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Re: I personally don't enjoy the company of older white men 60+
jaydalee See my TER Reviews 1337 reads
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1 / 40

I was reading Sasha's thread below regarding age.
Question regarding age..
I always ask for age when I get appt request if the info has not been provided.
Quite a few times a guy will say late or mid 50s when in actuality they are alot older.
During conversation sometimes age will come up and that's when some guys will say well...I am a bit older than what I stated.
Why not just be honest?Guys who do this do you think if honest a younger provider would decline an appt if she knew his true age?
There are many providers who like older gents including me so a gent being in his late 50s or 60s doesn't bother me at all.
I have been wondering about this for awhile

PRS2005 384 reads
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2 / 40
clairecavendish See my TER Reviews 305 reads
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3 / 40

I don't think any have lied to me about their age though. They just ask when booking if I mind if they're older and I say maturity in a man is very attractive :)

innyc77 29 Reviews 254 reads
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4 / 40

hard to find a civvie woman who appreciates "maturity-in-age". especially in this big crazy city.

octavia.lexa See my TER Reviews 426 reads
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5 / 40

guys send shirtless pics and tell me how often they work out in the first email...

i prefer guys who look older...difference in age turns me on  

older gents who are trying too hard to cheat the time does not turn me on so much, but i try not to judge...whatever makes them happy and more confident

1705218 10 Reviews 374 reads
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6 / 40

I have no problem telling my age. No provider, after checking my referrals and P411 has turned me down. I saw one provider add who said "no clients over 50."

southwind32 1 Reviews 283 reads
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7 / 40
bonordonor 255 reads
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8 / 40

if they want to impress you, they should send a picture of their wallet.

doncord 42 Reviews 255 reads
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9 / 40

I just turned 81 and I have no intention of quiting this game.  check my reviews.

Posted By: southwind32
I'm 65,  any older here?

bocabuster 19 Reviews 173 reads
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10 / 40

Seriously?
Women lie about age, weight, hair color and dress size. And if they're providers they've already lied about their name
But it's not ok for a guy to tell you a range of his age? Or would you prefer he tells you it's none of your business?
Just a rhetorical question

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 341 reads
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11 / 40

Personally I've seen more providers state an age minimum, but to honest I really don't know which is more common.  

Most of my clients are over 60 and quite a few have been a bit..... tentative about revealing their age.  Likely because they've been rejected due to age in the past, or they're simply self-conscious.  

Others, however,  state it right off the bat, almost like they're whipping out their cock: There!  :he slaps it on my leg: What do ya think of THAT?!

LOL.  

Either way, I'm cool with the older guys.  In fact, I won't see anyone under 40 nowadays. That fact seems to make some senior-tour men feel more comfortable with me.  ;-)

Even when I was quite young, though, I always liked clients who were more developed in years.  

OVERSHARE ALERT!

I've been in-and-out of the business many times over the years and have been doing this for around a decade in total.  
But.......... I started when I was 19.  My oldest client ever was back then, and was also my favorite regular.  
He was in his 80s.   (he truly didn't look it, though, and had a lot of energy!)

Given my own years now, I seriously doubt I'll get the chance to repeat that age difference lol.  
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randyram 3 Reviews 197 reads
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12 / 40

be it the provider or hobbyist lying about your age can only lead to disappointment. I'm 65 and it's best the provider knows this upfront. There are definitely some major advantages for the 'older' male if you keep yourself in decent shape, ;-)

MasterZen 33 Reviews 201 reads
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13 / 40

I wouldn't be me without those experiences. Age is part of it. I'm good with me, and probably better being me than trying to be someone else.

mrblond68 4 Reviews 127 reads
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14 / 40

Always one hundred percent honest. If a provider is not into middle aged men, so be it. I am just happy everything functions properly enough that I want to make a date with a gorgeous woman, and enjoy more than just conversation.

sailor66 14 Reviews 262 reads
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15 / 40

I've earned every one of these years and I'm going to strut proudly!

Hpygolky 209 Reviews 167 reads
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17 / 40

And if my age is an issue,( over 60) then so be it. She knows her audience and who she wants to spend her time with. I hold no grudge. Just as I choose or at least try to not see anyone under 30, then that's my choice. Why fib over this?

noagenosage 215 reads
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18 / 40

And we are not fools to be sensitive about it.  About a year ago, someone I met and liked asked me how old I was.  I told her and she fell silent.  I thought, "Dammit, she probably thinks I'm going to croak right here on the bed," so I stammered, "I don't like getting old one bit."  Her mood and tone changed sharply and she said crossly, "Don't talk like that!  You very handsome man" (yes, she was not American), and then added, "I like everything about you -- your hair, your eyes, your sweet smile.  You my baby!" Well, think what you like but what she said was spontaneous, unrehearsed, and totally convincing, and we have been intensely interactive pals ever since.

BigPeterJohnson 39 Reviews 257 reads
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19 / 40

weather or not they can spell!

get it?  weather vane!!

good night folks and try the veal!!

hardknocks6 37 Reviews 117 reads
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20 / 40

if it matters enough to the lady to ask, I feel I should be truthful.  Luckily, I look younger so I often get a compliment out of it....did you say vain? LOL

PRS2005 219 reads
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21 / 40

I know. I'm an idjit tonight,

TheKarateKid 7 Reviews 117 reads
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22 / 40

I think some guys might be a little self-conscious about their age when there is a big age gap, especially if they're seeing a very younger provider.  On the other hand, I've know a couple of younger hobbyist who wished they were a few years older, since they wanted to see a provider that I was seeing, but she would not see clients under 40.

Personally, I never lie about my age, but it's nice to know that there are many providers out there who prefer us older gents.  I'll also be turning the big 6-0 next month and I have no plans on retiring from the hobby any time soon. LOL

Zak0326 33 Reviews 270 reads
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23 / 40

I should keep my mouth shut but I had a good day so here is what I am thinking when I read this crap. Trust me being younger in this hobby doesn't do me any favors either. I hear from the ladies I don't see anyone under 40 more than anyone. My references are solid everyone who has met me has asked to see me again. The reason's I get turned down the most are because of age what I write on these boards and people afraid I am going to fall in love with them. If I had a nickle every time I heard the I will fall in love with you line I could buy Roxanne Debbie Sasha Naomi and Octavia a Ferrari. In all seriousness I can tell you the 12 ladies who gave me that line. I believe they are all friends and to be honest I have no interest in seeing any of them anymore. Clicks in this world are pathetic. When I hear this sort of crap I don't fight with them I just move on and laugh at them. I haven't been in love in a very long time it's a tragic tail which most people won't care about. I have not fallen in love yet with a provider what's going to change now? I feel nothing for anyone. Yes those still reading this the therapist is still working on these issues. I'm a work in progress. A reformed criminal.  

Age is just a number to me. If you don't want to see me based off my age kiss my ass and lick my balls.

You know who I am.
 
Posted By: jaydalee
I was reading Sasha's thread below regarding age.  
 Question regarding age..  
 I always ask for age when I get appt request if the info has not been provided.  
 Quite a few times a guy will say late or mid 50s when in actuality they are alot older.  
 During conversation sometimes age will come up and that's when some guys will say well...I am a bit older than what I stated.  
 Why not just be honest?Guys who do this do you think if honest a younger provider would decline an appt if she knew his true age?  
 There are many providers who like older gents including me so a gent being in his late 50s or 60s doesn't bother me at all.  
 I have been wondering about this for awhile.  
 

BigPeterJohnson 39 Reviews 197 reads
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24 / 40

well, i'm kind of a spelling nazi, sorry.  but i couldn't resist the pun!!

BigPeterJohnson 39 Reviews 166 reads
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25 / 40

i always tell my age in my initial email. the 3rd, 4th and 5th words of my introduction are "62 year old."

and i always add, "but my friends insist i don't look a day over 59!"

ThePeopleRule 167 reads
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26 / 40

Spoiler Alert:

For older guys, attaining an erection and ejaculating can take more time than it did decades earlier; sometimes it does not happen at all in an hour session.

I had the experience of being with one early-20's new provider whose only sexual experience seemed to have been with guys her age, whose cocks were already hard when their boxers/briefs were pulled down.  She was clueless what to do when an erection did not "spring forth".  

Some AARP-qualified guys who have difficulty getting erect may be reluctant to tell their age out of a concern that a provider will turn him down because she would not want to put the effort into getting him erect.  That is a guess on my part.  I have never had a provider ask how old I am; I usually say in the first contact that I am an AARP member or a senior.

EroticRobbin 185 reads
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27 / 40

As long as they're breathing, and I'll enjoy our rendezvous! ;)

Dallas_texan 112 reads
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28 / 40

Getting in the game in my mid 40's. But y'all are just a bunch of old farts! LOL.....JK

I admit I've been a little self conscious about my age, but apparently I shouldn't worry as much as I do. Seems the ladies don't give a flyin F@%K....And that's cool!

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 124 reads
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30 / 40

what age or age range will a provider see or won't see.I asked about a guy saying he is one age and later while talking he will mention his true age.I don't know what your response was about because it certainly had nothing to do with my question.
And I have no idea who you are but if your replies is like this on the boards to a simple question I can see why you have issues getting dates(your words).Less to do with age more to do with being nasty for no damn reason.
No one wants to see someone who seems like they have an attitude and bitter for whatever reasons.
Geez...get laid work out some of that anger and negative vibes.

-- Modified on 4/9/2016 5:45:11 AM

mojojo 1 Reviews 161 reads
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31 / 40

Many of the ladies aren't exactly truthful about their age either. In fact, one of my first atf stated that she was mid twenties. When I first met her, she was clearly late thirties. I just think since we have to use fake names, fake phone numbers, fake orgasms, we all get used to fake everything.  

Truthfully, I've always been fairly honest about my age when introducing myself. I'm also one of the lucky ones who looks younger than I actually am. But something happened psychologically when I hit 60. I couldn't bring myself to say early sixties when making an introduction. I still say late fifties. I suppose I won't introduce myself as early sixties until I hit 70.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 228 reads
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32 / 40

could be very interesting. Do they play well together?

Have you thought about charging separate fees? That would probably seal the deal! LOL ... I have a Ph.D in Johnonomics!
 
Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret
So if I look like I'm 50, you're in for a really great surprise!!  LOL  
   
 I do skew my weight a bit because I'm smaller than it would suggest.  At 124lbs now, I'm still a size 0, but my weight is higher due to my muscle mass.  
   
 My hair color is honest, but, as you already know, I do have 3 fake "real" names, and 2 provider personas.  I had a third, but the other two killed her off...the mean bitches.  LOL  
   
 :D  
   
Posted By: bocabuster
Seriously?  
  Women lie about age, weight, hair color and dress size. And if they're providers they've already lied about their name  
  But it's not ok for a guy to tell you a range of his age? Or would you prefer he tells you it's none of your business?  
  Just a rhetorical question
-- Modified on 4/9/2016 12:06:59 AM

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 237 reads
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33 / 40

let me help. I'll pretend I've fallen and can't get up and you can be  
the young cowgirl that wants to take my pony for a long ride before helping me up ... giddy up

Adrienne Baptiste See my TER Reviews 255 reads
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34 / 40

They were born in a different era . . . Also as a young black female, I find that we have absolutely nothing in common.

Also, I prefer to not make myself subject to their first, 'colored' experience. Just my .02 here

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 133 reads
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35 / 40

And I'm sure you can understand why a man might have some concern about "not being seen" because of age. I for one fall in the older category but don't remember ever being asked how old I am at screening. Most people don't believe I'm my stated age anyway. And I pay them well for that comment.  LOL

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 129 reads
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AlyssaTantra See my TER Reviews 200 reads
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37 / 40

The older the better in my booking! I used to have an age minimum of 50, but I was advertising on backpage and that was a great way to weed through everyone you did and did not want to see. Mature men fun, firstly , charming, great conversation.  
Nothing to not love!

Alyssa

slowinfastout 170 reads
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38 / 40

I'm 61 years old and will tell anyone who asks.  I drive a late model Porsche Convertible, instruct on tracks for high performance driving, own several motorcycles and do off-road events with one of them. I've been split open stem to stern from a bout with cancer and have a scar that makes people's heads spin.  I race off shore sailboats.  I run my own business 60 hours per week, every week.  And I can work circles around younger men who don't know what sweat equity is all about.    You think I need to lie about my age or care what someone thinks?  In my business I take money from whoever is spending, doesn't matter how old you are, or what color, sextual orientation or that religion you worship. The only thing that does matter is being rude.  And I expect to be treated likewise wherever I am spending my money.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 130 reads
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39 / 40

I'll probably defer to whose hornier then the first time. Maybe just a glimpse of her friend ... should I revisit. Revisit? Gotta sort out sessione` un first ...lol

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 155 reads
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40 / 40

I am in the mood to collect flags (countries, ethnicities, races, etc.)  You can be judgmental about that if you wish.  It's my thing and I am not going to worry about someone else's view on it.

That said, your comment illustrates why I am likely to avoid the "black" experience.  Too much hate and rage out there against white guys in the black community.  I mean I am not naive, I know that just about any provider might have internal feelings for clients not reflected in her sunny outward disposition.  But in today's climate of 24/7 hatred directed at "white male privilege", "intersectionality", and all that other social justice warfare, that chance of meeting a black provider that didn't really mind my "privilege" seems pretty slim.

There are enough latinas and asians out there who actually like white guys.  So I'll probably sail those winds for the time being.
Posted By: Adrienne Baptiste
They were born in a different era . . . Also as a young black female, I find that we have absolutely nothing in common.  
   
 Also, I prefer to not make myself subject to their first, 'colored' experience. Just my .02 here.  
 

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