What is it about having sex with a provider that makes it 10 times better than civie sex?Is it the thrill of paying someone?Are working ladies known to be nastier in bed?what is it?What are your thoughts?

thrill of doing something that is illegal.  When I walk through those doors my heart pounds and races because I really don't know what's on the other side of door.  After about 15 days or so I still get that excitement and exhilaration.  Oh by the way I forgot to mention that some of the best looking women I have ever seen are in this business and to have an opportunity to be with them is mind blowing in of itself.

I don't think that sex from a hooker is necessarily any better than sex with a civvie.

Don't get me wrong, I love having sex with hookers, but I don't think I have ever claimed it was "better" than sex with a civvie.

and it should be "what are your thoughts, if any?" remember the comma please, or that Pedantic Putz Jake will give you an earful.

it can also be that if a provider is any good and has half a brain she is really good at her job, she learns how to read body language and is able to give almost every individual what he or she wants.

It is pretty much in the job description, we provide a service that is hard to get elsewhere...I.e.  Great Intimacy

KO"

It's only what's perceived in your mind...before, during and after

I've got to admit that some of the civies that I've played hide the salami with have been pretty damn good too...  
    Obviously a reflection of what a truly skilled lover I am!   ;

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In my experience, I wouldn't say it's true, let alone 10x better. The main difference to me is less drama, less strings attached, etc., but the actual sex, with the right partner, civie or pro, it's a beautiful thing.

It's different, for sure....but it's not necessarily better. There are major pro's & con's of each. Though a sexual encounter is the common denominator, it really is apples & oranges psychologically.

Having sex with women that aren't constantly worried about LE is a definite plus.  Prostitutes are unseemly concerned about getting outed by johns, or other prostitutes.

As for performance, that varies wildly.  I've seen plenty of prostitutes that are just plain boring between the sheets.  No need to revisit those prostitutes.

Today's young women are much more interested in having NSA sex.  

Fortunately for you most johns have little or no game, and it's easier for them to pay a prostitute.

Very few prostitutes really know how to do a decent BBBJCIM.  

Just ask any guy who has enough experience to tell the difference.  Not the old farts who pay you and are just thrilled to have their pecker touched.

all the collateral issues.  Best summed up by saying, "I don't have to call them in the morning."  Reading between the lines, it means, on my schedule, no commitment, no drama, and all the variety I want without pissing anyone off.  Can't get any of this with a civvie girl, but just the sex in a vacuum, both the same for me.

Exhibit A:  A friend of mine who's a civvie but also a monger was sucking my cock very expertly and enthusiastically.  I told her I wanted to fuck her and she said, "No, I need to keep sucking your cock."  Priceless.
Exhibit B: My second ex LOVES to worship cock.  After we separated and I started telling her about a hooker I'd become friends with, she asked if the lady would give her blowjob lessons because, "I want to be the best provider I can."  She didn't really need them. But what a great attitude.

civie that could fuck like a provider. And she was hot ! Civies cannot take it like providers. Some Providers are true professionals and it shows in the bedroom.

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a more advanced skill set. Experience matters.

Besides, how are guys over 40 going to find young 20 somethings for a FB? Women our age are looking for commitment not a roll in the hay.

Maybe you 2 curious cats should date lol

So I gave you two examples that refuted it.
Claro?

Ain't that the truth, babe!

what's the difference...
Capeesh?


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it's 10 times more convenient and in the long run 10 times cheaper.

You are really confused. WTF? Get yourself some Namenda.

Of course everyone's perception is different, but the best sex I ever had was during a long term affair with a married woman.  That's obviously because it is an ego thing -- she wants to be with you so badly she risks everything.  So the mechanics of the sex really wasn't any different.  But the thought of pounding away in some other guy's wife ... priceless!

But once you find a true atf, it becomes off the chart sex. She'll meet you at all kinds of hours (4 am before work once). She'll plan way in advance for you, and trust you (one year in advance with one lady). She's open minded about everything sexual. She'll keep you abreast of specials. She'll throw in a freebie every now and then. Lunch is often included. And then there's the in between session contact to talk hobby trash. Can you believe rrasha said that? It's like having a girlfriend without the negative residuals.  

I know many of you ladies cringe when you hear the word freebie. I'm sure most guys would take advantage of you, and probably have. That's why you'd never consider it. But I'm one who believes that there can be honor in the hobby. There is this one special lady who gave me a freebie once upon a time. Hell, she invited me to spend the night. That was such a huge boost to my confidence, that in return, also because of that honor, I tip her every single time I see her. Yep, we still see each other. That was a $200 free session back in the day. What was her return? We're over triple figures in sessions now. Not only is that many repeat visits, she's nearing the $2000 mark in tips. It's atf stuff for sure, but in her case, it was an incredible business tactic. I've got a date with her Sunday. The tip money has already been set aside.

They are pros and it's what they do for a living. Look at it this way. You could paint your house yourself, but if you ever had the miserable experience of doing that, and then hired professional painters to paint your house ... Well, you would think your efforts we like a retarded chimp in comparison. Why? Because the pros are better at it. They do it frequently and if they are NOT good then they are out of business. It's that simple. They are pros.  

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At least not that I can tell. I will admit lacking experience with true civvies, given my wife is a working girl, and I was a late bloomer only having had sex with only a few partners before my wife. That said the best sex I even had was with my wife who I wasn't directly paying. (Sex is rarely if ever free.) Now out of her sex has been well sex. Now most working girls will put your needs before her own and civvies want her needs addressed as much as yours. Maybe that is what your picking up on?

Lol!  After receiving the cash your civvie will suddenly change plans  and go shopping with her girlfriends.

 
D.

The interactions with a provider are (mostly) devoid of emotional anchors.
Civilian females will carry all their emotional garbage into bed with you and therefore
it interferes with their dick sucking capabilities.  Of course, there are a few bipolar girls that will bypass the garbage and suck for the mental satiation.

Providers (for the most part) do not expect you to soothe their emotions, fulfill their being-ness, demand you make them happy by acting a certain way.  
All of that is taken care of by the money on the table that supplies what females want so badly, security.

That being taken care of, providers are free to cut loose the emotional ropes and bring out their inner slut, provider, whore, courtesan, companion, lover and Enjoy themselves

Maybe when you wake up you'll discover some game.  Your trash talk is weak and tired.

First, there is something erotic about the clandestine nature of the envelope exchange and the thrill of meeting for such a specific and intimate purpose.

Second, when we get together with hobbiests, there is a primal purpose of taking them to a heavenly bliss. It is all about you and you know it. There is a sense of power that combines with the pleasure for the hobbiest.

Don't get us wrong, civie sex can reach its own highs, but the planning and focus of provider sex escalates things quickly!
T&N

and the number of sexual experiences is a ratio of probably 1:100; so I'm not sure if a statistician would accept the comparison as valid.

I'd say 3 of the former were as good or better than almost any P4P experience.

Having a P4P partner often entails the gal to feel more obligated to bring about your satisfaction, but on the other hand a civie may feel a passion that is more than likely to be missing in the P4P world.

It's a pretty complicated situation is about the most accurate statement that can be made about this comparison.

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Experience.

now you're going to tell me my "opinion" is wrong, not because it is, but because you don't understand it ... how is the bliss?

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You clearly suck ...

that last sentence by bbfs4ever, is untrue for most of you supermodel looking dudes out there, but for the rest of us, it is oh so true.

It isn't even, as someone below insinuated, all about "game."

No strings attached, no drama, no hanging out in bars, no spending a boatload of money on drinks and clubbing and then maybe not getting any action.  

P2P is to avoid complications, especially for those of us unable to make the  time investment in civvie sex due to home commitments.

Get a life.

I've only been with one hooker that could even score in the top ten of my civie experiences.

There are lots of open-minded civvies with lots of experience.  And some have "daddy issues" and love older guys.  Check out the SB sites.

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How are those blowjob lessons going?

My ex benefitted greatly from the BJ lessons given her by my ATF.  At least that's what her boyfriend told me.
Stalk on, scooter.

You're starting to sound like a Board "Blowhard" and  unfortunately, we already have one of those and he's more than enough.

And you've long since been acting like a peevish stalker.  I already have a couple of those, but feel free to join the crowd.  Knock yourself out.  Now scoot.