It's sexy to me to play a little game where the provider tries to convince me to take off the cover. I don't do it, of course. But it's a fun little game to play. Recently, a provider got pretty upset with me for asking for this role-play (I made it fully clear that I wouldn't take it off and wasn't asking to), so I wonder if others find this request insulting? Thanks.

You should definately stop asking for that,and should be happy that the girls you have come across do not think it is a joking matter.

Try having her beg you with lots of please and thank yous to let her suck you off. You can permit her to touch it, then to kiss it, them to lick it, and so on. If she gets ahead of what you've allowed, give her a gentle spanking. This can be a fun game, especially if she's spirited enough to try to rebel.

that the provider who was upset with you was seeing you for the first time...so yeah, I think I get her being a bit taken aback!  This kind of play is best avoided, but if you must I'd recommend discussing it fully clothed with someone you've seen several times befofe engaging in it.

Seems a bit too sensitive and dangerous to ask for that type of bbfs role play. A girl who knows you very very well might be ok with it, but who knows.

Charlie - I'm not asking for bbfs just the taboo idea of it. I don't think of it as a joking matter just a taboo idea that turns me on.  

But it's a turn off for me to engage in something risky so I guess the effect would cancel out to zero? lol

Yes u are

Not sure what this says about me, lol, but I've had more than a couple boyfriends who asked me to role play that I was tricking them into getting me pregnant.  Here's why it was fun though- every single one of them had a vasectomy.  So it pretty clearly wasn't a real risk.

Why only half-sister? Life is short, go full sister. lol

Fair enough.

Now in the game I recommended, the woman can so overwhelm you with her BJ skills that you end up begging HER to keep going even though she didn't ask for permission. So in that case SHE wins. But if you are firm with her, and tame her wild desperation, she becomes subservient, and YOU win.

...could be anywhere. Who knows? The fantasy might have all ready happened for real and you never knew it. So...just explore. Again, there's the thing of who wins. She might be your sister or she might not. If you feel a twinge of WADPish guilt afterwards, YOU win. If not, she was lying to you, but you got sucked in to fucking her anyway, and SHE wins.

...and she has to kiss and make it better after yanking the tape off each one. That one is fun for the entire family.

...and wearing nothing else, chase her down, then figure out how to do K9 while basically leaving the costumes on. Most of the fun here is in the foreplay. And the afterplay/cuddling. Unless you decide to go with with the "Someone's been turning tricks in MY bed and she's still HERE!!!!" kind of thing. That's advanced. Get through the beginning and intermediates on the first session (you probably won't be allowed to return the costumes and will have to buy them, so you'll need to repeat to get your money's worth).

I wouldn't go there.  And that's coming from a guy that really likes role play.  And generally I'm ok with taboo themes.  But the one theme I won't even kid around about is safety.  This has too many bad places it can go and opportunities for bad feelings later.  Sounds like a negative energy space to me - I like positive energy in my rp.

Of course I wouldn't do it... Right up there with the checks in the mail or I won't cum in your mouth.

It's not a game no matter how you 'imply' it. Interesting handle choice. Of course, you meant it. It's simple, leave it on, stop with the lil infantile games and don't joke about it. She had every right being upset and hopefully she's already refused to see you again. No damn 'roleplay' about it...nice try convincing yourself though. Good Lord.

If lady said she wanted bbfs with me as a role play I would quickly lose my hard on.  
 

Rolling around in bed,  tumbling,  tossing,  turning...  lol

It takes all kinds, I guess.  And, yes, it still does sound creepy to me.

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in a month and Conan is paying me a visit to help me with my grammar skills while tumbling, tossing and turning and rolling around in bed.

Unfortunately, the ladies deal with enough guys actually scheming for BBFS that it's probably the biggest turn-off for her. Try it with a GF instead.

Seems a bit hasty.  Don't forget, there'll be a pre-nip and I need to meet your parents.

If he has a rapport with said female and it's just a fantasy let it be. As long as you don't actually remove the cover what's the harm in fantasy? C'mon people, in the p4p covered world PRETENDING your bb'ing is low on the totem pole of fantasy. (At least for me I get asked the craziest ish) As long as real world boundaries are respected respect the fantasy, as long as that's ALL it is.

How many children are you planning on having?

... pretend I'm shy and inexperienced and she needs to coax me out of my shell. Maybe if I tell her I'm shy about asking her to pretend I'm shy...

At a certain point in a woman's life you stop meeting her parents for approval and have to meet her adult children instead. I think Tardy passed that point in her life long ago.

Another reason to turn her in for a newer model.

He admitted that she got upset as well. So it's not just us that doesn't think this fantasy is such a great idea.

and I think,(along with many others here) that his claim that he will "respect those boundaries" is not that believable. It sure doesn't sound like the lady he requested this from believed him either.

you have no idea. Trust me. Just keep this world simple for us and everyone will have a great time. Deviate from that, and the formula here goes south. Catch my drift?

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45, if that's advanced, hell half the people on this board are practically ancient then. I think you need to rethink your #'s a bit. As far as speaking about my parents or children, I really, really don't think you want me to go there, now do you. That's even too much asshole, even for you. But you can be a gentleman and wish me a belated Happy Birthday. That would be swell lol.

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But between the "race" role play that goes against every fiber of my non fantasy being, and that one guy who used to coax me to coax him to eat from the condoms in the trash (luckily his reputation preceded him so I got in character quick…my character being "no your not disgusting!!!") and not to mention the rape fantasies that many men love and few women admit to loving…this just doesn't strike me as that kinky.