Totally agree!
Excellent read!
I myself am not against having a single partner for life.
I like to think going against what "nature" tells us is natural, defines who we are as the dominant species.
I myself am not against having a single partner for life.
I like to think going against what "nature" tells us is natural, defines who we are as the dominant species.
I completely agree my man
It's unrealistic to think one person can satisfy all your needs ( emotional, spiritual, sexual, intellectual, ect) for a life time.
Some studies think more women may be cheating than men, women are better at deception. It's all about opportunity & options.
at about sums it up!!
Thanks A5D!
at what point is it just attachment because of years together and no longer love...?
I think most people (myself included) would have a difficult time even making the distinction. Love itself often comes from attachment.
i think you have a point
Totally agree!
That's really depending on how you define "love". If live together long enough, Married couple can be very attached, and won't be happy if seperated.
I can appreciate monogamy. But it's not for everyone. So I hear ur "yawn" and I double it lol.
I think monogamy is purely a social construct that works for some, doesn't for most. By most, I don't believe most are rabid hobbyists, I just mean that at some point, most people will want to experience something different.
There's actually science that says it's all in the alleles.
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/why-do-we-cheat-studies-suggest-dopamine-and-vasopressin-may-be-responsible-a6716256.html
At this stage of my life, as long as I'm treated well and fed what I need,
I feel no compulsion to stray.
I'm accustomed to cooking and thoroughly enjoy pleasing my Gal's palate, therefore she has no need to work in the kitchen preparing my food, to keep me as faithful as my dog.
Everyone's different, I suspect the variety and abundance of Gals I could easily find in my youth, whether I was already in a relationship or not, allows me to be comfortable and satisfied with one Gal at a time now that I've found my more mature years.
I actually feel bad about some of my GF's I cheated on in my youth, even a few of them that never found out how easy I was behind her back.
Fortunately for me, I've never been the moping type of guy who withdraws from relationships after a great relationship goes down the tube.
I'll admit if my GF decides she wants to move out tomorrow, I'd likely pay for time with ten different Gals before New Years, hoping to get over my loss as quickly as possible.
As she stands today, I wouldn't trade her for any ten tens.
Later, I have a quick and easy Spaghetti Carbonara and Kale salad to prepare before she gets home.
Fortunately I plan ahead, I started my home made bread late last night
after she fell asleep.
when it happens to you.
My 2 year depart from the hobby was due to me finding the love of my life.
Until I found out she fucked some bar owner in the back room.
Now I get 15 messages a day from her..... LOL. Funny how the brain works!
I will just stick to this right now!
You sparked my curiosity...15 messages a day regarding...what?
Regret? Remorse? Rubbing it in?
Inquiring minds want to know!