I booked a appointment two weeks ago .For a business trip. Sent several messages to confirm. All is well. the night comes. She is half hour than an hour, than one and half hours late. And walking up the 5 star hotel and texts me she cannot do it ! WTF ! If we post the truth other providers will not see us because of a bad review, but we need to let people know.
Is you can't write a review because you never actually met her. That happened to me once, couldn't warn others.
But you can't write a review as an alias and posting a thread saying "so and so is a time wasting bitch" will get deleted in a heart beat. If you see a girl and have a bad experience or she robs you, you can write a review because you met. If she stands you up, nada.
I know this because a lady did that to me twice years ago. Stood me up first night, apologized and offered to make it up to me night 2 - sAmerican thing. I learned, but TER refused to let me write a review about her because she never walked in the door.
Find it interesting that you're even talking about this and whining about your dilemma. And over thinking about your reputation and trying to be a saint. You have to realize that ladies runs their own businesses and at the end of the day, they have the right to refuse their services to anyone, she can change her mind, come up with elves, goblins, dragons and magical creatures as an excuse and nothing you can do about it. She doesn't want to fuck you. It's her own business her success and failures is it's up to her...I'm not questioning your abilities at all but looks like your little head has gotten over your big head. You can post any slander, stigma against this particular lady. but who cares. Move own man, there are plenty hot, exotic fish in the ocean that you can choose from...Chill dude...
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She did not profit off this, and no matter how frustrating and annoying it was for you, there's no reason to sound any alarm.
...it's still a valid point to warn others of a time waster. It happens way too often on both sides.
To the OP, post your experience on the local board or the RO board. If you don't want to name names then just drop it.Just not one about a session that never happened. But it's a way to let people know about bad behavior without exposing yourself.
and you can post on your local board about a NCNS, however this is not even that as she did, at least, call or text that she was not going to make it.
I suggest that the OP follow the advice of others and shrug this one off. Such an occurrence, while annoying, is way down on the list of shit that can befall oneShe might have had a good excuse we all have problems. Don't work yourself up about it your here to have fun. Use an agency and they will usually find someone suitable that might even be better. Several times I've had girls that were late, over slept, wrecks, sick kids, traffic, storms, etc. Some times 2 girls would cancel in a row and the agency would make me happy.
Yes it sucks that it happened.
But look at it this way, What if the rolls were revered and a hobbyist stood up a Provider. He would be blacklisted, labeled as a time waster on the the provider only board and on this local board. The same rules should apply to provider that stand up a hobbyiest. Why are we so easily letting some provider get away with poor behavior and we hobbyiest can get screwed over if we do the same thing.Just my thoughts on it
I suppose we all define "A bad provider " Differently..
Was she late, very late yes, is that cool, NO.. but I don't think that makes her a bad provider..
If she were drugged, crazy, robbed you, bait and switch,, even extra smelly. Those thing I believe make her a bad provider...............
As to this whole silliness about other providers won't see you because of a bad review. it is just that silly.. yes, I know some providers do it.. Again.. I think it is silly..................on either side....
Move on... there are tons of other ladies who will be more then happy to spend some time with you
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here are some providers that are quite capable of reading through the bullshit in reviews/words,
just like the guys are.
Providers know there are girls out there that deserve to have the light shone on their bad behavior.
because she is not living up to some Unattainable Fantasy in your head,
well then, that's when you'll start having challenges with girls wanting to spend time with you. My Opinion- If I were a client making an appointment with that girl,
I Would want to know that she was Late and then Cancels
I've either been very fortunate, very lucky or very discerning but I've not had a truly bad experience over all these years.
it's clear many guys have been taken advantage of. That's what TER is supposed to help avoid.
First of all TER reviews are useless.
They are rubber stamped, every single one sounds the same.
BUT, they're supposed to give a general idea of good, bad or just ok.
Her being late is one thing, being stood up after all of that is unacceptable.
I'd post her as a ripoff UNLESS she decided not to meet you after you made her uncomfortable about being late
because up until yours. Fancy was the one who said it best. Isn't that a scary thought? lol
But yes, I firmly believe in warning the community by making a very similar post on his regional board, but on that post "naming names" Bad behavior "should" have negative consequences.I certainly empathize with you as its happened to me. Your choice, we actually make the choice equally ya know, is to try to reconnect or move on. No wrong answer either way
When you're traveling, it might make sense to have a backup plan. Maybe an agency that specializes in "after hours" liaisons like After Dark in Boston. They're great. Check which agencies may provide similar services in towns you're visit. DO YOUR HOMEWORK. I've been NCNS by a regular, was appropriately pissed, and moved on. Contacted her 6 months later as she mentioned falling in love prior to the NCNS. I noticed activity on her p411, reached out to her, cleared the air and now have an open invite to play. It should be fun. She recently got new boobs and she plumped up her butt. She was smokin b4, now what? 👀 Either way, if you have the reputation of being a gentleman monger, maintain you decorum. Show some class even if you're a slut....like me. LOL
I'd recomend not booking in advance, saves you the hassel whhen the lady does not show.
If a bank give any body a bad credit report we need to protest that bank even if the person did not make there payments. The big concern I have is if see a ymv girl.
The negative response of providers to your post proves your point. If you have documented proof of the encounter, a review should be allowed. Each person can judge the value of your review for themselves
With the exception being the robber and maybe crazy depending on the nature and degree. It all equals me walking out cash in hand, and very unhappy. My time is very important to me. So important it out ways the value of the cash I am spending on a session by a lot. I have enough money but time that is another thing. If a lady has a history of wasting guys time, being late, and the like she is an extremely bad provider.
But one time doesn't necessarily make a history. Life does happen and sometimes understanding is in order. How she responds to this event and if this is frequent is the deciding factor if she is a quality provider or not. I feel I am a quality client. I had to cancel an hour before a session once. My kid got sick and my sitter needed me to pick him up. But I rescheduled and slipped an extra 50% in the envelope without even her asking for it. It was a one time thing and I did things to make up for wasting her time. How one responds to a life happens event determines quality in these situations. And let's be real for a second. The public blacklist sites are literally full of guys being outed with their real names for exactly what this lady did. If he feels she deliberately wasted his time he is in his rights to post it on the local board using her business name it is in his right to do so. I wouldn't do it as I get life happens. But businesses do get commented on when they leave there clients wanting. And this is a business you ladies run like it or not. My official advice to this guy is just to forget it. If she isn't apologetic and offering to make it right, simply move on and drop it. Life happens and her reasons could be legitimate. She could be a quality lady that had a real issue come up last second or she could be a flaky time waster. If I wasn't sure which she was I would just drop it. I would hope the ladies are willing to give me the benefit of a doubt and I feel it is right to return that same benifit of a doubt. It is your choice. I would just move on to the next ladyFancy and GYBO gave the best responses which to paraphrase were "out the bitch"
And just how can he have documented proof of an "encounter" when there NEVER was an encounter? TER rules are very clear in this regard. I agree there should be "somewhere" that NCNS could be archived, but so far that's not an option. His only real option, aside from sucking it up and moving on it to out her on his regional board. Just remember if you don't "name names" you aren't helping, you are just whining.
who the provider is. 99% of whines of this type never provide a "name" here. And while I empathize with the "victims" ... well, we
only get one side of the story.
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Where are you seeing provider backlash in this thread?
If a review were allowed, he could use an alias. As it stands, he is perfectly able to call her out on his regional board. I doubt many providers would go on record as condoning such behavior. Not to mention, if the provider in question had a fair shot at explaining herself on a board and did not, that would perhaps only strengthen his case.Which would 100% prove his point and be a GREAT warning for the community.
BTW, this has happened MANY times on the various regional boards, and even though the warning falls off the first page rather quickly, people on this site have LONG memories and hooker meltdowns are rarely forgotten.talk to my buddy who's got a rare blood cancer, and the medicine he's taking is putting his liver at stage 3 failure. by comparison yours is not the worst thing to happen.
that being said, you could post under an alias on your local board and out the lady. name names and tell exactly what happened.At least she did eventually let you know. It would be nice if she made it up to you or you have the option of booking someone else.
A well reviewed provider went dark on me the morning of... instead of sending me her hotel location. Foolishly, I waited & tried to contact so my opportunity was lost. I couldn't review because we'd never met. I would rather have had your message "Can't make it" because I would have had the opportunity to attempt a second choice booking. My only consolation is I will never give her the opportunity to wate my time again.or gift cards you have sent for a discount/special they are running as well as the gifts you have sent in excess of 150 bucks, happened to me.....and nope , i will NOT be seeing said provider or getting my money back.......at least you were only out your hotel money.
You can post an an advisory on your local board. This is useless, of course, unless you name names.
As for hurting your reputation, you need to decide whether any potential negative blowback is worth it.What about your review of "Ashley" in which you had issues with 2 guys in the room and a credit card and gave her a 1 on looks and a 1 on performance ? What prevents you from doing something similar in the situation you outline?
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And sadly, it happens to us too! (speaking for myself) 
Not for what you said on this thread. You actually made sense in this thread, but you have built a mountain of bat guano that a couple of lucid posts couldn't possibly undo.
I would be very interested in knowing just who would have even the least interest in sending you an email.What is the challenge in posting under "Rip Off" ?? There are several posts each month under that category........
I would be very interested in knowing just who would have even the least interest in sending you an email.
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...one of Rips girls, found a ghost writer
I would be very interested in knowing just who would have even the least interest in sending you an email.
I would be very interested in knowing just who would have even the least interest in sending you an email.[/quote If I could post it on the board so everybody could see nasty message from hooker..Hard for me to get picture attached.GaGambler like showing his ass about me and my posts.LMAO
Hating you would be like hating the housefly buzzing around my home, or the cockroach that leaves droppings all around my house. Someone would have to actually make an impact on my life to rise to the level of hatred. No, you are simply annoying
proves there are some stupid guys out there ...
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But then again there's always 3 sides of the story, yours, hers & the actual truth!!!
Don't know about all that.
Don't hate you or love you but sometimes wonder just exactly what planet you came from
ashamed for wasting the $00.000000000000000000000000000000000000001 worth of bandwidth it to call her BSC that is.
Dammit, now I just did the same. Bad GaGambler, Bad SweetMelissa, BOTH of us should be ashamed of ourselves. lmaoThis was not the case when I had my NCNS - but good to know now.
I will profess a profound love of her however.
She exemplifies simplicity at its elegant best. Her posts only seem confusing because they are so simple. This is an aesthetic that I love, and wish I could nurture myself. She is the board's Greek Chorusi agree w/you about what reviews should be.
i personally think there should only be 3 categories instead of a numerical system: will repeat, won't repeat, ymmv (the last one meaning the lady was competent and worthwhile but didn't ring my bells; maybe she'll ring yours).it does happen to people on both sides of the bed.
and many times there are legitimate reasons for cancelling at the last second. and many times there are no legitimate business reasons for cancelling. however, whoever does the canceling has a responsiblity to let the other person know asap, and to offer a rescheduling. going dark completely is unprofessional and rude, whether it's a client or provider doing it. how difficult is it to shoot a text and/or quick email (esp. in these days of smart phones) to say "emergency came up, can't make it, will contact later to reschedule" ? and then later attempt to communicate and negotiate another time. shit happens, life happens, but true ladies and gentlemen don't let their scheduled dates bare the brunt of the inconvenience.had a lady (and i use the term very, very loosely) cancel on me only after i had arrived at her apt. building and she saw me in the parking garage. cancelled to my face, turned around and got in the elevator and left me standing.
i posted on the local board, did not name her, but said anyone who wanted to could pm me for info. i answered a lot of pm's naming her name. (and she was a top rated provider in this city!) never had any negative blow back. saw many a lovely lady after that. i agree w/most people here, this thread is kind of a whine, the op needs to post on the local board and name names. or else man up and move on.read all the posts. or at least read the ter rules. the op can't post a review, because he didn't actually see the woman for a session.
fancy may need translating with a gibberish to english dictionary, but once her meaning is discerned, it's actually usually 100% right on.
most times it's usually something that goes without saying ("hookers charge money, clients pay") but so what. i admire her courage of her convictions. no need for private rudeness, melissa; sounds like you're not so sweet after all.he didn't see the lady... no reviews unless an actual meeting occurred.
he mis-uses the word 'review.'And I kind of like them. She has grown into one of my favorite posters. Now I don't always agree, but at least it is usually a quick and to the point read. Unlike my gibberish where I write a damn book at times and say little.
She exemplifies simplicity at its elegant best. Her posts only seem confusing because they are so simple. This is an aesthetic that I love, and wish I could nurture myself.
She is the board's Greek Chorus.
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I get you're only 300.00 an hour but that's entirely too much from what I'm looking at and hearing. If you can't dazzle em with brilliance, baffle them with bullshit. That only works when you're looks are stupendous. Not trying to be mean here but at best you're a 5 in looks and the slang brings the overall score down more.
Maybe negative attention beats none at all? I'm sure there's plenty in this forum that view you as their 1 in a lifetime, bullshit grammar and all...i hate it when she just quotes the previous poster and adds nothing... wastes a whole mouse click for me!!!
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