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No Penetration Session! How often and Why?
blue5361 123 Reviews 2012 reads
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Today I was with one of my kgirl favs, and I asked her to tease me and edge me!  To my surprise, she had no idea what “edge” means after years of providing, so I explained it to her!  My goal was to let her edge me a few times (her bbbj and hj skills are phenomenal), then penetrate (covered) in one of my fav positions to completion. Of course, building up to the third or fourth edge, I couldn’t hold it any longer, and I let loose.  Oops not the way I planned to end the session, but a great finish anyways!

Afterwards, I was considering how often I complete a session with no penetration and why? I could think of one time when a provider blew me away with cowgirl p-to-p, and a few others where the bbbj was just too good to stop! Unfortunately a few times the provider’s looks or the circumstances caused a complete failure to launch rather than a premature conclusion! Finally, I have  occasionally gone on a massage binge with the pre-determined outcome being no penetration despite my strongest desire otherwise! As an older guy, I’m usually one and done, so a re-do is also not in the cards!

I would say my overall non-penetration sessions are in the 2-5% range, while regularly being below 2%, and when the massage desire hits me, it could go above 20% for a month or two.

How often and why do you have no penetration sessions?

For MSOG guys, what percent of your “shots” include penetration?

And I really don't feel cheated either.

 
A good grip or sliding finish makes me very happy.

I cater to disabled people, so right now my friend has a catheter & penetration is not even an option. I had another friend who was in a wheel chair, so penetrating was never in the menu his review was great, but I only got a 7 score due to lack of available options. My longtime friend combat wounded disabled Vet who never could achieve penetration. In my everyday job I care for people who have disabilities, so maybe that’s why the Universe blesses me with those who need special attention. If I had to guess a percentage my clients 25% do not & will never achieve penetration due to their person life restrictions.

 
The goal is to fun by any means  necessary. Lucky for me I am very creative & specialize in other playful options that do not require penetration. I have always had a huge collection of adult toys. If your tongue still works I am sure we will have a blast regardless.  Lol Smile for me!

that is perfect for you.  25% can make the difference between a bad month and a decent month.  I give you credit for identifying an underserved market segment and taking it over so other providers with less patience don't have to deal with it.  

Hey CDL i just assume you are one of Nurse Bia’s handicapped “friends.”

Dear Mother Bia,
I do hope you are not charging your “friends.”
Because if you are than it would be quite immoral.

I cannot recall the last time when I was with a woman that could bring me to orgasm without penetration. When I was younger, a good BJ or HJ worked swell. As I got older and my stamia got better (or worse depending on perspective), any woman that tried got tired before I came to completion. They always asked me to finish myself, and the providers who still wanted to please would offer that I could cum on their tits or in their mouth. But not all.

But I do not see a provider just to jerk off on her, so penetration is the goal and the only way I get off without using my own hands. The very idea of edging is foreign to me and not something I think I could do at this point in my life.

...and I've never had a provider ever complain about it, lol

is a taste that has not yet been acquired.  Lol

TBH, if I haven't acquired it by now, it is most unlikely that I ever will 🤷‍♀️

you know me, I'm Mr. Optimist.   Lol

There's a lady I've seen 8 or 10 times in the last year solely for DATY. No blue pill necessary and no messy covers to dispose of. And yummy fun for me. I've done the same with a couple of massage providers--no need even for the HJ.

And as for my favorite--duos--around 8 times out of 10,  I'm content to just watch and help out with some DATY and DFK here and there, and maybe rub one out to finish.  Allows me to focus on the inimitable delight of watching sapphic sweetness unfold before me. There's so much loveliness to witness if I'm not focused on getting in and getting off.

worried16 reads

kgirls charge by the completion.  They seem more upset if you don't blow.  They need their vaping break.  HA!

Their idea of edging is switching positions.   Lol

The K-Girls I frequent (SFBay area) do not charge by the completion, but by the hour including MSOG.  
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Most of them go for a second pop whenever there's time for it.  Yes, they seem upset if I don't cum twice, but I take that as part of the performance they put on for me; they are not  getting paid more for my second pop, just probabilistically getting more repeats and reputation for service.  It's good business for them to please thoroughly!  

A few orgs are trying to move to an upsell model, but it hasn't caught on around here.  Where are you, that they charge by the completion?

John_Laroche28 reads

Probably greater than 80%, but that's because I mainly play in the FBSM world.  
Now with a FS provider, I do still sometimes opt for an edging BBBJ finish rather than covered penetration. For me, it's a lot of fun to tease each other in lazy 69, and stopping to 'suit up' breaks flow of the session. I also orgasm much more intensely without the cover.

That said, the visual of of entering a hot young woman from various positions has it's appeal, LOL.

John_Laroche21 reads

If it's my choice to forgo,  why would I mind?

John_Laroche17 reads

That is a possibility. I might also bump you from her schedule if she thinks I might want a non-penetrative session, but I don't book a fs provider with that stipulation going in ( unless she tells me Aunt Flo is in town and offers a postponement).
I can't worry about how much I pay, or tip, affects her other clients. This isn't a bro's before ho's situation.

This has to be the most absurd thread I’ve ever seen here.
The Fuck Board is now the Non-Fuck Board
I especially loved Helixer’s post. Paying only to daty
I wonder if you’ve ever done a bathroom cleanup session, and do you do windows?

You spend your money how you want, and I'll spend my money how I want. Or perhaps you don't understand how adulthood and a free society work.

Not that there is anything wrong with that.

"Lexi Love, an AI model designed to serve as a digital girlfriend for lonely men, is attracting thousands of subscribers and earning an impressive $30,000 a month. The AI girlfriend has reportedly received up to 20 marriage proposals a month."

Was there any accounting of how many of the proposals were from ChatGTP personae?

Posted By: lester_prairie
The AI girlfriend has reportedly received up to 20 marriage proposals a month."
"I'm sorry, Dave. ... The 9000 Series has a perfect operational record."

My right, then my left and finish right 🤣

iHeartMouthHugs25 reads

…at giving head, I have booked a subsequent session that was entirely BBBJ. I’ve only done this a handful of times, but I also have had a few over the years who I saw only for head mainly because that was also all they offered and, probably as a result, they had BJ black belts.  Finding a good lay seems much easier than finding good head, at least for my tastes.

Posted By: iHeartMouthHugs
Finding a good lay seems much easier than finding good head, at least for my tastes.
Of course this is subjective, but over the years I've found that most women are just "okay" at giving head. I'm not sure I have ever experienced a bad BJ but I have found very few women who excel at it.

I guess you never met this gal lol!

I'll have to watch it again tomorrow since I am not alone at this time, but those teeth look a bit menacing.

I was married to two different women who refused to give head.  Between marriages, is got blown all the time.  Then I moved back to the midwest from the east coast and once again, no head.

What I am trying to say is most of my adult sex life has been without oral,  so I am making up for lost time.  I would say most of my encounters end with my dick in her mouth or removed but in hand when I cum..

There are some that penetration is my favorite, and two in particular who can make me cum for an extended period of time.  

However I would say the majority is BJ with CIM or Cum in hand.

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