Have you ever seen a girl in the real world and said to yourself thats a provider!?

Especially when it was a hooker I knew. lol

...and my mind is all female.

I did when an actual provider came to my former place of business. I recognized her from her ads but I didn't give her any inclination that I knew who she was or what she did. I don't remember what she purchased, but I do remember she wore a sexy form fitting cocktail dress.

I always see providers hanging out at the bar at TAO in nyc

And even a couple of times in a supermarket. But mostly, if I'm somewhere where I would not expect to run into a provider, it seldom crosses my mind that any woman passing by would be anything in particular.

Airports, bars and sometimes even on the subway

Ktown in Los Angeles on any given day and there are dozens of Kgirls walking around on their days off.

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I dare you to call this dude a hooker...😎

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This is especially true when there is a larger than usual age gap in the pair. I've been on a date with a client, and upon seeing another pair, we immediately looked at each other and said "professional". We both laughed for a while about it.

I was in LA over the summer staying at a trendy upscale hotel and my date and I dined at the on-site restaurant. It was clear we weren't the only "couple" following the same game plan. Many knowing looks and sly nodes were exchanged...

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Isn't that a more likely explanation?

But one can argue those are professional too. Instead of paying hourly, those guys pay daily.

At Burger King when I saw this really hot latina get into the back seat of this car, black dude was driving, and there was no one riding shotgun. Back of my mind, I thought she was a backpage provider and that was her driver/pimp.

...HA!..just happened to me..in a Pink store,looking for a gift for the date i was having...saw a VERY attractive woman...she had that attitude...said "hi"...asked if the letters TER meant anything to her...guessed right...we had that nervous laugh...have appt 4 next Wed

and I have to say that guy does not speak for all of us. I may be conservative on actual, real issues, but I've been around long enough to learn to not judge individuals before I know anything about them.

at band camp!

My "provider radar" seems to have gotten more sensitive over the years. LOL  It's becoming easier to tell if a lady might be a provider.  

Whenever I'm out on a dinner date with my ATF, we both can easily spot other client/provider couples.  Sometimes it's pretty obvious, especially when you see an old guy with a younger lady and you know by their actions that she's is not his daughter

When two people have been together for a while (even in the hobby) there is generally a different way that people move together and interact. They understand instinctively how to move together through a space. These two people did not seem to have that.

it is not too difficult sometimes...especially in Las Vegas strip hotels or other hotels that are regular playgrounds...

We're sure you can come up with other tells and the age gap can be (but isn't always a tell), but here is one that is often a clear clue:

The large purse that really doesn't seem to be appropriate for the cocktail dress.

I had an ex hooker GF who was thirty years younger than me. When we first got together we got the usual stupid questions "Is this your niece?" and checking into hotels together always got us raised eyebrows, but after a few years people just looked at us and the way we interacted with each other and assumed we were husband and wife, despite the 30 year age difference.