I saw one lady the week before and she did not recall our date.  

For 2nd and 3rd dates, I often remind the lady that we
have met before, it was a 1 hr. blah blah at blank USA.

It seems at times the response is that I am assuming she is mega volume.

Is it wrong to remind you that we met?
Do you let providers know that you have met before?

Your thoughts if any?

Then again, maybe she's just got a poor memory.  Or a thousand other reasons.  Why are you so insecure that it even matters?  All you are doing is putting her on the spot.  Why?

...that by shorting her a hundy;  then she'll forget you.

I must leave a better impression than escalade.

If you don't remember me you're not getting a second date with me. It's as simple as that. I stick out.  

I'm a young (30 and under), large (waist size, not penis size) black guy with an unusual name. I would hope that I'm memorable.

It's cool that they even remember your name, "BABE" 😎

ut you don't stick out to someone who doesn't remember you. Lol

 

than remembered by someone who would rather have forgotten

Other than with those we see quite often, this is by design, isn't it?  I wouldn't be insulted. Providers see lots of guys, more than we know, even those who are 'low volume'  In fact, I'm guessing it's more likely if  we're gonna stand out it would not be for something good  (odor, over time, flowers lol).  

With someone I see just every now and then, I'd be very happy to be more or less in the monger protection program with no trace of me in fact or memory.  Friendly ghosts, but ghosts nonetheless.

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really i agree with joe.  when i first started in this hobby years ago, i had an arrangement with a lady, who was probably only the 3rd or 4th provider i had ever seen, where we met every two weeks for 2 hours.  this lasted for about 4 months.  

years later i saw a very good looking and slightly familiar face at a meet n greet.  when we introduced ourselves, it turned out that she was the woman i had seen on a regular basis 4 years ago.  neither one of us recognized each other right away, but when we learned each others' names, we both remembered.

i was not insulted she didn't remember me;  after all, i didn't remember her.  i had seen several women since, and i am sure she had seen several times 100 men since me.  so what?  that's the very nature of this endeavor.

is the op so hung up on himself he thinks everyone's going to remember him?  how hung is he?  dude, joe is right, this whoel thing is set up to meet & forget.

if you're still sticking out after four hours, call a doctor

I have a vivid memory of all my dates and of how they made me feel.  There are times where someone may change phone numbers or email address's and send out a message stating ..."Hi, it's been awhile since we last saw each other, would love to see you again. How does Tuesday at 1:00 sound?  
John  

John who?  Your email does not show any prior communications and no phone #.  
That would be a reason for me to ask you...Do I remember you?  I don't need a consistent reminder, just express in a nice way of who you are.

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...I went with "Sweetie," lol.

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is to have a large florid tattoo cover a large part of your torso.  I would recommend a scene featuring some important historical event: the bombing of Pearl Harbor, Custer's last stand, the Republican Debate that Trump skipped.

and knows it's important to you but would rather not see you repeat.

Just a thought.