As you can see from my reviews I've seen mostly agency ladies which you don't converse with til you meet. My first two indies I was able to chat with prior which is something I like although I realize not alot .Although my second lady which I saw twice, we texted each other from time to time to chat a bit. My question here is although I know the ladies are busy and I don't intrude on their time but it helps me if I'm able to message them through email to build a comfort level before meeting. Ladies, is this something you welcome or frown upon happening? Do you ladies get nervous when meeting a new client for the first time, I do so if Im able to message a few times with info on myself and questions I'm hopeful it will make myself and her more comfortable when we meet. As you can see from my reviews I got carried away at first and decided to slow down, this hobby can be very addicting to a newbie with all the beautiful women available.

And keep in mind that she may drop her appointment with you if you push the pen-palling too much. Personally, I don't like getting a lot of pre-appointment correspondence from ladies I'm booking with and it's a bit of a turn off for me if she requests a bio of some sort. I just like, "lady, my references can confirm I'm cool; let's just talk when I get there."

I don't mind a LITTLE bit of chat, but definitely not constantly and getting BUTTHURT because I don't respond immediately or pushing privacy boundaries will get you ignored quickly.  I guess in short I don't really mind a small amount of chat, but be careful.

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Thanks. Was just curious. That's why I asked here.

It all depends on the caliber of lady your dealing with.  Agency, and touring girls, probably not so much.  Also you can sort of get a feel for how they are from reading their reviews.  Some girls get 10s on here and every guy that reviews them it's like a repeat, others it seems to not go as scripted.

...and for the same reason you stated. I spend a good bit of time corresponding with gentlemen before I meet them, both to get to know them better and as a pseudo-screening method. This way, you've got lots to talk about when you meet and you have a sense of whether you two will get along well.

That's how I look at it to, and the reason I asked the question, thanks naturalbeauty.

Unfortunately, a lot of back and forth before meeting is a big red flag that the guy is a time waster, and I don't have much time.  If I see a man more than once or twice, it means I really, really like him.  My regulars get a lot of attention because I actually have crushes on them, so I am pretty at their disposal online through mail.

I enjoy having a brief conversation as part of my screening process along with getting to know each other and "feel" each other out.  I find it exciting and interesting getting to know a bit about each other ahead of time, understanding expectations, etc...