I've noticed provider ads recently that said "no one over 50" and "must be over 45"  I'm curious as to why both of these age restrictions, and for your curiosity I'm definitely over 50 LOL,

Her ad could have read "no one under fifty AND no one over 45" Now THAT would be a bit problematic.

this makes me laugh... I rather meet with men over 40 (maturity level, education, stable job and most of them are married.. so no attachments involved). Last thing I want is a 25th something fall in love with my beautiful curves and my sexy accent. HAHA!!

About the maximum age.. I have no limit, as I mention in other boards; I love my seniors  

To each their own,

And the consensus seems to be that the upper age limit is mostly done by 20-something providers that are worried us older guys may expire during a strenuous session and they will be left to explain things to the authorities. The younger age limit seems to be a variety of reasons ranging from wanting to avoid a strenuous session of MSOG to the fact that younger hobbyists tend to be less generous in their tipping and don't yet have the financial depth to repeat at frequent intervals.

She was saying that most of the ladies she knows don't want the younger guys because they generally tend to just bang away and to use her words "tear up their pussies".
She wasn't worried, she can take a licking and keep on ticking. But it is understandable.

The upper limits, she was saying, was more the younger providers just not feeling it with the older guys. Also understandable.

All comes down to business decisions.

I mean can you honestly blame an 18 year old for not wanting to fuck Grandpa?

I have been to enough M&G to know just how "ick" some hobbyists really are and I wouldn't fuck the female version of these human slugs for any amount of money.

As for the really young guys, I bet you the feeling that many of those guys have that they are "too good" to have to "pay for it" probably comes into play as well. This is a business after all.

Older providers who want to avoid men the age of their children and younger and a few younger providers who would prefer them to be younger than their fathers. I guess what ever the reason I am not going to try to change her mind.  

for me no one under the age of 35, the connection is just not there as much...but i do not have an upper age restriction at all

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I have learned you can neutralize the ick factor with young providers by keeping yourself fit.  Most of the ick for these young girls is directed towards guys that have completely let themselves go, regardless of whether they are grandpas yet or not. No matter what the age, if you can't hold yourself up in a modified push-up position in mish for 30 minutes without putting your weight on the girl, or dripping sweat in her face, then it makes you look older than you really might be.

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The last thing I want is to spend on someone who has already mentally made a decision as to an age comfort range, but has not communicated it.

As a provider nearing 40 - in a few weeks aaaaaaahhhh - I don't want to be bonking some kid young enough to be my son, nor do I want to be jack rabbit sexed solidly for the booked time or have to deal with the young stud who wants to try for 5 pops in an hour booking!!!  
I prefer mature gents because a) they're more interesting b) they've generally worked out how lady bodies work c) I don't have to provide diagrams on how to treat said lady body and d) they're more interesting

For me, as long as they are 18 and older its all good

position for 30 minutes in life!  Hence, Im always on my back!  LOL

Just-sayin...

I actually love mish and although I am hardly a "gym rat" I have no problem holding that modified push up position for as long as I need to.  It doesn't really require that much strength. But I suppose it's harder holding up 270 lbs than it is to hold up 170  

But yes CDL is right about reducing the "ick" factor by staying in shape. I can't help getting old, but I can help from getting " old and fat"

All I know is that I still occasionally get those looks of "relief" when the door opens sometimes. I of course would prefer that look of pure lust that a young, handsome guy might get, but at my age I will take the look of relief I get when the girl finds me "not repulsive" lol

Mention one age restriction...you must be 18+.

lust from a hot young woman when they first look at you.  I vaguely remember what that was like. Not-repulsive is good enough for most of us at our age.

I'm at 210 now, so, not terrible.  Unfortunately, I'm a weakling   LO

that's just the new world of targeted marketing

well crap -- I totally misread that comment -- but I suppose I can still go with the "new world of targeted marketing"


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I initially thought the OP was talking about only one range applying to an ad but I'm wondering if it's not the case that some are targeting what might be the sweet spot -- 45 - 50 will have -- assuming they make any attempt -- fairly fit men (some fat slobs but not all of them) who are in their peak earning years. Or not too hard on the eyes and definitely able to pay (and tip if you want to push that line

I tended to think that the minimum age was to avoid the emotionally undiscipline/immature who cannot control or confuse their sexual enjoyment with love leading to all kinds of headaches for the women.

do this after you left!  LOL!

it was because of the size of the load I left in her mouth, not because I'm old.

Also as middle aged men I think we realize that beauty is fleeting and temporary and are just appreciative to be in their presence in this capacity or with a female we normally could not get in real life. I know I am grateful for this.

We really appreciate a perfectly sculpted lady with T/A and curves like we would draw it..and those young fresh faces.) Nothing I appreciate more than a beautiful lady..I would imagine the younger guys would still be full of piss and vinegar and think that beautiful girls will fall off the Pussy tree into their arms whenever they desire..wait until you hit about 40+ and look how most (not all of course) of the age appropriate female civvies look.  

Thats the nice thing about liking ladies, its not like God will just stop making girls. If you like 30 year olds..every year forever is a fresh batch.)

She likes it this way. If you don't fit into that age category, just move on to who will accomodate you. Xo

As unfair and ridiculous as it may seem to hear when coming from a provider who is supposed to determine your value based on your ability to show up and not make her regret accepting your appointment, the fact is that if a provider has specific things that are outside his/her comfort zone, by making it clear what they are - he/she is able to work with people that they can provide the best and most enthusiastic connection with. Wouldn't you rather know which provider to avoid because you are clearly not in their comfort zone? Who willingly pursues less than optimal experiences?

Why age restrictions?  Typically, personality and life experience (outside of this venue) differences. Men often seek out providers  (and return to them) based on age for both appearance AND a temperament/life experience/priorities that goes with it. Be serious. If you only needed a warm hole without a personality or a person attached, you could continue lubing up your hand or buy a prosthetic orifice that warms up in a microwave. Cheaper, less headache and more convenient. But you don't and regardless of what anyone says, it really is the person you are wanting to spend time with, not a body part.

 With that said, men's personalities and views of sex are different at different stages of life (just like females) and more than appearance  

(being any age of male does NOT make you more attractive or fit. There are plenty of young guys who are flabby blobs or not nearly as attractive as they think they are, and there are plenty of men who seek providers over 60 that are in ridiculously good shape, still attractive and make growing older a lot more appealing if that is still in the dating pool. Age is no promise of anything when it comes to men's appearances)  

For most providers, when it comes to men, personality is first and looks are second. While we aren't trying to date you, we do have to deal with you and a pretty face on a creep doesn't make that job any easier. In fact, the attitude that goes with a pretty face and a sh*t personality typically makes the job even harder.