True for me.....slip that porno dvd in the player & climb...

on the treadmill...reminds me why I'm running my ass off. lol

I think hobbying has made me much more conscious of my overall fitness. Being well ove 50, it takes a lot more effort to stay in good shape, but I've found myself wanting to look my best for any upcoming date. I've always eaten right, but I do pay more attention to my exercise program now. Not only is it good for my own ego, (And we all have them, gentlemen) but I truly believe that it goes a long way in the performance department also.

In my personal experience, most hobbyists are at an acceptable fitness level.  This means they may not be perfect, but they're not in imminent danger of keeling over with a heart attack, if I get them too excited.  I think that is perfectly acceptable, and I have learned to appreciate their demeanor and they way they treat me as the biggest turn on, regardless of whether they're the next top male model.  

But I must admit that when I meet with a man who truly is out of shape or extremely overweight to the point of his health being in serious danger, I find it to be an undeniable turn off.  I always keep in mind I'm dealing with a human being with feelings, and he's probably self conscious enough already.  So I would try my best to make the first session as nice as possible.  But I doubt I would ever see him again.

Then there are those few guys who fall into the category of "Damn, I should be paying him!"  lol  I'd be lying if I said it didn't make the experience that much better, on top of him being a passionate and sensual guy.  But without the passion and sensuality, I'd much prefer the everyday Joe who knows how to treat a lady.  I'm guessing that the fact you think about these things, probably means you think about other ways to make your time with the ladies special, and that's all I can ask

I have had to learn to limit expenditures quite a bit since becoming divorced and suffering  simultaneous business reversals; so in order to keep some funds availiable for the hobby, I now spend several hours a week doing my own household chores and I also make my own lunches rather than eat out.  I also buy and eat less food, especially of the fattening variety.

The combination of these changes has had the affect of making me healthier, trimmer and more athletic.

"Ill blows the wind that profits nobody."

feel better, allows my clothes to fit better, and above all give me a better feeling of self-worth.  Which, enables me to become a more considerate and better lover.

30lbs and I am off and Running

Indeed.. I am the last one that wants to be embarassed by a gut and some flab.  So the goal is 30lbs.. once shed the REWARD will be marvelous!  

TLK

I agree that I preform better when in shape and as mentioned already the ladies seem to appreciate it.

Yes on a number of levels :-)

I began this chapter in my journey looking for more than just what one sees in adult movies. Couldn't put my finger on it (no pun intended) for a while. Started with FBSM a few times, and then made the aquiantance of a lovely Muse in Seattle. Something opened or awakened in me, and what I was seeking became more clear. This has led me to a new area of research and discovery, learning more about my sexuality, and also the various aspects of female sexuality. I've discovered a new level of openness and it has propelled me to more self-improvement.

Aside from the knowledge learned, I also am eating better and enjoying exercising, especially the ones which allow me to perform as I desire.

And I've also improved in terms of learning about natural foods which increase the bodies immune system against bacteria and viruses.

Finally, it's given me an avenue for sharing beneficial information with some of the wonderful ladies here. Which has propelled me further in research and study too.

Re: Does the hobby inspire self improvement?

I know this might sound corny but I really focus on finding the angel inside everyone I meet.  Sometimes, but not often, I have to look a little harder than other times but 99.99% of the time I'm successful and we both have a great time.

Personal preference is that someone not be obese but anything short of that works for me.  So far the vast majority of people I have seen are in okay shape.

Of course it is nice when I meet someone for the first time and they look good but what really counts for me is how do they treat me and what comes out of there mouth after we initially set eyes on each other.

Something I have noticed, is a couple of regular visitors who were first timers to the hobby when we initially met and how months later they'll be in better shape then when I first saw them.

Kisses,
Abigail

if i had to state a preference, naturally i prefer that a gentleman be physically fit, simply because it allows the opportunity to do more together. i appreciate those clients who give me a good work out from time to time...tossing and flipping me about, placing me in unique, acrobatic positions, and who have the stamina to make every minute of our time together very physically active. while i wouldn't want this from every client, a decathalon-type session every now and again certainly does the body good.

Yes, from a physical standpoint.

And not only in terms of physical fitness and appearance. I've learned a great deal about myself from my hobbying experiences that would have been difficult to learn any other way. It's also helped me become much more responsible about my spending habits. Strange, huh?

I think there is always that male instinct to make oneself look as best he can for a lady. The better you look,the more appealing you will feel to your lady, and the better you feel about that the better you feel about yourself. After all isn't feeling good kinda what it's about?..

m-

I know that this doesn't exactly correlate to your question, but I for one have been more conscious of my OWN health and fitness since I started providing.  

Not only is it a goal to be a particular size and build, but working out on a regular basis also keeps me fit for some of the various positions you gents like us girls to do - cowgirl, for instance.

I used to exercise frequently (kind of like a gym addict) when I was in college...but RL work took time away from the gym once I graduated.  It's nice that I now have the time and energy to attend to my personal health - and hopefully the gents will see the results!

...with my dick. LOL