I'm not (I'm a guy) but I thought it would be interesting to see how men respond to a woman on a website that has a slogan "when monogamy becomes monotany".
I'm absolutely bombarded with messages when I sign onto the site - about 40 a day. Everytime I log in, I have 2-4 guys lined up wanting to chat with me.
The guys aren't real smooth. 70% want my picture, but don't have one themselves. Of the remainder, 50% send me multiple penis views. Hummm.
It's real eye opening to view this re: how women are approached by guys. The 5% that are respectful and smooth are rare.
Ladies: Is this your experience?
Oh, yes. yes yes yes.
In fact, you don't even have to sign up at any particular website to get that kind of thing, although, not to that level of course. I use yahoo messenger and aim, and I get at least one unsolicited IM from a man every time I log on. Usually more than one.
Then commences what I have dubbed "The Fuckable Questions" That is, a series of questions designed to determine if they have a chance of fucking me.
First its "ASL?"
(even though this is listed on my profile, which surely they saw, because how else would they find me?)
Then its "gotta pic?"
Then "single?"
sometimes there are various other questions thrown in, such as, "what kind of music do you listen to?" "what do you like to do for fun?" Im not sure where those fit in with the "Fuckable Questions" but maybe they serve some purpose that I'm not yet aware of.
It seems that this problem has gotten worse with time, although I don't know if it's really "time" per se, or if my age has made me a more attractive target. Disturbingly enough, I got the same types of messages when I was 14, 15 years old. From men who were way, way too old for me. These men would have met me in a heartbeat, and I was young and happy for the attention. I was lucky enough to have a mom and dad who were around enough that it was not possible to ever meet with anyone. I was not a stupid child, just naive. A little OT perhaps, but it just shows you the type of mentality that goes on.
would ya send me them pictures of my dick back?
NDtBF
Didn't know it was yours. thanks for sharing!
I created an identity as a woman -- in her 20s, wanted to "have fun." In the half hour I had it up, I got gazillions of messages and loads of dick pix. Weird.
I use AOL and the number of PM's I get from guys with no manners or finesse is just astounding!!
Common opening lines:
1.Nice a$$!
2.Hows your lil pusy?
3.Can I get between those legs??
What ever happened to a simple HELLO???
And yes I get the pics as well, ugh. ::shaking head::
They all learned this from their dad's porn collection, that he had because the wifey wouldn't give it up.!!!!
...Of how it is for us, yes.
I did a similar thing a while back when I was home on short term disability (too much time on my hands!) recovering from surgery. I posted an ad as a female seeking to experiment with another female. I was surprised at how many responses I got from every day, girl next door types, that were looking for a fling. A couple were butch types even though I said in the ad I wasn't looking for butch. A couple were kind of skanky types, but 80% were pretty hot ladies. Most sent pictures upfront and I even got some pretty sexy pics after a short email exchange.
It was a fun experiment. I also posted the same ad but as a girl seeking a guy for buddies with benefits. Same as you I got a zillion responses, pics of guys dicks, some sob stories, some virgins (claiming to be anyway!) needing to lose it, married guys saying their wife won't give it to them, etc... I have a new appreciation for what it is like to be a woman.....guys can really be morons and pigs!