This is a question for the guys since ladies will not admit to BBFS service since ibis bad business.
But the ladies opinions are always welcome.
Within the past year, BBFS (with and without testing) requests have been frequent. My reply is "No!" or I don't reply at all. I also read the guy's reviews and make note of the providers he's had sex with, and I avoid accepting a rendezvous with the clients those providers have dated.
IMHO: Unprotected FS has a dangerous domino effect, and is a serious issue for the TER community.
As much as I hate Condoms, I totally agree.
So pretty much only see FC friendly providers.
I am new to this and my rule is oral WITH A CONDOM. Even though I HATE, HATE, HATE giving oral with protection, my life and health is worth way more.
If a client actually presented a clear std test, I'd be in heaven. I looooovvve sucking and getting sloppy. Condoms taste HORRIBLE. I think it is an awesome idea to present you std results, because I'd suck the hell outta ya.-- Modified on 2/7/2017 3:09:41 AM
Regardless of the general consensus, BBFS is very prevalent. Few offer it, but it is offered. Be careful what you read and how you interpret reviews, some reviewers fail to mention condom use, but that doesn't necessarily mean that they went Bare-back. Most times it is just implied that it's common knowledge.
But the ladies opinions are always welcome.
I am 58 and don't like the feel of condoms. I had started requesting bb while showing a recent STD test result. I am surprised at how many positive responses I get.
I don't want to debate the judgment in doing this. I just would like to hear if others are finding easier bb offerings in general or with test results.
BTW I generally stay covered with most providers. I just like option for when I am so close to coming and need a minute or two uncovered to get me over the finish line. (and, Yes, the length of time having unprotected sex is a factor in the risk )
In fact I have a mental block with condoms, it takes a lady who can get in my head enough to take my mind off of the fact that I have one on, to bring me to completion with one on.
That said, I wouldn't consider asking for bbfs, regardless of tested or not.I read about it on TER (that it happens), but I haven't experienced it myself. I never asked and I guess providers won't offer unless asked.
If you occasionally withdraw to change positions or for whatever reason ... a really bouncy CG for example - you can dislodge it.
They also require lube in very generous quantities and reapplication of same on a regular basis. From my point of view there is a trade off because I am constantly having to monitor it... I will say that the only times I have finished inside (excluding civvy) have been in an FC. Yes they are better- no they are not perfect.I had a SB who was separated from her hubby. I got us both tested and we played without protection. In any other scenario it's got be lovin with latex.
I have been offered it on two occasions and politely declined both. No, I am not going to mention who it was. I have this thing about my health.......and the health of my partner.
Would never consider it.