This is an important question for me, so please reply. I'm trying to set up my screening process and want to know -

P411 for me

TER Whitelist and P411 okays are the easiest, and usually that's enough to get in the door with most providers.

Posted By: AnonymousHo

This is an important question for me, so please reply. I'm trying to set up my screening process and want to know -  
   
 What is your #1 choice for verification?  
 1. P411  
 2. Date-Check  
 3. TER Whitelist (now-1/2016)  
 4. Recent references (now-1/2016)  
 5. Employment verification  
   
 Thank you, in advance, for your answers.  
   
 AHo

IMO #1 is P411, as I hate troubling ladies that I have seen with giving out their information for verification purposes.  P411 is quick, easy as far as sending an appointment request, and painless.  I haven't had any problems since I begin using it roughly a year ago.  There have been a couple of ladies who have asked for employment info and references in addition to P411, but I normally pass on those ladies.  I have had maybe 2 ladies that have accepted my Whitelists only.  Never used Date-Check (I heard that they have been dealing with issues lately).  

Posted By: AnonymousHo

This is an important question for me, so please reply. I'm trying to set up my screening process and want to know -  
   
 What is your #1 choice for verification?  
 1. P411  
 2. Date-Check  
 3. TER Whitelist (now-1/2016)  
 4. Recent references (now-1/2016)  
 5. Employment verification  
   
 Thank you, in advance, for your answers.  
   
 AHo

p411 is a great advertising venue.  
But.. not the only way of verification. As we know many people share accounts...

Posted By: davincib1

IMO #1 is P411, as I hate troubling ladies that I have seen with giving out their information for verification purposes.  P411 is quick, easy as far as sending an appointment request, and painless.  I haven't had any problems since I begin using it roughly a year ago.  There have been a couple of ladies who have asked for employment info and references in addition to P411, but I normally pass on those ladies.  I have had maybe 2 ladies that have accepted my Whitelists only.  Never used Date-Check (I heard that they have been dealing with issues lately).  

Posted By: AnonymousHo

This is an important question for me, so please reply. I'm trying to set up my screening process and want to know -  
     
  What is your #1 choice for verification?  
  1. P411  
  2. Date-Check  
  3. TER Whitelist (now-1/2016)  
  4. Recent references (now-1/2016)  
  5. Employment verification  
     
  Thank you, in advance, for your answers.  
     
  AHo

I am not a fan of date check as the site was a mess when I was a member and people I had no clue who was, was checking out my profile. Not very discreet in my book canceled my membership as people I am not booking need not be looking who I have seen and have not seen.  

What do you mean? Hobbyists share accounts on P411? Why is this allowed?

Posted By: TurbayVeronica

p411 is a great advertising venue.  
 But.. not the only way of verification. As we know many people share accounts...

Posted By: davincib1

IMO #1 is P411, as I hate troubling ladies that I have seen with giving out their information for verification purposes.  P411 is quick, easy as far as sending an appointment request, and painless.  I haven't had any problems since I begin using it roughly a year ago.  There have been a couple of ladies who have asked for employment info and references in addition to P411, but I normally pass on those ladies.  I have had maybe 2 ladies that have accepted my Whitelists only.  Never used Date-Check (I heard that they have been dealing with issues lately).  

Posted By: AnonymousHo

This is an important question for me, so please reply. I'm trying to set up my screening process and want to know -    
       
   What is your #1 choice for verification?    
   1. P411    
   2. Date-Check    
   3. TER Whitelist (now-1/2016)    
   4. Recent references (now-1/2016)    
   5. Employment verification    
       
   Thank you, in advance, for your answers.    
       
   AHo

I think she meant providers share accounts i.e. agencies, same assistants, etc.

Thank you for your answer.  

some guys will share the account with friends who are not members.
dont know how many times it happens but it does happen.

and 1,2,3, or 5 for newbs

That's very unsafe because you don't know who you're really verifying and meeting!  

P411 is wonderful and super easy. Also Whitelist is great to. These 2 are super simple to use to verify and have no probelms ever.

Also sharing p411 is not permitted (meaning you will lose your account if you get caught doing it.)  Of course that probably doesn't stop people.  But since p411 is paid, the payer risks losing his reputation if he shares it with an unreliable buddy.

I like how they work, even if they are a little expensive.

You can check out my booking form on my site. Personally, I have three different booking forms.  

1)  The phone goes to a receptionist, and if she doesn't pick it up it goes down a waterfall of women answering the phone.  They are nosey as hell, and if strange women keep asking for me, well pretty obvious what is going on.  They aren't stupid, and suspicious and gossipy to begin with so no, not going to happen.

Your website is spectacular! Your fun personality shines through. Thank you, London, for the link to your booking forms.

If guys don't want to sign up with the verification sites they can use references or employment or just don't chose you.  

I guess I can live with out seeing a provider.

Excellent post!! I'm with you all the way on this one!! (And yes, I had a provider show up at my place of employment once---holy shit WHAT an embarrassment--don't know how I wriggled my way out of that mess!!)

There are only a few ladies who do ask for your real name when booking and then ask for ID on meeting. I understand this, but won't see them. Only once or twice did I have to drop from my short list someone who I really wanted to see because of this.

P411 seems to be the simplest and most reliable. Recent references are also pretty easy and reliable, especially if used along with P411 and TER Whitelists.  Date-Check used to be on par with P411 (my opinion), but since the site changed I have found it to be worthless for me as a client.

That qualifies as BSC.
What did she expect?  That you take her to your office and do it right there?
what did you tell your co workers?

And to think I get requests to actually do outcalls to people's place of work....which I wouldn't do.......
People are all so different.

I like to know who I am spending my time with so I ask for name, town, and age. Definetly discourages alot of fellows but our safety is really, really improtant to me.  
P411 and Date-check would be close alternatives, along with a reference from a known companion.  

While i'll use some of the above, I truly prefer having your real name and number and check that against the BL. Why i don't trust people's DC or TER username or p411, is because its so each to just switch personas, switch usernames, and completely abandon an old name or account for a new one. But you can't abandon your real name. Also there are guys that have done terrible things yet are still on p411, datecheck and have references with TER white list.

John Goode is a P 411 member in good standing with multiple okays. His buddy Joe Schmuck is either a newbie, a guy on BL's, or simply someone who can get screened on his own.

smart ladies always verify

About the last 10 ladies I have asked for an OK have accepted p411 an TER.  I do offer to send provider references if they want.  I do have a lot of OK's and whitelists.   Maybe that helps.

but clients have done it in the past.

Add ter... But in different states different forums work.. In Chicago rs2k is huge

A hobbyist with a good board presence as well as provider references is always a plus for me since i would be able to verify him to a point where we all feel comfortable enough. Last thing I want is a bad egg to slip thru the cracks and ruin the party for everyone else.  

Not that I would have any vested interest in your answer or anything ...

I have said many times, I am VERY lazy. IMO it's your job to make things easy for me, not the other way around. When the shoe is on the other foot and I am the seller, not the buyer, it's incumbent on me to make it easy for my client. I would never dream of making a client jump through hoops in order to do business with me.

In part for the reasons you mention, in part because I am not ordering a pizza online. Booking forms generally suck and an email with the right info should suffice.

I'd rather trust the provider that a service that could get hacked.   I just give the provider my real world info and TER ID.  Think about it.  Sites like Ashley Madison or RS2K are targets for hackers who want to get a mailing list of customers and then blackmail them.  

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It counts as a negative when making my mind up on who I see. In fact I don't recall ever filling one out. Hoops sick and they speak to a ladies personality in an unfun way. At least in my mind. I will send more than enough info to screen me but forms are a pain. Like you I will jump through hoops to make a sale, but to spend my fun money, I'll pass. Email or P411 is best for me as I have a base email I just update and send to new ladies it literally takes 3 minutes. Forms take much longer. I don't like the idea of filling an application just to spend my money.

Now that is a refreshing opinion. Thank you!

references and then p411 only. I'm a little lazy too and p411 is simple. It already has all of my current reference info. Between that and ter reviews, I feel there's enough information to verify me.

One more question please

Because it was brought up in several posts, some guys share a P411 account - If I use P411 and also ask for a potential client's legal name and request to see his ID, is this going to make me lose a lot of business?

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The provider can verify the ID # on the drivers license if she wishes before going into the room.  I for one have never had this asked of me, however am aware and comfortable with the possibility.
As a client p411 is my reference service of choice then TER whitelists.

but very few providers actually do this, I have seen maybe 3-400 women through P 411 and no more than a half dozen at "MOST" ever asked me to do so.

and as long as you're hot of course too. lol

LMAO!! She did, indeed, reveal herself to be a bit BSC!! In retrospect--a lot of it was my fault because after our date she started calling me on the phone periodically and rather than recognize the warning signals I would chat with her. I think she thought she could maybe cross the line into something more than just a provider/client arrangement.  

And I do just fine. Sure, I get the occasional "my P411 Okays should be sufficient" asshole, but the vast majority of guys are cool with providing me whatever I need to feel safe and comfortable. Having strict screening requirements hasn't affected my bottom line one bit. In fact, I regularly attract clients who tell me they chose me BECAUSE I'm extra cautious.  

TER and P411.

I think I might prefer date them lol

But I am fine with it. BTW the number part should be on his drivers license or other ID. The name can be covered and he can show just the number to verify he is who he claims. I think P411 fraud would be somewhat rare but I imagine that it does happen. Anyway I have zero issues showing my ID or giving real name.

I've been using Date Check, but I also include my TER handle when I send my screening info.  So far, those have been sufficient and I haven't been asked for additional references.

I personally would never see someone who asked for my real name.  

Then how would we screen you? I give a phone option and ask that for those who hate forms this is the info I will need to verify you via a pre-arranged phone call. Im pretty straightforward on the screening? Yes? Thoughts?

There are many ways to check P411, and not necessarily just ID.  ID is the safest, but its set-up so you can verify if the client balks at showing a driver's license.