I'm not sure what to call this but I've been fortunate enough to have this happen with more than one provider.

A girl that I really have a desire for stops putting up ads, stops working at the club, goes back to school, has a new baby, etc. Frown town. Totally thinking with the little head, I hit her up anyway. She*says*she*will*see*me* Once, a girl told me she wants to meet without me bringing it up. All other indications say she's out of the business but she says she'll meet me (working with her schedule). It's not sugar on demand, any time of day. But I really want her and I get her. Just like old times! It helps if you have another way to get in touch with her other than deactivated business phone.  

Anyone else lucky enough to share a similar story?

I have a phone full of stripper phone numbers and it never ceases to amaze me how many of them get an itch that only a lady monger can scratch, off the clock of course

The romantic in me thinks that she is thinking of me and enjoyed the time we spent together. The cynic in me thinks she is filling out a schedule.  So far, it's happened with ladies I want to see again, so the arrangement has worked for both, regardless of their intent.

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Provider quits, delists, no ads, cancels hobby email and phone, but tells me she'll see me and a few other "VIP" clients as her schedule permits and gives me her private email and/or phone number. The problem I've found with that arrangement is that their openings for escorting are very limited, their availability is hit-or-miss, and they seem to have more "emergencies" that require rescheduling than other providers I know. Had that happen recently in fact. So while I'm flattered that these ladies would still see me after semi-retiring from escort work, it's not as great a deal as it seems IMO.

she'll eventually retire, but if she likes you enough, she'll agree to keep seeing you.  Several of my regulars fall into this category.

a half dozen or so times in the last nine years since I started hobbying.  A couple of times it was a girl working her way through a university as a hooker.   Then she graduated and closed down her incall and got a regular civilian job, but agreed to keep seeing me on the side, maybe one or two others as well that are low-maintenance like me.  In both cases, the ladies were making six figures, but used the extra cash for a few luxuries that they had gotten used to having as hookers.  

This is a dream come true.   Yes,  it happens.

... and off the cock.

(Sorry, sorry, sometimes I can't resist.)

I am heading in this direction myself and thinking about how I will handle it. I'm starting back to school and have my next plan in effect. Ive heard some of you lament about how you had a favorite and she disappeared. Its sad really, almost like a break-up of sorts. There will be some of my regulars that I will most certainly miss that Im tempted to continue to see for a variety of reasons that really aren't  financial as much as they are the pleasure I get from the deviance of it all. Vanilla sex life, main stream life, it makes me yawn. Ive been living two lives for so long. Ive been spoiled by my clients, the attention, the loyalty, the freedom and comfort I find in being able to be as free as I want to be.  Ive come to know some of you well- enough that the outlet I provide is something you need and look forward to, but it is immensely  satisfying to me as well. There are too many rules, moral obligations and expectations that I behave in a lady-like manner in the civilian world. I've danced on the dark-side far too long to ever go completely straight.  I still have some time before I go off-grid though. But it is good to always have a Plan B.

Yes.  Some like the extra dough and do find you as a nice and easy and comfortable person.  Take that as a compliment.  Doesn't mean they want to be with yu forever, but it just means they value your friendship more than others.

I would say that it is a solid business move for any provider.  At some point you probably meet some solid well to do men who you would enjoy seeing and also make a good living.  There are a few providers I have seen who have gone that route.  It is probably a sensible thing to do at a particular point.   I would suspect the key is not to deal with gentleman who would get too clingy.