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Re: You are bitching about it here, so it's reasonable to expect it happened here
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Agreed. Any reasonable person would assume that if you're bitching about it here, it happened here.  
If you have a bad experience at Nieman Marcus, do you go to Nordsrom to complain?

I saw a provider recently with 24 reviews 20 of them were from people who gave 10s across the board. 18 of those people have seen three girls or less some of the reviews where dated from 2010 and before. The girl rating was 8 out of 10 in looks but 7 out of 10 in performance from my review. Needless to say her white knights pm me bad mouthing the score. I vote if you have less than 5 reviews you can't pm someone asking why you didn't give 10s if she was a 10 I would have given her a ten. I now see three reviews where your only white listed by the girl as a review to be taken from a grain of salt. My 2cents

YI812436 reads

Ratings are very subjective.  The hobbyists giving 10s that you speak of may have seen the provider numerous times to develop a comfort level and THEN reviewed her.  Also, one man's 10 may be another man's 7.

That's being kind.  Some others here may not be so kind lol

LasVegan387 reads

are like assholes...........everybody has one............you..........me..........and yes, them!  But agree, they should NOT be PMng you..........whatever you choose for a rating is YOUR business and yours alone.

Unless of course, if there is anything unethical or unfair about it.  Normally.......TER will decide that an not post your review.........if that is the case.

You have a very good point IMHO.

Did the review get removed? I was interested in reading about your experience, but could not locate the review for the provider that you described from your review list. Were you pressured to remove or edit your review? That would be a clear instance of review manipulation and should not be tolerated.

While I don't disagree with you that white knights are annoying and each client should have the right to their say, I'm just not sure how a restriction of PM's based on your criteria would be implemented. Would newbies only be allowed to PM other newbies? I'm a newbie with one review, but I rely on PM's to get a perspective and advice from other hobbyists that are more experienced. I would hate for that positive aspect of PM to disappear.

GaGambler476 reads

Not only that, but none of your reviews are of any woman with anything close to 20 10-10 reviews.  

Are you sure you aren't a bit confused here?

As for receiving unwanted PM's, I hope you are aware that it's a simple matter to put someone on ignore if you aren't capable of simply ignoring their PM's on your own.

Good call. This is a case of the pot calling the kettle black. I'm seeing 8 rated providers getting inflated ratings by the OP and his own WLs are/is from inflated ratings. Go figure.

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I posted it on a different board. I have seen over 30 girls call it what you want. Not every girl I have seen is posted here. Why are you so quick to be a jerk? Just asking

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GaGambler416 reads

You should be bitching about what happens on other boards on those other boards.

Every board has different policies where it comes to White Knights, reviews and PMs. I still maintain your post was highly disingenuous and that any reasonable person would have assumed you were posting about something that happened here.

As for being a jerk, I am not the one getting caught in lies, you are. If catching you in a lie and calling out for it makes me a jerk, I am more than happy to wear that jacket.

GaGambler298 reads

I guess that means you haven't been trying hard enough.  

or in Drew's case, it must have gotten lost in the mail. We all know he tries PLENTY hard enough. lol

It comes naturally. Being an asshole runs in some family's. In mine, it Gallups. LOL.

Agreed. Any reasonable person would assume that if you're bitching about it here, it happened here.  
If you have a bad experience at Nieman Marcus, do you go to Nordsrom to complain?

making a judgement on their ratings.

If I see a 10, and all the guy gives are 10s, then that means less to me than an 8 from someone who rarely if ever gives an 8.

Also, I go more by what the review says.

I've seen "10" reviews that read like a 7, and "7" reviews that read like a 10

Very true, but I also check how other's rated his 10's to see if he's accurate or far off. In this case, the OP's 10s were rated in the 8's by others (I am talking about performance here because looks are too subjective to make any sense of how people rate that. I am suspect when I see an average performance rating of 8 suddenly being bumped to a 10.

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Throw out the best and the worst, and evaluate the rest.

When I first started in this wonderful life of ours, I rated very high. Two reasons, first is that the women I saw were outstanding compared to the women that I could attract IRL and that's still the case, but more importantly some of my first providers were and still are the most beautiful women I've ever seen IRL, much less sucked and fucked.

Most of my reviews have high numbers and there's a good reason for that, I do my homework, I read reviews, I ensure her menu includes my likes, so there are very few less than stellar experiences.

The bottom line though for the number system is that it's subjective, what I find worthy of a 10 score is likely different than what you do. I saw a woman who has dyed her hair bright red, I thought prior to seeing her that the unnatural look of that would be a deduction of one number, and then I spent time with her and it fits her and her personality and it actually added to her sexiness.

Beauty IS in the eye of the beholder, and performance is just as subjective. Read the reviews, pay little attention to the numbers.

Attractiveness has so much more to do with attitude for me than anything else. A body with no soul is just a 0 no matter what the body is like...  

I have been wildly attracted to conventionally unattractive individuals and decidedly turned off by the conventionally attractive...And I would be lying if I said I could honestly call the latter 10 or the formers less than 10. How attracted I am determines how hot I think my partner is, not the other way around ;-

..don't get a lot of reviews since if they were really 10s their johns won't share them since it will risk pushing up her price and volume (can stretch them out, make her harder to book). Not only that but the more business she will get the quicker she will be financially independent and have an option of leaving the industry/becoming bossier. The best providers I have ever seen have been 0-4 reviews max on TER. They have small reviews for another reason as well: They don't stay long term, average shelf life is 1-2 years. :(

I never trust a 10/10 review.

I want her to be successful, so that this remains something that she wants to do, so she stays around and then I get to keep seeing her.

Good perspective, however the age group I patronize is the college group and they mostly do it to pay debt then they are out.

I just about have to make sparks shoot from my ass to get a 10! Lol

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