. Get a mouth guard and see if that helps

Get medical doumentation where your women is trying to treat the program or pack her bags and throw them out on the road.  I think your partner, doesn't like to give head.    If thats the case tell her to date some peckerless wonder or get with the program.  She probably wants the ring on the finger and the white picket fence, but it never crosses her mind what her role in this is.   I would at least hope she has a lot of money.  Love me love my dick, I say!

...or some other component in the semen, with her white blood cells digging through her mouth tissue to destroy all trace of it.  It might cause sores, sometimes open ones, which may hurt as much as a toothache.  It has a long medical name that I can't remember.  

It might help to clean her mouth out with a mouthwash or perhaps vodka afterward, wash out what's offending her immune system, if you could persuade her to try a BBBJ again.  

   

I did a search against "semen allergy" and came up with tons of entries.  Here's just one of them:

http://allergies.about.com/cs/intimate/a/aa121800a.htm

I heard of this condition a few years ago, in relation to someone who was having trouble conceiving because she was proved to be allergic to her husband's sperm, but I guess it may also affect the mouth.  You don't mention whether she has symptoms elsewhere, but I guess she could be reacting internally and not be aware of it - or perhaps you use protection so she's not exposed in that way.  That's a matter between the two of you, of course.  

As it is a medical condition, maybe you could gently suggest that she has the problem checked out.

Aphra

did this occur after you married her?