There are many things that I do both in P4P and civvie sex, and getting a wash cloth is one of them. Well actually in P4P it's the lady who most often gets up to get the wash cloth, just one of the perks of P4P. lol

And why do you feel so guilty about seeing hookers? It's not like you are even cheating on anyone, are you?

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For instance.. I keep getting up to get a woman a warm washcloth if I jizz on her! It's a habit, and after I cum.. I just do it.  
I have seriously tried to remember not to do it! I still fucking do it.
Would that raise an alarm?
The women are taken by the gesture every time... But if they knew where I learned it, I doubt they would understand.
I hate feeling guilty for seeing escorts. Shit! I get warm washcloths for girls now! LMAO :

Man. You are making me feel stupid....

that you get up and get a wash cloth? Aren't you supposed to be a lazy bastard? At least that's what you've been telling us.  

Other than that, I agree with you.  

Hound... you worry too damn much.  Can't you just enjoy it without getting all conflicted? SMH.

and the intended direction of the thread.

Jezzzz. I set you guys up, and....

I've had it wrong all these years?  Damn, I knew I shouldn't have listened to Otter.

I'm smart enough to stash a clean hand towel under the pillow.  (Try to find it after the action!)  I keep the Joy of Sex in the night table, with cosmo clippings in the cover...  in case there's a move she didn't recognize, I can say I read about it.  Much preferable to saying where I really learned it!

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I had dearly hoped you were kidding when you said you got up to get her a wash cloth.  If you had not been, I'm afraid I would have had to disown you.  And I have a substantial estate.

You would be very surprised what a warm washcloth will do to an unsuspecting civie woman..

They think i Jizz, and leave to watch TV or something..
Next time I can't tear them off of my dick. Just sayin'

The basic rule is "if you make a mess (generally) you clean it up."  The hobby is different:  you are paying for a service, and if you make a mess, the provider of the service cleans up, whether at a restaurant, a bed, or whatever.  

If you get a haircut, do you feel you have to clean up after your shorn locks have dropped on the floor?  No brainers here.

Why would you even worry about this?  You've become a more thoughtful lover... can't see a problem here.

And anyway, if you did actually get 'busted', that would mean the woman in question knows about the biz, herself... which means she'd have just as much 'splainin to do as you.

It was all about how a girl saw a bottle of this honeysuckle dust an escort told me was cool to rub on a girl and taste. So I didn't know what to say, and fucked it all up.. okay. i said it


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You can always tell her this was something you picked up while working in a massage parlor.

What the fuck is the difference.

Oh yeah....one gets paid and the other...gets paid?

How about snapping that backbone into place?  And put those balls back on.

I'm never amazed at the lack of self-esteem of some dudes.

I didn't expect to learn more than just how to fuck here okay?!?
Lay off.. Ill get there.

You don't get it...
I'm embarrassed of the cool things i have learned.  

I'm saddened by the fact that you are so sure you are enlightened, and know it all?
how come?

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That is my job.

How come? How come what... why your are saddened by the fact I'm so sure I'm enlightened, and know it all?

C'mon man. I am sitting here thanking everyone here for helping me out of my rut...
Where are you? let go a little. Jeezze.  I everyone so? Asshole?

Your posts have been consistent in that IMHO.

Try and find some confidence somewhere so you aren't still posting this pathetic drivel in 30 years.

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What a dick..
Don't worry. In 30 years you will probably be dead

WHO CARES?

I guess I'm weird, but I'm not interested in sharing my body intimately with someone who doesn't accept me for me.  Every person I've dated or had sexual activity with knows about my escorting.  I feel it's only ethical to be honest, because I do believe my partners have a right to know about my sexual history / activity.  If they don't like it, they can fool around with someone else.  I'm not going to hide or be ashamed of who I am.  I understand this is a barrier for lots of potential dating or sex partners, and that's okay.  I don't begrudge them their preferences, I just move on.

Don't ever apologize for being who you are. If some chick doesn't like it she can find some other guy to fuck.  You're clearly far from desperate and have the means to obtain sexual gratification in a variety of ways.

Letting go is no fun I enjoy being serious all of the time.

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Im busted then! Whoops

As a man who has been married for 20 yrs, even before I saw my first P4P and for years before I was even married, with every girl I ALWAYS washed them off afterwards.    I look at it as proper manners and it does not matter who the girl, pay or civi; "You made the mess, clean it up".

But then again it goes with my mantra of treating the girls with respect rather than as objects.   I know allot of you will disagree, but hey there must be something to it since I tend to get free, off the clock time from them (where they call me to get together rather than the other way around

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