Do women really enjoy getting spanked during sex or is it just a "porn" thing???

I have met women (providers and non)who say they enjoy various forms of spanking.  I think it is the turn on of being controlled / being in control, but what do I know.  I think the same goes for hair pulling, biting, scratching, being tied up, slapping, name calling etc.  In the heat of the moment it is sometimes strange what turns one on.

as NetM said there is a right and wrong to do it. You never just start wailing on someone ass. Start first by asking her if she likes it or not. Then light slaps to warm up the ass.Then massage a bit . You work up to something harder as you go.

Some do. An old girlfriend loved to be spanked while riding me cowgirl. She said it produced "interesting sensations." She also enjoyed it outside of intercourse, sine she was slightly submissive in bed.

--b.

I love having a man take control and keep me in line.  

As Redheadedbbw wrote, start slowly and ask before you do it.  Everyone has different limits, and some women don't like it all.

-- Modified on 8/23/2005 11:36:48 PM