What a fucking buzz kill when you are making me fall in love with you, giving me the most incredible hour and you making me feel crazy amazing and euphoric when you immediately feel the need to give me a rule that I am purely aware of due to my research.  

Can't you just trust me?

Your thoughts if any?

Escalade

While I somewhat agree with you, I think it comes (no pun intended) down to two issues: 1) we're clearly enjoying it and the lady doesn't want us to "conveniently forget;" and, 2) lots of guys simply let 'er rip despite website, review, and other admonitions to the contrary.

Some of my best experiences have been with ladies that don't allow it, but if it's a deal-breaker for you, plenty of amazing, well-reviewed ladies out there that do!

Happy Hobbying,
Twice

At least not until they know you well. Because guys do the kind of stuff mentioned in the previous post... sometimes by accident, sometimes on purpose. And some guys don't do the research like you do.  

My ATF does CBJs for this very reason - she really really hates CIM. So until she trusts you completely, it's covered

Not everyone is aware. Not everyone thinks the rules apply to them. Trust is earned, not freely given. And for me personally, YMMV.  

Mind you, I've never had to even utter those words. If I'm not feeling it, I simply don't let it happen so I'm just speaking in general terms. If you feel that strongly about not hearing those words in the throes of passion, why not establish that you are aware of the boundary beforehand. Makes everyone's intentions crystal clear

her teeth are right next to her lips. Ouch!

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Oh, that makes the gfe just special

is letting their BF CIM. And letting someone know you're not okay with someone is not making anything less GFE. GFE is not do everything I want with no communication...

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I hear what you're saying though, seamlessness is ideal but I guess don't let the presence of a tiny seam ruin an otherwise magical hour.

While I dont share her preference, I certainly understand wanting it to be respected. Maybe that she could say that to you gave her the peace of mind and comfort to be in the zone

"Swallows" on her profile yet when you give her the courtesy of letting her know she's about to get a mouthful she demurs and says "that's really personal, not on the first date." She's top rated and probably wonders why there was never a second date.

I never pay upfront. So I usually can get a provider to do CIMWS.

Regardless what a gal's profile says, if it comes down to a YMMV as to whether or not you get CIM, this should be noted in the reviews. If there's a pattern of "not on our first date" or "I need to know you better" that should be noted. If it's a big "maybe" be prepared to take your chances. This is why reviews are more important than the gal's profile.  Ciao!

Heck sometimes I wouldn't even trust myself.

read.

CIMWS cum in mouth with snowball?

Why do you think most guys are here...to get what they do not get at home. And until that shit tastes like chocolate, I can see why some don't allow it.

profile which was established by the first reviewer. I doubt many providers would update their profile unless it is for a rate increase.

She had no way of knowing whether you knew she didn't want CIM so I think the gentlemanly thing to do would have been to let her know that was your understanding to put her mind at ease.