is good looking a 6 or 7 to you? For me, they're not what I'd call beautiful, please excuse my judgemental subjective analysis. Some latitude here, your honor.
None of us are magicians and can make every dead fish come to life, but take some responsibility here dude. You said ALL.
Have you heard of submissive? Again, read reviews.
Now if they're drop dead beautiful and still dead fish, that's a different problem, Again it's you. At least you can have at it and not return? That can feel GOOD too.
Pretend it's a civvie that you want more than anything in the world and tell her. She may even believe you and fuck your brain out.
It's a game, a fantasy and you shoukd be part of it. If you go in acting like OK, I'm here, you better have a lot of cache .... and cash too!
You need to change your mindset or maybe just ask to be blindfolded ... perhaps that will help you and give
your date some interest in rocking your world.
I hope you have better luck in the future. Oh ... yea ... sometime we need to make our own luck.