Wondering if guys are the same as ladies when it comes to getting yourself off to release urge.  
If I hold off  intercourse seems better but if I hold off to long then I never really want intercourse  . Mix message to my self.  
Some invent a test strip for that please. Lol

It would be well worth it for you to wait until we can get together LOL.

Coming at the same time would be ideal but it really doesn't matter all that much.  I may be the odd one though.  

I recently saw a girl who shook like she was having a seizure after I gave her some of my patented great Asian American hobbyist techniques   Not sure how she can fake that cuz it's a bit dramatic to be faking it but those type of gasms are the most interesting... fake or not.  Either way, It doesn't do anything for my own climaxing though so it's not really at the top of the priority list

And glad you're interested in your own pleasure, too.  I'll bet there's no single answer for your problem.  Ladyparts are freakin' complicated!  No two are the same and they all work differently.  Each time you take one for a test flight it's like flyin' a whole different aircraft.  But at least if you crash, you don't die (unless you really pissed her off with your sexual ineptitude, lol!).  A big gal like you could probably inflict some real damage if pissed off and horny.  Might be fun

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and I hope I don't find out anytime soon either.

Sorry to hear that Bra and may I suggest you pull the vibe some provider must have left up your ass and take one of your chill pills you sound a bit testy today!

We ALWAYS want to fuck.  If we have just jacked off - we really want to get laid.  If we haven't jacked off in a while.... we still really want to get laid.

Don't know of a circumstance involving masturbation that actually would decrease my desire.  You have a VERY secure job....

certainly helps build up the anticipation.
That, and getting enough sleep, has me primed and ready for play.

After I get off I don't think about fucking for five, sometimes six minutes :-

My SO says a similar thing. Second Nicky that it's nice to see you posting.

After I get off, I don't think about my NEXT fuck for maybe 5-6 minutes,(actually more like 2-3 in my case) but I am still thinking about my last one. So technically I am still thinking about fucking.

Actually truth be told, sometimes I am already thinking about my next fuck WHILE I am still fucking the one I am with. Does that make me a sex addict?

you have too many days between sessions? Where do I apply?

am in line ahead of you.  But maybe if she gets extra-special horny she'll want to use us for a MFM.

Just how many of you guys are sexual camels that go weeks or months without getting laid?


I don't mean to judge, I really don't, but I can't imagine going any longer than a few days without having sex, and by sex I don't mean jerking myself off. Honestly, how do you do it?

Do you ever just get to have spontaneous sex, without days or weeks of planning?

To me sex is as natural as eating or sleeping, I can't imagine depriving myself for days or weeks to "build up the anticipation" but that's just me, I'd like to hear your side of this question.

How long do you hold off so it's gotten to the point you're not that horny?

If you rub it halfway out right before your date arrives but don't let yourself climax, that helps if you're not really horny. Or, maybe watch a little porn on your phone while you get ready.

If I don't get off during a date, my toys are in my ho bag anyway, so I just fuck myself after he leaves. HAHA

Florida next winter to get warm. I'm sure there are lots of guys that would love to show her true southern hospitality.

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