I don't know if this has ever been asked before here, but I'm curious....do you get turned on by your clients?  I would assume that some of you do, at least from time to time.   Do you ever open the door and see a client and think, "this guy looks like he'll be fun!"  Or is there anything else about some of them that turns you on?

I ask because even though I arrange for the service, I'm always hoping for there to be a little mutual attraction.  Thanks for your comments!

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I said I didn't know.  Is there a search function to find that question if it was posted previously?

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You would get more useful information by asking what turns a provider OFF about a client.

Providers are a special hedonistic breed that are typically polynorphously erotic or simply avaricious enough that unless you are both madly in love with each other, asking for something that goes with deep attraction is simply silly.

HOWEVER

What turns a provider off is guaranteed to work with every provider across the board and result in consistent results: mediocre to bad ones.

Want to turn a provider on? Avoid doing the things that turn him/her OFF.

The search tab is only visible on the main (home) page of the discussion boards.

Go to the bottom of the post you are reading and hit the "Back to Forum" button.

Then go to the top of the forum Home Page.

There are several large tabs: [Top 10...] [SEARCH] [New Thread] [Overview]

Don't forget to choose (All words; Any words; Exact phrase) and to choose the date range. Don't be shy about going back several hundred days (750; a couple of years) to find a topic. Or do it in increments:
100 to 0
200 to 100
500 to 200
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I searched with my original subject as key words- most hits were not was I was looking for at all.  

But thanks for pointing out the search feature anyway.

Like another lady mention in here prior... easier to get a list of what is a big turn off...

But, since I look all in positive ways I can tell you that from the beginning; its a turn on to get accurate information since the request of the appointment, easy communication, the gentleman facilitate screening. (A+ points added).  
Prior to the appointment, discretion from their part, be on time, and since its not lady like to be a clock watcher... not abuse of the ladies time.  
Big turn on, being clean, smell good, clean teeth , decent and obviously being a gentleman!

 

What you're really asking is...what turns a woman on?  

The answer...it's complicated, and ever-changing.  

I haven't cracked the code yet, but am having a lot of fun experimenting...😎

Thanks for the response!  Maybe I'm just being foolish, since I have no way of knowing what a particular provider will like or not like about a client (and neither will she, most likely) until they meet.

I had one provider comment to me while giving a HJ, that it "was so hard!"  I think she was actually turned on by it, and that, in turn, turned me on.  If nothing else, these anecdotes are amusing and good entertainment.

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Money and good cock! throw some good pussy in the mix and hey, I am a happy Lil Ho!  
I do love a confident person that is squeeky clean and smells good too I seem to attract good people I guess because I get turned on by most that come to see me if I don't,  I just don't see them again.  Good thing about p4p,  we all can decide these things for ourselves and don't have to do anything/anyone we dont enjoy.
XOXO  
TL

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Yes, you are being foolish.  

Hookers are women first, but they have a LOT more sex than the average woman. Don't expect to swoon over you for real, allow yourself to believe the platitudes if it's a turn on to you, but trust me, you are very unlikely to have anything she's never seen before.  

Just relax and enjoy yourself. Most good hookers will try to make you feel like a real stud. It's good for business and a good hooker wants your repeat business.

I think I'm covered there!  

Veronica, have you ever opened the door and thought "this will be fun!"   In other words, is it always just work, or are there times when a client is memorable in a good way for you?

I'm in a service industry myself, and I admit that sometimes clients are "more interesting" than others.  

BTW- wish I were in DC!

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It turns me on when me and my partner are able to have a little mind sex before the clothes come off... There's something to be said about a down-and-dirty romp where the action starts minute in the door but for the most part I like mental stimulation I find it very sexy. I also find passion very sexy... There's something to be said about a gentleman who will let you know he's excited to meet and participates in creating the magic of the session because it really can't be done as a one-sided deal. I would say 75% of my clients turn me on..... it's just natural when things start happening you're naturally going to get into it if you allow yourself to be present in the moment...

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It's more about the brains than the brawn for me. I have SUCH a weakness for slightly nerdy, intellectual gentlemen, and I have an enormous glasses fetish. There's just something about a pair of stylish specs...

I love clients who think like you do. Clients that even care to have interest in what turns me on, well it always ends up being 100 percent, an amazing time

OK- I may be in luck here.

Just to clarify-  you have an enormous fetish for glasses or a fetish for enormous glasses, say Elton John circa 1975?  

I read your web page - I think we would hit it off!  

ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE BUSH!   (Austin Powers voice)  YEAHHH, BABY, YEAH!

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And true masculinity

LOL!!!!
 

Many times I open the door and think: "this is the reason why I'm still single" 😂😂
I am a lucky lady myself!
I do weed out meetings based on my screening, just like I want my friends to have a good time, I want to enjoy myself as well.  
And if on my screening I find something that would make me uncomfortable I rather be honest and tell the gentleman we are not a good match... plenty of ladies out there that can meet his requirements and characteristics.
Nothing worst than spend time with someone &  exchange energy (Im a big beliver on energy exchange in every human contact) and feel like a date would never seem to end!
 

Enthusiastic givers.
Nice guys.
Shy guys.
Older guys.
Gentle guys.
Generous guys.
Ever so privately submissive guys.
Guys who let me do naughty things to their bottoms.
Guys who like doing naughty things to my bottom.
Guys with use courtesy and manners because it is a habit.
Guys who arrive open to the possibility that I am both honest and sincere with them.
Guys who pay complements spontaneously or often.
Guys who like to hug and kiss.
Guys who recognize that I don't have to be here, I am choosing to be here and I am choosing to be here with them and make the most of that.
Guys who know the most important life lesson of "Money isn't everything" - also applies to clients.
Guys who bring presents or tokens of affection because they thought more of me as something more than an appointment with a robot.

And this is the short list.

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those are definitely pleasant as well!!!  

mutual attraction.  You are attracted to her body, and she is attracted to your wallet.  It doesn't have to get any more complicated than that.

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Or the taste of champagne? Maybe making love at midnight in the dunes at the cape? 😎

Yes, there has been. But like you mentioned it has to be a little mutual attraction to build on. The person may not be a great conversationalist but they're drop dead gorgeous. For me, it's the conversation and the passion that gets me. I love feeling wanted and needed. And that, will be a day in paradise for my gent.
xoxo

fuck you and your search button. If you don't like the f****** post don't read it, don't respond, stick your finger in your ass, do something that you enjoy. Why rain on somebody's parade just because they have a question that was asked before?

Maybe they want to be part of the dialogue instead of reading someone else's? Do you think they need your fucking permission? My suggestion is be a miserable asshole on your local board ... and this board can be for ladylike and gentlemanly discourse. 😆

How many original questions have you asked?  

How many new questions does anyone posts on the board? Nobody needs anybody's permission around here to say what they want. Much of whats said here is by assholes waiting in the bushes to criticize someone without offering any socio/sexual value. Rant over

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and it ain't always a hooker on the receiving end of the payout.

Thanks, Pretty!  I'm glad you appreciate the topic...it's hard to have a decent conversation sometimes due to time constraints, but I get the feeling that some of the providers would like that mental stimulation.  Do you think most providers would mind some form of messaging prior to the meeting to "break the ice" a little beforehand?

never apologize to am asshole.  

Rule #2 ... never apologize to an asshole? Correct

Rule#3 ... don't ask😄

I know you didn't but explaining yourself is unnecessary.  
You had a question and anyone who wants to play can.
Even assholes. It's America.  

BTW, I'm all for good old fashioned Ball breaking. Ill do it often. But the mean spirited shit aligns itself with GaGa's political rant yesterday in that you didn't hear anyone tell him that post doesn't belong here.  

Ya know why? They're pussies and are afraid he'll respond ... and there's a good chance it won't be pretty ... even if he's right ... LOL

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Can't ask that question because it's been asked 100 times.

bad hygiene
smelly balls
negotiating rates
asking for time OTC  
asking inappropriate questions before being screened
paying your tab in with a jar of quarters?
asking for BBFS  

Did I miss something? Maybe I'll do a search and update this post?

Is that the short list?
 

but perfect. And just what I like to hear ... when I repeat with a gal with a tight, clean pussy. I like clean too. lol

TL ... You're a bad, bad girl... go to you room ... and find your Hitach

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All the big mouths love it when others pile on along with them ... but go home crying to their mummies when someone calls THEM out. Whine on ...

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that's why I like those dinner dates, champagne, hugs, kisses, good talks, cuddle under blankets and sexy fun!

Especially if one doesn't know how to apply it. I use a body wash, more subtle.

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with that sentiment, sweetheart. it's why we repeat

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Yes some of us do and there are two clients of mine that I have crossed the line with meaning seeing them off the clock and getting feelings for. Both started with physical attraction. I like tall men and one is tall but the other one is short. He is also thin and I usually like men with more girth so it blew away what I normally am attracted to and since then I no longer have a "type". I could not have a regular relationship with either man as both are married but I did end up falling hard for both and they both uttered those words: (I love you) and then I realized I loved them too. There are two more that get me excited when they ring me up. One has chipped teeth even though I am usually a stickler for perfect teeth but I adore him smiling at me and it makes me so warm and I want to kiss him all day. The other one just has a perfect business man look all dressed in a suit. Tall and dark and very good looking. He is always surprised at how... aroused I am. He jokes that I never need lubricant. Nope! So it does happen. I know guys think that we do not do that, get genuinely excited by men that visit us but it's true.

If you work in corporate America in a suit all day...the wild rush of kinky, wild and very naughty adventures with a stranger at your door is exciting and so much fun... To me every man is sexy and fun... there is no stopping a horny, passionate woman....
Passionately,
Frederica

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I'm gonna crawl back under my rock now that you got me with that one ... did I mention you babies don't like back talk? Thought so.

never answers honestly in one of these forum. The bottom line is all the providers here get that some guy are looking either for a temporary connection or (not sure if this is you with only 4 reviews) looking for a real connection and finding they are confusing good sex with love.  

Now, I'm not saying all the providers are just good actresses and cold toward the clients - I've heard enough stories I believe about friendships and actual relationships forming - but in this forum you'll probably never hear one say they never get off on the sex or find a client attractive/stimulating/interesting. It's a business and source of living income for most and I suspect that's the important part for just about all of them. As long as the John has some emotional control the starry-eyed romantics make for great repeat customers. You never want to alienate your best customers.

So, if you really want to get the answer spend a lot of time forming an actual friendship one or more of the girls you see and later you'll get honest answers . . . once you've proven honesty will not bite them in the pocketbook!

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I knew you could do it.  

I have a twenty two year old who'd rather engage than offer a short answer to a simple question. The Board, IMHO, while I'm not trying to change it ( I won't live that long lol) can be a good lace for info and a place for some gold old boys ballbreaking.  

No need for the ugliness, and no, I'm not referring to you. 😉

I strongly dislike bullies. They're usually pussies looking for the attention.

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Perfect response. My attraction is really wide and varies. But my tun offs apply to each and every man. If you've  followed my etiquette and are fresh and respectful, i already like you and I'm excited to get dirty. That's just the truth.

If you're not into yoga and you have half a brain....then I'm the lady you've looked for, come with me and escape