i can normally fuck both covered or bare for quite a while ..  also most BBBJ  i can control .. BUT . a decent hand job and i have to get her to stop or i'll pop    

is that just me ? or what way do you find hardest to control cumming when you don't want to yet

but enough of the grammar lesson, I don't want to move in on Conan's territory.

 
I do agree though that a gal who has a good mastery of of the masturbatory arts can launch a missile as fine as NASA can.

A very elegant description.  Lol

 
Next time I get a good one, I'm going to ask the girl if she has a college degree in Masturbatory Arts.  I'll give you credit for the terminology, but I will get any benefit that comes from her amusement.  

I think HJS are way underrated.  Especially during a long road trip.

Because the stimulation is intense for hand jobs compared to other forms, they typically produce the strongest orgasms.

That well explains an M.A. degree!!
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What is M.S.?  
What is M.F.A.?

It's just you. I hate when they use hands.

That millennium aged customers often have trouble achieving orgasms during vaginal sex, and sometimes during oral sex, because they grew up on internet porn while masturbating themselves with handjobs.  The vigor and intensity of HJ's significantly exceeds that of other forms of sexual release, and their man-parts were trained over time to release only with a kung-fu grip.   That is one of the two reasons a lot of guys in their 20's to early 30's prefer happy-ending massage places over traditional sex workers.  (The other reason is price.)

Anytime I have gotten a HJ, the provider globs on the gel/glide. It feels more like a water tunnel then her hands. This kills it for me. TBH, I can have the same reaction if she uses too much gel during sex. I need a little friction to properally get off.

That's because you practice edging with YOUR hand. That's your practice field. So along comes the Div 1 womens' handball team to your practice field and you no longer have control over your own playbook!

As you were.

sag

I'm the other way around. When girls do hjs they grip it too much for my liking. They also don't know how to jerk me off the way my hand does  

 
I've had girls at storefront amps fuck me vaginally for like two minutes hop off ask me why I don't come and then attempt to finish me off by hand. And thaaats when they made a mistake. Because It'll be much easier for me to cum when pumping  
pussy. Let's just say I lay back and watch them think they gonna get me off ez with hand and then five, ten and even fifteen minutes come and go and I still haven't cummed yet. Some girls had to go and put an icepack on their hand. When finally they get me off (and sometimes I have to diy( I tell them hey we should fuck more next time.

has more experience.  Most providers have done it less than 10,000 times.  Lol

 
Younger girls, especially, think all men will finish sooner (and thus, less work for them) with a turbo-charged handjob.  A lighter touch with lots of lube works better for a lot of guys because it feels more like a pussy.