...so a few local providers are offering discounts for future hangs for down payments now..i trust most of them..but wondering how the you guys feel about that...are there touring providers offering the same?..i dont want to get screwed financially...but still want to get screwed physically...what say you?...any way to protect cash deposits in lieu of liquid deposits???
Let Provider borrow (her CC; her bank) against the escrow.
When things resume, and commitments are fulfilled, the escrow is released and she pays off the loans.
...so a few local providers are offering discounts for future hangs for down payments now..i trust most of them..but wondering how the you guys feel about that...are there touring providers offering the same?..i dont want to get screwed financially...but still want to get screwed physically...what say you?...any way to protect cash deposits in lieu of liquid deposits???
...so a few local providers are offering discounts for future hangs for down payments now..i trust most of them..but wondering how the you guys feel about that...are there touring providers offering the same?..i dont want to get screwed financially...but still want to get screwed physically...what say you?...any way to protect cash deposits in lieu of liquid deposits???
Let Provider borrow (her CC; her bank) against the escrow.
When things resume, and commitments are fulfilled, the escrow is released and she pays off the loans.
Huh. Really? That is a good way to do things actually. Learn something new
while you explain to the escrow officer that you want an escrow so she doesn't fuck you before she fucks you. Lol
while you explain to the escrow officer that you want an escrow so she doesn't fuck you before she fucks you. Lol
The provider NEVER pays all her obligations, escrow is NEVER released and you NEVER see your money again.
Not to mention that unless you are talking about giving a provider thousands of dollars, it's going to cost you more time and money to set up the escrow account than you would have lost if you had just made the "loan" to your favorite provider a "gift" instead.
Leave it to IMP to come up with a solution at least as bad as the problem itself, but nice try. This was probably one of your least complicated BAD ideas, lol
and that of course is NOT to do it. If you do choose to send a favorite provider a few (or more than a few) bucks, here is my advice. Do NOT send it as a down payment or a pre payment on a future date, or at least don't do so mentally, consider it a gift, if she ever makes good on it, consider it "found money" but don't do it expecting her to make good on it some day, do it out of the goodness of your heart, you are much less likely to end up disappointed that way.
Here is the problem with expecting repayment, by the time this is over she is most likely going to still be in a very deep hole and hardly in a position to be repaying debts by giving out free sessions, so what's going to happen is that she is going to avoid your calls, put off your sessions, because she knows she owes you and you will end up being out both the money AND whatever relationship you previously had with her.
If you want to help, by all means help, but do so WITHOUT expecting repayment if you truly value your relationship with her/them.
and that of course is NOT to do it. If you do choose to send a favorite provider a few (or more than a few) bucks, here is my advice. Do NOT send it as a down payment or a pre payment on a future date, or at least don't do so mentally, consider it a gift, if she ever makes good on it, consider it "found money" but don't do it expecting her to make good on it some day, do it out of the goodness of your heart, you are much less likely to end up disappointed that way.
Here is the problem with expecting repayment, by the time this is over she is most likely going to still be in a very deep hole and hardly in a position to be repaying debts by giving out free sessions, so what's going to happen is that she is going to avoid your calls, put off your sessions, because she knows she owes you and you will end up being out both the money AND whatever relationship you previously had with her.
If you want to help, by all means help, but do so WITHOUT expecting repayment if you truly value your relationship with her/them.
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That's is the best advice you'll ever get. If you feel sorry and want to help her do it for that reason and kiss the money good bye. This has happened to me several times with the same end result. They befriend you and make you feel like you're their "special friend" that they confide in. They tell you a hard luck story and make you feel guilty for not helping them. You give them what they need thinking that she's so hot, love spending time with her, and this is a good way to secure that. Then they ghost you. I even had one chick respond and tell me she doesn't do freebies. It was a loan, not asking for anything free.
and that of course is NOT to do it. If you do choose to send a favorite provider a few (or more than a few) bucks, here is my advice. Do NOT send it as a down payment or a pre payment on a future date, or at least don't do so mentally, consider it a gift, if she ever makes good on it, consider it "found money" but don't do it expecting her to make good on it some day, do it out of the goodness of your heart, you are much less likely to end up disappointed that way.
Here is the problem with expecting repayment, by the time this is over she is most likely going to still be in a very deep hole and hardly in a position to be repaying debts by giving out free sessions, so what's going to happen is that she is going to avoid your calls, put off your sessions, because she knows she owes you and you will end up being out both the money AND whatever relationship you previously had with her.
If you want to help, by all means help, but do so WITHOUT expecting repayment if you truly value your relationship with her/them.
Agree with GG. Expecting a "future date" in the fuzzy future sets up disappointment for both parties. If you are in the position to help, just help without expecting repayment in any form. Some providers can weather this mess financially but others are really hurting, so every little bit helps.
...Never a Borrower nor a Lender Be!
So don't do it, unless you consider it a gift with no expectations.
Buena suerte!
I've preached against advances, yet on occasion I've done it. About 4 out of 5 times they ghost. The sad cases are when I was setting up some future meets with sugar babes who ended up being homeless. Once they get your number they are always begging for a handout.
But the difference was she was a good friend of some very good friends and was slated to attend a M&G with us. She needed the money to fix her car, so I sent it to her, knowing she was highly unlikely to piss of good friends and get shamed at (or have to miss) the M&G. If none of this was the case I would not have done it. She was as good as her word. But that was six or seven years ago and I haven't done it since (or before).
Absolutely!! I have had guys tell me that even when they got "makeup" sessions the girls were lousy in presentation and in the sack.
If a hooker knows she is not going to make money sucking cock her transmitters turn off in her brain.
The guys who were ghosted (most of the saps who are stupid enough to pay ahead) were actually better off than the guys who got lackluster makeup sessions.
Is a retainer as well. Try it and see how much ‘future’ sex it will get you. Consider that before you send a ‘deposit’ on a still illegal service, and then try to enforce that contract.
...so a few local providers are offering discounts for future hangs for down payments now..i trust most of them..but wondering how the you guys feel about that...are there touring providers offering the same?..i dont want to get screwed financially...but still want to get screwed physically...what say you?...any way to protect cash deposits in lieu of liquid deposits???
I have done that for a couple of favorites already. From my perspective, I do actually care that they make it through this and I do appreciate everything they do for me. From their perspective, it is much appreciated. I would not be surprised if the gift is "reciprocated" at some point but I am not worried about that.
I am offering incentives to locals and when it is okay to travel to my upcoming tour cities.
I have a few incentives if you book 3hr or more get an 1hr free. For travel cities prebook 2hr and receive 30min free.
If a gent prepays for an appt or a deposit I offer $50 off for deposit and 100 off for prepay.
Every lady is different but I have worked my butt off for years for my reputation.
I am not going to ruin it by dipping and dodging a client who is nice enough to prepay or send a deposit.
We have all heard the horror stories of prepay/deposit going wrong but on the other hand there are many times where it has worked out well. Usually only hear the bad stories.Do what works best for you and your comfort level.
Just my .02