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1st meet time?
boxxxlover 1550 reads
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I'm just wondering if most ppl arrange for 1 hr or 2 hr on the first meet?  
I personally been doing 2 hrs cuz i don't want to regret not doing it and most of the time i don't pop that quickly.  But been reading reviews and seems like most ppl do 1hr.

unless, of course, the provider requires 90 minutes or 2 hours for 1st timers.  I prefer the one hour in case we don't click for some reason.  I usually only do a two hour appointment with a provider I have been with a couple of times before and I know that the chemistry is there.

I've never had a one hour meeting. Maybe it just takes me longer to get past the getting aquainted part, but I think one hour would go by way too fast.

Now I prefer to do 90 min. Just feels less rushed.

I need at least 2 hours to have the experience that I am looking for.  Plenty of time for the sweaty part, but also lots of time for the rest.  Kissing, cuddling, gazing into each others eyes and pretending she will remember my name tomorrow... ;)

I preferred two hours for first time- never regretted!

Very interesting replies, I have very limited experience, but have done the 1 hr 1st meet just in case of a non-compatible situation.  I have not had that situation yet, but you never know.
Good Luck

2 hours works for me. I just hate hauling my ass out of bed and taking a shower. Even 90 minutes feels rushed (but doable).

In the beginning I used to do only 1-hr. dates.  Now after almost 6 years, most of my dates are 90 minutes or 2-hours.  Tomorrow will be my first dinner date.

I have always booked an appointment 2 hours or more for the first appointment. I like to take my time to get to know the provider and have enough time to get 2 rounds in and time to shower. Sometimes I have booked a 3 hour or overnighter for the first appointment.

Tried it once, but I ended up not sleeping most of the night because I felt too bad about subjecting her to my snoring, LOL.

Anything under 2 hrs and I feel sorta rushed.  It sometimes takes me awhile to feel comfortable with a new provider, so I like to take things slow.

I've also done 3-4 hrs on a few occasions, but only when I felt a "cyber-click" between the particular providers I've chatted with by email, PM, or posting on the various boards.

One thing I'll never do on a first meet is an overnighter, since there's always a chance that we may not "click".

Some people book 2+ hrs. and make it into a really fun evening that they've been looking forward to for a while. Others are into the quick time they can get away from the wife. Do what's right for you. It sounds like you've had quite the nice experience doing 2 hrs. I know those appts. always seem more relaxing as you've got time to get to know each other better.

Katie

One hour meeting.  Afterward, two hour meetings may work, if you have $$$$$$++...  I wouldn't...best to stay with shorter meets unless your way in with the babe....  

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I prefer two hours because I like more time to chat, get acquainted, etc.  I tend to be quite nervous on a first appointment so I like more time for that reason, too.

I usually schedule two hours for a first time meeting because I will spend quite a bit of time pondering whom to visit.  In most cases I will have selected someone who I not only find attractive physically, but also seems to be an interesting individual based upon her reviews and her website.  

Sometimes however it will be someone whom I get no feel for their personality a priori but find very attractive.  In these cases then I only schedule an hour.

shudaknownbetter570 reads

I don't do short appts cause it takes me longer than that.  My first dates are an hour cause that's what I can afford...  but I don't expect as much.  Definately, it's a get aquainted date, get a little, and in the end see if she hits the top 10.
My ATF provides and hour & a half to me for what most charge for one hour...  We both have a good time and there's more visiting.

I hate  single hours!!!
I  like to enjoy my time  as much as I make  sure you'll enjoy yours...  and  one  time is never enough.
Plus... think about something...  how  can  we deliver the  so  desired GFE in one  hour?  no cuddling time?  :(

go for the 1.5 or 2hrs... (actually my minimum is 1.5hr)

Just  my  2cents ;)

Laura De Leon

Anyone I meet for the first time is a required 90 minute minimum.  We can relax and slowly get to know each other and our mutual likes and desires.  In order for me to really give the GFE, I need to feel relaxed and comfortable with someone.  Come to think of it, most of my second and third dates have progressed to two hours...

kari~~

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