: Music for DATY? : Discussion in TER General Board, posted by lickerguy

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Music for DATY?

posted 19 years ago

Recently while DATY with one of Baltimore’s finest ladies, the tempo of a couple songs on the radio fitted really well to this activity. It worked pretty well to stroke to the beat. I found this very interesting as it had never happened like this to me before - at least not that I’d noticed.

Several days later I received a CD in the mail as a gift from a vendor. Of course I listened to it to see what it was. It turned out to be classical music, which is not something I usually listen to, except in the dentist’s office. But perhaps due to the recent experience described above, while listening to one of the first selections, it crossed my mind that this might be the right tempo for DATY! Then I really began to pay attention, imagining tongue movements, changes in direction and so forth as the music changed. Much to my surprise, I began to believe that several of CD’s selections could really work well, and would even enhance DATY.

So, now I’m rolling these thoughts around in my mind, wondering what kind of music really is good for DATY? What is a good tempo? How much switching of movement, should the music employ? What would be best early in the session, perhaps for the approach and tease? How about the first half of the session; something to fit in the playful mood and the variety and changeableness that works at this point? Something to create a build up? How about later when it gets intense; what works best then? How about when it really gets close to climax time; something rhythmic that would be good for keeping on keeping on, steady as she goes, to bring it on? How about afterward, during the wind-down cuddle?

I did a search on this General Discussion board, going back a year and found nothing about this subject.

I’m wondering if you have experience with this? Do you have specific songs that you like for DATY?

Or have you assembled a selection of songs on a CD that you like to play? If so, would you mind sharing which songs they are and in which order they play?

Have you ever heard of any music being composed specifically for DATY?

Responses from everyone, both ladies and gents, are welcome.

Unexperienced19 years ago3105 reads

Very interesting topic.

I'm thinking that music that provides a rhythm for the DATY-er is less important than music that the woman finds sexy herself. Trying to follow the rhythm of a particular piece of music would probably seem too mechanical for most women.

BUT you bring up another very interesting DATY subject when you say: "How about when it really gets close to climax time; something rhythmic that would be good for keeping on keeping on, steady as she goes, to bring it on?"

So my question to the ladies is: When you are very close to going over the edge, do you indeed prefer a steady rhythm, "steady as she goes", or do you want him to keep varying the rhythm? I realize that every woman is different, and we can't generalize, and that with a given woman, it may vary from one time to another, but what is YOUR personal preference the majority of the time just before climax? Steady as she goes, or vary the rhythm?