i only bring this up because 2 ladies i am currently in email contact with to set up dates have both responded to my initial contact with "thank you so much for thinking of me!" as their first words.  i know in reality it's just good marketing, but it does flatter my male ego that a lady would thank me for my interest in her.  

needless to say i am well on my way to setting dates with both of them!

what other little things go a long way towards your decision to see someone?  i am talking to both men and women on this board with this question.

I have been doing this for approximately 19 to 21 years. So, to me a "NICE TOUCH" is excellent communication(When it comes to details--So, that we are both on the same page), Some pleasant words of honesty ("Thank You. I truly enjoyed myself & I'm pleased. I will return.") &/or Great review/recommandations to others that maybe looking for females like us is a plus. I think that if a hobbyist likes the Provider, then He/she should spread the word in a respectful & Discreet manner.

When she responds with a picture of her wet juicy crack....lol.....Nah, BPJ, those are nice touches, have fun.

I love it when it's clear from her ads, web site, board posts, and emails/PMs that the provider has a positive attitude, is playful and fun-loving, demonstrates respect (eg professionalism) and kindness towards others, and has a sharp intellect/wit and knows how to use it. Also that she communicates clearly.  There's a few other things but I'll resist the urge to write a thesis on this subject.  

Something as small as saying "Thank you for thinking of me!" stands out, because not all providers seem to realize the importance of that kind of courtesy when communicating with clients.

..hmmmm...maybe that's a big thing.

I just responded to a message with, 'nice to virtually meet you'!  

It is a digital world here at TER, but meeting in person is so much more fun

Good point virtual reality pays off.

TER PM? no reply. and she even posted in the Ad Board.

email? no reply.

I wonder if girls even care at all about business.

I like that!  
 

Some of us providers get a bazillion emails daily.its impossible to respond to all of them if were getting 100+ emails at once.we don't sit on our phones or computers all day.Some of you need to be more realistic -_-

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So true, and a great point! I try to make it clear in my communication that I'm flattered and excited to be able to meet someone new.
Likewise, I love when a guy making an inquiry is polite, says Please and Thank you, and is general cordial and positive. It makes such a good first impression!

All escorts are flattered to meet new paying clients.No special touch is free.

with a bazillion leads, you must be riiiiich after lead conversion

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A little flirting goes a long way! Not just some dry respond. I like to see a little bit of personality on an email exchange!

I have that phrase on my website and use it in initial inquiries.

There are soooo many beautiful ladies available that I am flattered when a gent picks me!

I guess all three of us had the same thought.

xo

While some guys may wonder if it's something about them or their approach, you reach for the far more logical idea that we just don't care at all about business. It's true. We can't stand business. The ads, discussion posts, threADs, flattering photos, and review manipulation around here are all just for shits and giggles.  

Our loathing of generating income makes your lack of responses particularly puzzling, what with your courageous efforts to make sure we aren't burdened too much money. I guess some of us are still leery of guys who bitch about providers who refuse p2p. Just remember that it's not health issues we are concerned about with that; along with money, we hate fun.

A true ray of sunshine !  Thanks for sharing 😘

I find it absolutely shocking that women are not replying to your emails... just shocking.

If you respond to my respectful emails, I applaud you.

but let's not sugarcoat this shit and deny that SOME providers just plain suck at administration.  

 

you seem to think that being controversial on a message board translates to being the same in private.

many people are perfectly capable of balancing two facades.

That was funny and totally unexpected 😂😂😂😂😂

That's nevah going to happen lol

tell me that my introduction email was one of the nicest ones she'd ever gotten. I got the warm fuzzies and I haven't even met her yet! We ended up riffing back and forth about a few things and I'm anticipating our visit

Whether or not they can successfully maintain a separate 'facade' in private, I do believe that it is a part of their character that will manifest itself in their actions and/or communication, to a greater or lesser extent.  

If someone is so cynical about escorts, it will bleed into their words and actions... whether they are aware of it, or not. Sometimes, it's nearly imperceptible... but still, an astute girl might notice small details... one word that seems 'off', for example.  

When I talk about picking up on a 'vibe,' I guess that's what I mean.

I don't want to see people who put on a facade of being nice... because facades crack. I want to see nice people. And generally, I do And even when I don't (it happens) there's that feeling of, 'I should have known when he did ___! I should have listened to my gut.'

I personally rarely just ignore an email altogether (aside from those 'U avail? Gr33k? $5hh?' emails). There has to be something that makes me STRONGLY not want to answer.  

 

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after a bbbjtcws. It's more real than a good marketing! lol

Generally, I try to send a "Thank you, it was lovely to meet you; Thank you for dinner etc." email or text right after our encounter. Definitely not a jawdropper, but I like to show appreciation and thank you notes in any profession are always nice touch!