Okay, I'm using an alias here but it's only because I'm not intending to practice this stuff with clients, it's my boyfriend I need help with.  He has the largest penis I have ever seen and I have seen a bunch!  What makes it even worse is I have a fairly small mouth and can barely fit the head in.  What can I do to make this a much more pleasurable experience for him other than licking, sucking and stroking?

-- Modified on 5/17/2004 12:01:35 PM

Are some great porn/videos out there to help you on this one.
Can relate too.
Two hands are a must, and get the saliva going! The more messier the better and move the hands in circular kind of motion - watch his expressions to make sure you have the right pressure.
More I could tell ya....but ya would have to be there!
But seriously, get a video and hey even watch it together - more excitement that way too!

How about this. Just blow me and I`ll do my best to tell him in detail how good it was.

as I'm sure by now you have ruled out mouth enlargement surgery.


Good luck on your decisions!

Ask yourself why guys crave getting head so much.  For me, and I cannot speak for the entire species of man, it's a combination of the visual and submissiveness of the act.  There is nothing hotter than sorta removing yourself and watching a woman give me head.  Each visual moment when immediately connected to spasms of pleasure that you can actually see while they are happening turns me on.  As far as the submissiveness, the act of such a tender giving of one's self certainly makes me feel special.

Okay, so you just cannot stuff it inside your lips.  So 'give him a show' and you can accomplish the same thing.  Find out his most sensitive spots and focus on those.  Use your toungue and moist lips.  Worship his largeness.  While you are rubbing it on your lips and face speak words of endearment to him, or nastiness, whatever turns him on.  Get it so wet that it literally drips with your saliva and play with the juice, gently pushing the drips from the bottom back up to the top or pulling back long strands for his enjoyment.  Wrap the shaft in a silk scarf and manipulate the scarf while concentrating on the accessible areas at the tip.  It's not just the act of 'stuffing it in your mouth' but more the manner in which you tease, play, fondle or otherwise manipulate the member that makes it so memorable.  A million different things you can do to achieve the same result.  

Damn, just writing this makes me look at my favorite list to see who I can see on short notice  Good luck and let us know what works best for you two....

I would suggest you get over any hang-ups on gagging. You want to do it, and you will enjoy giving him head because it brings him so much pleasure, the only obstacle is perhaps you being nervous of choking. I gag and choke all the time. I don't think its possible to give good head without this happening. I don't supress it, I just go with it. Its a natural reflex.

... and good luck.  Don't forget, his head is like your clit.  Do the head right and you will do fine.

Curious
Use your hands to assist with what cannot fit in your mouth. Sucking on the head while stroking the shaft and tickling the balls feels just as good or better than a deep throat to me sometimes. Vary the speed or rythm for slightly different sensations at different times using more tongue licking for a while, then change to more of your lips tightly gripping him. Also, just licking and sucking on the balls feels good for a variation during a BJ lasting several minutes. I even like a nimble with the teeth occasionallly, but be gentle with this one. If you and BF are more adventurous, anal stimulation during a BJ is enjoyable too. You can use your fingers to tickle around the anus, or if he is open to it insert a finger or a toy (be clean and safe, wash thoroughly).
And don't forget about such a simple thing as eye contact, look up at him, it's amazing how most men love to see this.
And really, as long as you are making a concentrated effort, and willing to keep trying, I don't think you can go wrong. It's rare to hear of such a thing as a bad BJ.

best regards, mr.man

-- Modified on 5/17/2004 3:17:22 PM

I beg to differ. I've had a few that were simply horrible and left me sore.

You can "take two hands to handle his whopper"  or you can allways bring a friend. Never heard of anyone complaining about reenforcements.

...secondly, the lips tightly wrapped around the penis is far more stimulating than almost anything else women think works.  I think you have an oral version of the Kama Sutra description of the elephant and the gazelle...this combination being considered the best for gratification.   After a thousand years, it is still a good read.

would sound good to any man...  also, I don't think your bf mind that you have a small mouth and can barefly fit his unit... you are probably doing a lot of other things right for this to be an issue to him.  he probably enjoys what you've already been doing to him orally and by asking him, you may be able to enhance his pleasure and yours.

I guess I forgot to mention that I'm okay with my gag reflex, it's his girth I can't get in my mouth.

That joke wasn't so bad...Was it?...I'm sure it won't give you heartburn.

Cheers!

you two are not compatible.

-- Modified on 5/18/2004 7:35:48 PM

Try using those bleaching trays that you use to whiten your teeth. Put them in before the BJ and he will have the experience of a lifetime.  No teeth nips, just smooth and tight.... mmmmmmm

cirCUMnavigating the globe.

Hugs,
Ciara