I'm just curious as to who actually signs on?? I have been a member for 4 years now and for some reason I always forget that it is there. I have been trying to remember everytime I sign on now to also sign into the messenger. So my question is...Do you use it and if so how often and do you find it useful??
I think that if they added local chatrooms it would be more fun!

My mom uses it to message my dad....

Yeah its just worthless piece of code taking up space.. I have seen one gal in my Favorites list out of like 100 some that sometimes is online on the messenger.

and no, I really have no intentions of ever doing so. I've been here for over ten years myself, and like you, I barely even remember it's here until someone makes a post about it.

To meet guys.

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I checked it out, but have no idea how to use it.

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I poke at it occasionally and figure you have to link your website and install the "online now" feature. There's code for it. Not quite sure if I want to go that route just yet.  

Just realized it about a year ago there was a ter messenger.
I have had some gents send me a message about availability or some general questions.
I don't book appts via messenger the gents still need to send their info via email but quite a few times those inquiries turned into appts.It also puts you at the top of the listing for your city if a gent is doing a search for reviews in that city.

Re: My mom uses it to message my dad....

Dude, freaking hilarious  

Oh well.

But now I am never on TER on a computer. It's always the phone

Smart phones still have limitations,  bummer. But it makes sense. Tablets should have more capability but I'm still obviously getting familiar with mine. I'll ask my tech friends.