Ok, a few weeks ago I got a review, and ever since I got it, I honestly can't decide whether I should be embarrassed or complimented by one of the things he said in his review. Seriously. Its driving me nuts. I'm almost a little embarrased bringing to everyone's attention by asking, but to hell with it. I gotta know.

Fellas, is it a good thing or bad thing if a guy says "her clit was almost the size of a newborn's finger"? I mean, that just sounds kinda scary to me, but what about you guys?? If you see that, are you going to be thinking to yourself "Holy crap! I gotta get some of that!" or are you going to be thinking "Holy crap! I am takin that chick off my to-do list!"?

I'm sorry for the uber TMI of this post, but I just gotta know. I swear, I turned scarlet when I read that review, and I still am. But I dunno, maybe its a good thing?

Don't be afraid to be honest. Use an alias if you want to.

well, for the anatomically and directionally challenged, as well as those who perfer to do the nasty in the dark, i'd say it simplifies things considerably

But just ask! My clit is on the bigger size~ So I would be happy if a gent didn't say its the size of a cocktail frank.

Its a great thing, I think he loved ya!

Kisses, Shane

He thought it was positive. It kind of turns me off.

I had an gf in high school once who told all her friends that my cock was the same size as her six month old baby brother's. At first I was really upset, but I know now that her baby brother grew up to be a very good looking man who gets laid all the time by hot looking women. So I know now that her comment about my dick was a compliment.

now that he mentions it, I do remember the size as. . . just kidding. Having read his review, I'm sure he was trying to be complimentary, although it does sound a bit creepy.

BTW, We did meet last year during a time when I had stopped writing reviews and I had a most excellent time.

Unless it's the size of a volkswagon microbus, then it's all good. Guys worry about dick size, women worry about tit size (and clit size). If everyone's dicks/tits/clits were all of uniform size/shape then what fun would it be?

Personally if a woman will let me touch/stroke/kiss/lick her tits/clit that is all that matters. If she doesn't then her size doesn't matter because I can't touch.

Why worry? Some people will like certain body attributes, some won't and some will not really care either way. Nothing you can do about it.

b-

I mean you didn't come up with the twist of phrase. An incompetent choice of words isn't your fault. Psychologically, it doesn't associate you with it in my mind. No, as far as I'm concerned, it does no harm.

Well dang it. I wish you'd written a review. Chances are I would know who you are!

I guess you will just have to come back and see me again so you can write up that review

PS. In regard to your thread below - Sorry about faking those orgasms! Next time I will try to actually squeeze your head off instead of just permanently embedding your ears in head *kidding*

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Big or small I love to suck and nibble them all! As long as the lady enjoys DATY I don't really care if her clit is huge, tiny, or anything in between.

If you ever decided to visit NYC, your outspokenness here would be a far greater factor than something that's mentioned in a single review.  We hobbyist's don't make a decision based upon one review...it's the body of them that makes that!  Being an active participant on the boards is also a positive factor for many of us.  Have a good holiday...

Positive...gives a good responsive feel to the tongue.  Feel good about it. W.

Did he pull out an newborn's finger he happens to carry with him just for the purpose of making these comparisons?

J/K... I am not sure why we even go to the lengths to describe someone's anatomy... not all women with pronounced clits are any more aroused than the hooded and hard to find types... Be proud!

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Foe me, that's definitely a good thing. More toys to play with. With some ladies, it's so small that you're really not too sure that you're exactly in the right spot. If he said you were hung like a horse, then I'd be worried, but it sounds like you're just right.

I gotta get me some of that.  It is enticing to me.  Which may or may not be a good thing for you.  My review may be even weirder.  I can imagine one now - "her pinky finger is almost the size of a newborn's..."

and I would think you would get a similar response from other men who enjoy DATY.  So I think it's a good thing.  

In addition, it is may be a good thing that it is in the review.  Men for whom it would be an issue may go elsewhere, meaning you don't have a client unhappy over something not under your control.

Thanks to all who responded! I hate to admit that it bothered me, but it really did. That is just NOT how I would have liked to see my little flower described LOLOL.

Now my mind is at ease though. I appreciate the candor and honesty. You guys rock

Based on your photos on your website it was both an accurate AND complimentary description!

It would not influence my desire to see you, but it seems to be a clumsy attempt to say it is delicate, like a newborn's finger.

Some ladies have a clitoris and clitoral hood that is more prominent that other ladies'.  Some are the size of pencil points; others are larger.  I don't think it makes a particle of difference so long as the lady can relax and allow herself to be brought along towards orgasm and so long as the fellow understands that each lady is different and no one technique works for every lady.  Don't be embarrassed.  I am not sure why the fellow thought it appropriate to mention this feature--it's not really relevant.

that mine is larger then normal but it doesnt bother me...she is just standing at attention and always ready...lol

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I've dated girls with both impossible to find and prominent ones and truthfully it is like dating a girl with big and small tits. It ain't the size, it's how they are used that matters. Only time it might be an embarrassment is if you and he each drop your and and your click dwarfs his..... in size.

at what size do you wonder if she might be a  hermaphrodite????????????

It is a little bit TMI, but all i can say is:  that really turns some guys on fierce, and it really weirds out some guys equally.  It's definitely a polarizer.

tongue bath, my dear.

All clits are wonderful if they're responsive.  Larger ones are easier to find.  Love 'em all!

....her clit isn't bigger than my dick.

Doesnt matter whatsoever! Such knowledge would not affect my decision to see a provider.

Don't know how business is but seeing a sharp increase of new ladies advertising and an increase in low priced alternatives here in Toronto. My ATF's business is way down but she stopped advertising at the end of January as at the end of Feb she is out of the business so has been only seeing regulars but she told me they also have dropped off. She does thinks they are just adjusting and finding new ATFs.  I think I'll shelve activities after she quits for some time not related to financial reasons.  I'm concerned with all these new ladies starting there is an increased possibilities of picking up something from someone who has been with one who does not completely understand the safety and health needs when being in the business.

Its actually a fetish..Many  Men look for ladies with a large clitoris...

Absolutly it is a good thing!

Hope that is not asking too much... LOL

LOL , I'm sorry that's sort of entertaining. Well since we don't enter the clit, I don't really see what the significance of it's size is. I like a pretty small one, but a big one doesn't scare me or something. My ex had a pretty big clit, and DATY for her was very erotic because it was sensitive. Didn't do much for me, but someone elses' pleasure can drive yours.

It doesn't effect intercourse, and arguably makes DATY easier, and isn't a huge turn off unless it's extremely abonormal.

I think you are ok.

...it's one of the few things TER doesn't list.  Perhaps they should start?